There are two brothers better not to build a self-built house together, a woman now encounters such a troublesome thing, the woman's husband has a brother, the family built a house for more than 3 years is finally completed, but the two brothers in the house but there is a contradiction, both want the 2nd floor.
Both brothers work outside, the house is managed by the family, and the house took more than 3 years to build a 3-story house. The room has been renovated, and the outside of the room has also been tiled, which is quite atmospheric.
When the house was first built, taking into account that the homestead was not enough, the two brothers were built together, and they did not think about so many details, just thinking that the house could be built is a good thing, the layout of the first floor and the second floor of the house is two bedrooms, one living room, two bathrooms and one kitchen.
When the third floor was built, the father took into account that the room was not enough, such as the eldest sister, they would have no place to live when they returned, so they made several rooms on the third floor.
After the house is renovated, the contradiction between the two brothers will slowly appear, in the end who wants the second floor and who wants the third floor, this is a problem, and the woman and her husband are not good to mention this sensitive question.
This time the two brothers came back from the outside for the New Year, by the way to sort out the hygiene of the new house, the big brother chose to be on the second floor, looking at the decoration dust on the ground, the woman thought of helping.
Unexpectedly, the big uncle was a little unhappy, and asked the woman in a half-joking tone, why don't you go to your own third floor to do hygiene, are you clean on the third floor? Run down to get me on the second floor.
The woman was very embarrassed after listening, and even a little overwhelmed, so she answered for a while and a half, but the woman understood in her heart that the eldest uncle was overtly and secretly saying that the second floor was his.
The second floor is good for a reason, there is a suite, there is a separate bathroom, the room is less, relatives will not live on the second floor every New Year's Festival, it is definitely on the third floor, and the second floor is not the top floor, it is cooler, and there is no need to climb more stairs.
The two brothers did not say anything about the house, but the action in secret was also clear at a glance, and the woman's husband also liked the second floor, but he was embarrassed to say that he wanted the second floor.
The woman also knows that the result of the division of the room has become a foregone conclusion, and she is also silently comforting herself, although there is no kitchen on the third floor, and there are few toilets but more rooms. More importantly, for the sake of family harmony.
Seeing this, the big brother's approach is indeed a bit excessive, but there may be his own reason, the rural people still have the idea of the older generation, that is, the eldest brother is the eldest, like the division of the house, the big brother feels that he should choose first. There may also be reasons why a woman's husband is afraid to speak up first.
In fact, this kind of thinking should not be there, the two brothers also have a bowl of water to level, the best way should be both sides to say their ideas, and then divide the room, when the opinion is not unified, you can use casting lots and the like, which can also play a fair effect.
Such a secret fight does hurt the feelings between the two brothers.
In addition, the old parents' ideas are also problematic, today's transportation is so convenient, even if the New Year's Day, there are more relatives who come to the house, and the people who stay at home for the night are very few, and they are all coming and going in a hurry. There is no need for so many rooms at all. One or two more rooms than you actually need.
The third floor and the second floor should be laid out in the same way, so as to avoid conflicts between the brothers, the two brothers do not say on the surface, and it is not the same thing in the interior.
In rural areas, families with many brothers still try not to build self-built houses together, and maintain appropriate distances, which will make brotherly feelings always exist. What do you think?
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