From birth to the age of one, the baby is the first step on the long road of life, in this short year, parents can experience the hardships of carrying a baby.
As a parent to the baby's upbringing is their own way, the baby also has its own personality, good to bring the baby to eat and sleep, wake up and cry, and even sleep until dawn, the old man often says that such a baby is to repay the favor; not good to bring the baby, hungry to cry, awake to cry, sleep during the day and sleep at night, the key is not to know why to cry, why make trouble, this is probably what we often say about the high demand baby.
The Hills Encyclopedia of Intimate Parenting describes high-demand babies this way: their cries are not just requests, but urgent requests, these babies use more energy in everything, they cry loudly, they gobble up, and they laugh extra vigorously. If the request is not met, the temper is particularly large, and if the feeling is blocked, the reaction will be stronger!
What is it like to have a high-demand baby? Here's what moms have to say:
A: My baby is more than three months old, may already know me, as long as I am not in her line of sight, she is determined to make trouble, no matter who coaxes it is useless, when crying cheerfully, see me, can immediately hold back tears.
B: My child is more than 6 months old, every day to sleep must hold him and sing and dance, before he falls asleep, if he stops moving and sounding, he is immediately unhappy to stand up, too tired.
C: My son is almost a year old, occasionally like to watch TV, as long as the characters on TV cry, he is determined to cry, and he does not let people coax, do not let tears, is to cry, cry enough to stop.
D: I don't know how to raise a child, every day I have to pull my hair to sleep to fall asleep, I have to cut my hair short, he still has to pull, is this the rhythm of shaving my head?
It seems that mothers have "opinions" about their babies, but in fact, these belong to high-demand babies, which means that they are too harsh, fragile, sensitive, and their small bodies hide personality ages that are completely incompatible with them.
Among them, super clingy is a significant feature, whether in the arms or on the sofa, sleeping, high-demand babies are eager to get close contact from the mother.
Although babies with high demand are not easy to carry, they are smart and have a high IQ
In some cases, although high-demand babies are harsh and sensitive, they are also guided by such personalities to think, and may be higher than other children in terms of intelligence.
Because:
High sensitivity
For people I don't know, or people I don't like, they show different attitudes, dislike is dislike, I won't let down my guard because you coax me.
As children age, this sensitivity makes it easier for children to see things clearly and allows them to focus more on thinking.
Energetic
Obviously want to sleep, but did not achieve their own purpose, hard to support not sleep, small head non-stop operation, this abundant energy will turn into motivation, and when the child is slightly older, the efficiency of doing things will be higher than others.
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High-demand babies will not be sloppy about their own things, just like children, before going to bed, they must pull their mother's hair or drink milk before going to bed, if the mother does not let go one day, they will not give up, only to achieve the goal, they will laugh to complete the next thing.
For such children, the attitude towards learning in the future is also quite persistent, and those who love learning will become more like learning, which is their requirement for themselves.
Emotionally direct
The emotions expressed by such children are magnified, they feel more emotions than others, it can be said that the expression is very direct, crying is crying, laughing is laughing.
Similarly, such a child will be more dependent on his mother, and as long as his mother says that he does not love him, he will be more upset, rather than thinking that his mother is teasing himself.
My cousin's family has a high demand baby, may be the reason why the mother brought up from childhood, this child and the mother's relationship is very good, in the mother gave birth to the second child is not by her side for a few days, she does not sleep much, at night dreaming that the mother still cries out of the sound. Fortunately, the child understands things, knows that the mother gives birth to the baby in the hospital, does not make a fuss about the mother to go home, every time the video tells the mother to take care of herself, see the mother's dress, she is distressed to cry.
We often say that there is any hard work to say about raising such a child, don't you think everything is worth it?
There are high-demand babies at home, how do mothers do it?
Respond to children in time: The inner thoughts of high-demand babies are more delicate than those of other children, and when expressing emotions with adults, mothers must respond to babies in time to understand their various needs in order to make them more trusted.
Spend more time with your children: Whether it is a high-demand baby or not, parents should accompany their children more, but the dependence of high-demand children on their mothers will be stronger, so mothers should express more love for their children and let their children feel satisfied.
Identify with children: Every child has its own personality, although high-demand babies sometimes catch mothers off guard, they are also eager for mothers to love themselves a little more, so mothers don't blame, don't push them away.
At last
Each baby is an independent individual, no baby is perfect, the family has high demand babies are also a kind of "blessing" for mothers, they are not good to bring, but they are better than smart, as long as the correct guidance, I believe there will be good gains, with a positive eye to look at the personality of their own baby!
Text: Abuti said parenting