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Just after the wedding, the bookkeeper handed over the account book and the share of money to me, when sorting out the account book, I found that the account book and the money did not match at all, a whole difference of 20,000 yuan, I took this matter with my husband

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Just after the wedding, the bookkeeper handed over the account book and part of the money to me, when sorting out the account book, I found that the account book and the money did not match at all, a whole difference of 20,000 yuan, I told my husband about this matter, my husband's words made me stunned, and then, my view of the big brother completely changed.

I am from Fujian, my husband is from Heilongjiang, the two of us have been together for more than a year, and finally decided to get married, and the wedding will be held in my husband's hometown of Harbin.

Because the two families are too far apart, my parents plan to finish the wedding here and do it again in my hometown in Fujian, not as grand as this side, but also pay attention to it, after all, there are many relatives and friends over there, and we can't neglect people.

So in Harbin, this wedding, only a few of my close relatives came over, during the wedding, high-end friends were full of seats, there were many relatives on the husband's side, plus colleagues in his unit set up more than twenty tables.

Weddings are naturally indispensable with their share of money, the bookkeeper will be the guests' share of the money one by one to the account, we are busy for a day, tired to death. After the wedding, my husband had to send his eldest brother and sister-in-law home, I was still wondering, the eldest brother and sister-in-law went home, as for him personally sending it? But I think about it, the two brothers have had a deep relationship since childhood, and may have something to say.

The bookkeeper handed over the ledger and the share of the money to me, I was alone in the marriage room to look through the accounts, the first person in the ledger is my big uncle's name, it is written impressively with 20,000 yuan, I feel happy in my heart, my husband This big brother is really decent, with so much money.

However, when I finished counting the amount of money, I found that the amount of money in the ledger and the amount of money in my actual hand did not match, a difference of 20,000. I couldn't believe it, and I checked it three more times, and it still turned out to be 20,000.

Suddenly there is so much less, what's going on? As soon as my husband came home, I quickly asked him: "Less money, less than 20,000."

My husband was not surprised by what he said to me, hugged me and said, "Blame me, I didn't tell you this in advance, we have a custom here, that is, no matter what you do, brothers and sisters must follow the money, but in order to highlight the difference with others, you must follow more." However, the living conditions of each family are different, many brothers and sisters can not come up with so much money, they thought of such a trick, called "money on the account", deliberately write the amount of money a little larger, are for outsiders to see. No one knows exactly how much. For the first few days, I told the bookkeeper to write 20,000 to my eldest brother. ”

As soon as I heard that there was this custom, it was not so atmospheric, but I still had a big opinion on the big brother, his brother got married, he wrote a book money of 20,000, and did not follow a penny? Isn't that excessive?

I tried to suppress my breath and didn't expect that my husband's words made me completely explode, and my husband said to me: "Daughter-in-law, discuss something with you, can you lend me some money?"

I was immediately angry when I heard it, and said to my husband: "We just finished the wedding, didn't we say that the money was used for the down payment?" Marry you, I don't even have a marriage room, where is the spare money to borrow people? ”

My husband didn't talk when he heard me say this.

The next morning, I discussed with my husband to pay for the house, on a cold day, let my husband go downstairs first to start the car?

The eldest brother suddenly knocked on the door and brought an early breakfast, and the eldest uncle took out two sets of clothes and said, "This is a little bit of my heart for you and your sister-in-law, you are married, I am happy in my heart, the conditions at home are not good, and I have wronged you."

As soon as I looked, my breath rushed upwards, and I was prevaricating with two torn clothes? I said to him unceremoniously, "Isn't the share of money already written?" You don't have to send such valuable things. ”

With that, I turned my head and went back to the bedroom...

My husband called me to hurry downstairs, and when I went out, I found that the big uncle was already gone.

The house looked around and did not look at it, thinking of taking a good look in two days, back home, tired and did not want to move, just lay on the bed, the husband shouted in the bedroom at first: "Daughter-in-law, you come out, what is going on with this dress?"

I was yelled at by him and said, "What's the fuss about?" Not your good brother yet, came early in the morning and delivered two torn clothes. ”

The husband held out his hand and said, "What do you see here?"

I fixed my eyes on it, and there was 20,000 yuan in the pocket of the clothes. With a burst of joy in his heart, he quickly took over and said, "This is what a brother looks like."

The husband snatched the money over, you man, see the money eyes open, do you know what's going on?

I was confused by my husband, what's going on?

The husband said that in fact, the eldest brother had already paid 20,000 yuan on the day of his wedding, and he took it out of the account and secretly stuffed it back into his family's closet by taking advantage of the gap in sending the eldest brother home to sit upstairs.

The sister-in-law was sick, had a brain tumor, needed surgery, he could not ask the big brother for this money, so on the night of the wedding, he asked me if I could borrow some money from the big brother, I did not expect to be rejected by me, he felt that there was no room to marry did indeed treat me badly, so he did not mention it again.

I was stunned by my husband's words, the eldest brother and sister-in-law encountered such a difficult thing he actually hid from me, I got dressed, took the money to buy a house, and asked my husband to go to the hospital with me quickly.

My husband asked me why I was going?

I said, "Of course, it's to send money to the eldest brother and sister-in-law?" A house cannot be bought, and a person cannot be saved. ”

My husband looked at me and smiled, he said he didn't look at the wrong person, he found this good daughter-in-law. Friends, do you think I'm doing this right?

You are really a kind woman, from your husband does not even have a house, you are willing to marry him can be seen, you are not a material woman, and then you know the truth of the matter, you made a correct decision.

Obviously, your eldest brother's family is also a good person, and in the case of such great difficulties at home, he is willing to follow 20,000 yuan, and he sent the 20,000 yuan back, which carries the brother, the brother, your sister-in-law, and the mutual understanding between the four of you and your sister-in-law, and the heart is sympathetic and touching. I believe that you will definitely become happier and happier. Friends, do you think this wife is doing the right thing!

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