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Preface
When Zhou Bingyi and Hao Dongmei revisited the construction corps for the last time, standing on the suspension bridge that they often walked during love, they remembered the various love words they had said when they were young, and the deepest impression was the sentence: Gou rich, don't forget each other.
They looked at each other at each other, and yes, they did.
Who would have thought that such a couple who frothed with each other when they were young, worked together in middle age, and supported each other in old age once came to the situation of divorce, and I think the reason why Hao Dongmei and Zhou Bingyi's marriage can be happy and complete, Hao Dongmei's efforts and sacrifices are huge. As Zhou Bingyi said in his family letter to Zhou Bingkun and Zhou Rong before his death: "My greatest luck in life is to meet your sister-in-law. ”
Giving and sacrificing
Who in the marriage of Zhou Bingyi and Hao Dongmei has paid and sacrificed more?
Some people say it is Zhou Bingyi, and some people say it is Hao Dongmei.
When he was young, Zhou Bingyi did not abandon Hao Dongmei because her parents were overthrown, and even when leaders and friends advised him to break up with Hao Dongmei for the sake of his future, Zhou Bingyi resolutely gave up the opportunity for Hao Dongmei's career promotion.
At that time, "Pinch a piece of mud, pinch a you, shape me." I am born with you the same worm and die in the same rafter. The oath resounded throughout the birch forest.
After getting married, Hao Dongmei fell into a well while working in the countryside and fell ill, and was diagnosed by doctors as unable to have children. In order to protect her, Zhou Bingyi has always told his family that he cannot have children.
I have to say that Hao Dongmei is happy, and she has been firmly chosen by her lover.
However, the ultimate destination of the relationship between a man and a woman is marriage.
In the decades after marriage, Hao Dongmei's efforts and sacrifices were even longer.
"If you can help, try to help, if you can't help, don't help."
This sentence was said by Hao Dongmei's mother.
Zhou Bingyi went to the military factory, to Russia, to Hayang, to Beijing, in the days when he and Hao Dongmei were separated for a long time, Hao Dongmei relied on this sentence to support and unconditionally support Zhou Bingyi to do what he wanted to do.
Even Zhou Bingkun said: "Sometimes, I really feel sorry for my sister-in-law, the children of the Gaogan family married into our family, and for so many years, I and my brother have become cowherd weaver girls." ”
Divorce was filed twice
When Hao Dongmei was fifty years old, she and Zhou Bingyi twice filed for divorce.
That year, at the same time that Zhou Bingyi applied to the organization to transfer back to Jichun, Hao Dongmei also submitted her resignation to the hospital.
Over half a hundred years old, they wanted to end their separation, but because of the lack of communication, the original surprise turned into a fright.
Zhou Bingyi was transferred back, but Hao Dongmei also lost the job he loved.
There are no parents, no children, no job to love, only a husband who is too busy to touch the ground.
Seeing the scene where Hao Dongmei held the pennant of her former job and cried bitterly, she suddenly understood why the woman in front of her had such a big resentment. In this marriage, Hao Dongmei is a good wife, a good daughter-in-law, and a good sister-in-law, but she does not have herself.
Unbalanced because of not having yourself, confused because of not having yourself, and inferior because of not having yourself.
"How nice would it be if the spirited Secretary Zhou Bingyi Zhou were single!"
Filing for divorce is also due to low self-esteem.
Why didn't Zhou Bingyi divorce Hao Dongmei?
After Zhou Bingyi returned to Jichun, Hao Dongmei first proposed separation. Zhou Bingyi found that Hao Dongmei's mood was not right, he asked Hao Dongmei if he had menopause, and a sentence not only did not solve the problem but was angry that Hao Dongmei dropped the remote control.
Later, it is two people who have paid more and who sacrificed more than in these years: inverted doors, can not have children... Hurtful words always come casually.
Does Hao Dongmei really want a divorce?
She always remembered that Zhou Bingyi had a stomach problem, and when she packed her clothes, she would always help him prepare dried steamed buns.
Does Zhou Bingyi really want a divorce?
"Dongmei, you are my dearest relative, we have been so many years, you are like the other half that grew up on me, yes, I may often ignore this half, but when I really have to lose this half, I will know how much I hurt."
Zhou Bingyi will not divorce Hao Dongmei, not because of responsibility, not because of pity, but because of love.
Write at the end
Zhou Bingyi said: "Loving husband and wife is the most worth cherishing. ”
Deeply.
All marriages in the world are inseparable from friction, quarrels, sacrifices and sacrifices, but if two people still have love, then this marriage can still continue, and this continuation is inseparable from each other's cherishing.
For Hao Dongmei, Zhou Bingyi is determined:
"You are my lover, even if you shout that you want to divorce me, I have only one lover like you in my life."
For Zhou Bingyi, the moment Hao Dongmei saw his stomach cancer report sheet, all the grievances disappeared, only heartache.
Today's topic: What do you think of the marriage of Zhou Bingyi and Hao Dongmei? Welcome to leave a message to discuss.
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Author: Suzune Qinxin; every life is worthy of being cherished!