When Wang Jianlin started a business, a female boss invited him to dinner, paid 500 yuan less, and the waiter went to the private room and said: Boss, I'm sorry, there is a bottle of wine forgotten to give you, you need to make up the difference

When Wang Jianlin started a business, a female boss invited him to dinner, paid 500 yuan less, and the waiter went to the private room and said: Boss, sorry, there is a bottle of wine for you to forget, you need to make up the difference of 500 yuan. The female boss said: Your front desk is not written with cash in person, and you are not responsible for leaving the cabinet, that is your business, who miscalculates who pays.

The waiter almost cried out after hearing it, and said pleadingly: I am new, I don't understand the business, sorry to give you trouble, I hope you can forgive me, make up for the difference, I am also a part-time worker, a monthly salary of only 2500 yuan, if you do not make up, the boss will use my salary advance, this is the consumption list, you can check the next.

When Lao Wang heard this, he said, "Shall I pay?"

The female boss immediately said: Don't pay, this is not our responsibility, I will arrange someone to deal with this matter later, let's go back first, right?

Lao Wang saw that she said this and was not embarrassed to resign, back to the office, the female boss took out the contract for Lao Wang to sign, Lao Wang said: I want to sign this contract later, because I don't know enough about you, I want to consider it again.

As soon as the female boss heard it, she was anxious: Didn't you just say okay, sign it when you come back after eating, how to say that the change has changed?

Lao Wang said: I did say this just now, but after eating, I think we still have to understand each other, I'm sorry.

The female boss had no choice but to sign the contract later according to his wishes. In fact, Lao Wang is reluctant to sign a contract because he felt that this female boss had potential risks when he was eating just now, and he needed to understand it again to implement it.

Chinese-style rice game socializing, do not understand the 6 unspoken rules of the meal bureau, don't say that you understand the sophistication of people.

1: The leader invites the other leader to dinner, and you must understand the details of the seat.

We Chinese the norms are: the host (that is, the person who sends the banquet) sits in the middle of the top, the main invited guest is the main guest on the right side of the host, and the deputy guest is on the left side of the host, and the position must not be mistaken;

2: If the leader asks you to urge vegetables or buy cigarettes during the meal and other hints that make you leave, you must understand the meaning of this.

The leader is saying that this is something to say with other people, this matter is not convenient for others to be present, we must be interested in leaving, do not be silly and immediately urge to come back after the dish;

3: Even if the leader shows that he is very close to you, very familiar, like a friend, don't be stupid enough to really treat the leader as a friend.

4: At the wine table, do not passively wait for others to speak, be sure to talk to others warmly and sell yourself.

5: When touching a glass with others, be sure to make your wine glass slightly lower than the other party's wine glass, which is polite, but also a detail, do not lose big because of small;

6: At the wine table, be sure to pay attention to your words and deeds, even if you treat the waiter, be polite and polite.

Rules of the workplace:

1, if your position is relatively low, in the meal to add more tea and water to others, less talk and eat more vegetables.

2, in the toast, you can pay tribute to one person, but not one person to respect more than one person, unless you are a leader or highly respected.

3, the dinner is not to talk about business, but to eat well and drink well and then talk. Everyone was happy, and everything was easy.

4, the dinner bureau by the leader's criticism, do not argue more rebuttal, to smile and accept, take the initiative to punish themselves more wine and toast.

5, the meal is to pay attention to the status of the place, do not emotional, remember the purpose of your coming to the dinner.

If you invite guests to dinner, how can the opening toast be said to open up the atmosphere more easily? Here are 4 common examples:

First, please colleagues:

The first is the opening statement, "Usually work together, it is rare to have dinner together, today everyone has to relax a little, come to us to dry this cup of wine first, I wish our career as dry as possible!" ”

Second, please lead:

Today is very touching, thank you Mr. Zhang for being able to take time out of your busy schedule to come here for a small gathering, these years under your leadership we have gained a lot, we will toast you first!

Third, please customers:

Thank you General Manager Liu for coming, the smooth development of our business is inseparable from your support and care for us, we first toast you a cup, I wish us a happy future cooperation.

4. Ask relatives:

Today there are so many people in the family, I am particularly happy, usually we are only in the New Year's Festival to get together, today just take advantage of my mother's birthday, everyone must eat well and drink well, are their own family, don't be polite, come and go, wish my mother a happy birthday, but also wish everyone everything is smooth!

We attend dinners with leaders, and we often have the following situations, so we should pay special attention to them:

1. The leader asks you to go out to urge the waiter to serve, sometimes it is really not to call you really urge the dish, just tell you to avoid it, he has more private things to talk to the customer.

2. The leader has not finished toasting the guests in the first 3 glasses of wine, you go to toast the guests, which is a very impolite behavior, it is estimated that you will no longer take you out to participate in the liquor bureau, and more seriously, you will be kicked out of his circle by the leader.

3. When participating in the dinner with the leader, do not wait for the leader to pay the bill, it is best to go to the bathroom to buy the order at the end of the meal, the leader will look up at you a few times, he will say that you will come, high emotional intelligence.

4. Participate in the dinner, after the leader orders the first dish, give the menu to us to order, the price of our order is best not to exceed the price of the dish ordered by the leader, which is to give the leader face.

5. And the leader to participate in the dinner, the leader and guests let us order, do not put their own brains on their favorite dishes, but also have to ask customers and leaders what taboos, let them think that you are a person who can take care of the feelings of others.

Now you can think back to your own experience, what you did inappropriately at the dinner table in those years, and what kind of troubles happened. You know, especially in this kind of business dinner, it is really a full embodiment of a person's emotional intelligence and ability, because your strengths and weaknesses will be infinitely magnified.

In China, most of the business and network are derived from socializing, people who will socialize, will make good use of every opportunity, expand their networks, use all the opportunities to perform, get the favor of the other party, thus promoting a business, both signed a contract, but also made friends, only such a person, in order to shine in the workplace, get the favor of leaders, step by step.