Confinement is a crucial thing in a woman's life, if the confinement is not sitting well, it is likely to fall into the "confinement disease", then the second half of life will be tortured.
However, how many women sit on confinement and sit out of a stomach fire? To use a sentence to describe it: as if there has been a confinement, and it is as if it has not been sat.
After the cousin gave birth to the baby, because of the limited economic conditions, she could not invite the confinement sister-in-law and could not go to the confinement center, but the couple had no experience, so they had to let the mother-in-law take care of the confinement.
It was this decision that made her cousin feel very regretful, and she said that if there was a next time, she would not let her mother-in-law take care of The Confinement.
What the hell is going on?
It turned out that during the confinement period, the mother-in-law also did not let the cousin do it, that did not let the cousin do, almost drove the cousin crazy, the two often quarreled, just this month in the month, the two quarreled more than ten times.
The cousin thinks that the mother-in-law is too feudal, take the matter of washing her hair, for a whole month, the mother-in-law will not let her wash her hair; in the south, it is a june day, and it is uncomfortable not to wash her hair for a day, let alone a whole month?
The mother-in-law said that this is all for the good of the cousin, they did not pay attention to this point when they were confinement before, and washed their hair every three to five, and as a result, they often had migraines.
The cousin obviously did not believe her mother-in-law's words, so she secretly washed her hair every day when her mother-in-law did not pay attention. As a result, the mother-in-law found out and scolded her cousin, saying that her cousin "did not listen to the old man and suffered losses in front of her."
During the month, the two people are not accustomed to each other, so it is basically a big quarrel for three days and a small quarrel for two days.
Some people say that the moon feud can be remembered for a lifetime, is it true? Only those who have experienced it firsthand understand the taste.
But then again, is it true that you can't wash your hair during the month? In addition to not being able to wash your hair, what other provisions are controversial in the concept of the elderly?
Take stock of unreliable confinement behavior.
1. Do not wash your hair.
In the traditional confinement regulations, there is indeed a saying that you can't wash your hair, mainly because you are afraid that the mother will be cold and invaded by wet evil, thus falling into confinement disease, which often manifests as migraines after middle age.
Although there is some truth in this statement, it must also be divided into circumstances. The new era advocates scientific confinement, including the ability to wash your hair.
After giving birth to a child, Bao Mom's body will have some peculiar smell, and her hair will sweat a lot, if you add a hot day, it is really uncomfortable not to wash your hair.
When I was pregnant before, I also heard the old man say that I could not wash my hair for a month after giving birth, so I was very concerned about this problem, so I consulted an obstetrician after giving birth.
The results concluded that you can wash your hair 3-7 days after giving birth, and you should pay attention to two points when washing your hair.
One is not to wash it for too long, and the other is to quickly take a towel to dry the hair after washing the hair to avoid the cold.
2. Can not blow air conditioning.
This is also where my cousin and her mother-in-law argue more, and if the southern summer does not turn on the air conditioner, it is like a furnace.
However, her mother-in-law not only did not turn on the air conditioner for her, but even let her wear long sleeves and cotton pants, and she was eager to wrap her whole body tightly before stopping.
Can confinement turn on the air conditioner in the end? Or turn on the fan?
This point also I consulted the doctor, the doctor said of course, the hot day does not open the air conditioning and fans, who can stand it?
However, when opening the air conditioner or fan, we must also pay attention to two points, the first is that the air conditioner and the fan cannot be directly blown at the mother, and the second is that the temperature of the air conditioner should be controlled, not too cold, generally at 26-27 degrees is more appropriate.
In addition, the air conditioner can not be turned on all the time, after a few hours to pay attention to open the window ventilation.
3. To make a lot of supplements.
The older generation feels that the confinement period is to make up more, but in fact, it is not suitable for eating supplements within a week after giving birth to a child, because the mother's body is relatively weak, the gastrointestinal function has not been fully restored, if you take supplements, you may be "weak and not replenished".
Even after a week, don't make up for it, otherwise the mother may not be able to stand it, and it will affect the quality of the milk.
4. Drink more brown sugar water after childbirth.
Speaking of brown sugar water, I believe that many mothers are more familiar, the elderly in the family will always specially advise, after giving birth to children to drink brown sugar water, what is the special effect of this brown sugar water?
The effect of brown sugar water is mainly two, one is to restore physical strength, so that the mother can restore some energy after giving birth to a child; the second is to activate blood stasis and promote the discharge of lochia.
However, although brown sugar water is good, it cannot be greedy, and it is generally possible to drink it for about 1 week. If you drink too much brown sugar water, it will make the lochia increase and the discharge is inexhaustible.
5. Confinement can only eat vegetarian food.
Many places have this tradition, that is, during the confinement period of the mother, avoid eating and eating more vegetarian, such as green vegetables.
As a result, many mothers have three meals in the whole month in addition to greens or vegetables, at most a little meat, a month later, the mothers have a lot of malnutrition.
In addition to the above five pits, according to the customs of different places, there will be different regulations, such as eating more eggs during the month, not eating fruit, not eating salt, and so on.
These concepts are all wrong, but there are still many people who believe that they are still following the older generation's confinement method, and the "old man's words" are indeed some credible, but not everything is true.
Confinement is a major event in a woman's life, it is recommended that if the economic conditions permit, or ask the sister-in-law; if the economic conditions do not allow it, you can let the mother help take care of the confinement, try not to let the mother-in-law take care of the confinement.
This is not the meaning of abandoning the mother-in-law, but there will inevitably be some small friction in the month, and the mother-in-law is better than the mother-in-law, if there is a contradiction with the mother-in-law in the month, there will be a gap in everyone's heart after getting along.
Dear mothers, in addition to these moon pits mentioned above, do you have any "strange" regulations there?