Uncle Lover's Introduction:
Home is probably the softest place in everyone's heart, just like a soft cotton, when you go home you will feel comfortable, feel warm, this is the charm of home. But some people say that women have no home after marriage, because the mother's home is no longer a place where you can go if you want to go. And you may not have the comfort and freedom of being in your mother-in-law's house.
In fact, home has always existed, and the key is your own inner feelings and thoughts. There are reasons why some women are more and more reluctant to return to their mother's house after they get married. It's not that I don't want to go home, sometimes I can't help myself.
It is inconvenient to drag the family with the mouth
Why parents don't want their daughters to marry far away, that is, they are closer to their daughters, and when their daughters are homesick, they can go home casually. The distance between the mother's home is also one of the important factors for women to consider returning home after marriage.
Many times it is not that women get married and have no concern for their mother's family, you have to know that our parents gave birth to us and raised us, and our daughters must also be very worried about their parents, but going home is not such a simple thing. Women get married and have children, and their lives with children are not as simple as when they are alone, and there are constraints when they have children.
It is indeed inconvenient to drag the family with the mouth, and the reason why some people are reluctant to go home is because it is too far away to go home and it is inconvenient. Children have to go to school on weekdays, and children may also have to go to tutoring classes during holidays, and the time is not particularly sufficient.
If the two families are very close together, the woman may take time to go back after marrying, if it is a very far apart, it is really difficult for the woman to take time. Women are really very hard after marriage, both to take care of children and families and even work, if you weigh these things badly, then it is yourself who is affected. So many women choose not to go home, that is, to put all their minds on the small family.
Economic conditions do not allow it
Some women really miss their families very much after they get married. Our parents grew up with us, and of course we want to spend more time with them when they are old. However, there is always a big gap between real life and ideals.
Why women are reluctant to return to their mother's home after marriage is a very real problem. Sometimes it's not that you don't want to, it's that you don't have the ability. For women who marry far away, economic conditions are very important. Some women marry far away, and a plane high-speed rail ticket home costs hundreds of thousands of dollars, even if the woman is very homesick, she will not spend the money on this. Because this money may be the tuition fees of the child, or it may be the living expenses of the whole family for a month.
There is no way to empathize without suffering from others. Marriage is our own choice, but life is often forced to choose. Just like fish and bear paws can not have both, you choose to marry far away, and there are no economic conditions, then you can only silently endure the pain of lovesickness.
Don't want to bring emotions home
No matter how loving two people are before they get married, it doesn't affect all kinds of trivial things that happen after marriage. After marriage, the two may quarrel cold wars or even fights, etc., but after marriage you are an adult.
When you have your own children, you also have to learn to manage your emotions. Why some women are not willing to return to their mother's home after they get married, that is, they do not want their parents to see their grievances, we always want to present the best side to the family, so the married woman does not want to go home with emotions.
Uncle Epilogue:
No matter how old you are, your parents' home is always your harbor, and your parents' arms are still open to you. A woman who marries does not necessarily have no home, and the place where there is love and expectation is home. When given the choice, we're going to have to go home and see more, because parents are really looking forward to the days when you're around.