After the 2.48 million demolition funds came down, I divided it into three equal parts, one for each of my two sons, and one for my own, and the younger son said to me: "Dad, your distribution is unreasonable, you are now living in your brother's house.

When the 2.48 million yuan of demolition money came down, I divided it into three equal parts, one for each of my two sons, and one for myself, and the younger son said to me: "Dad, you are not reasonable in this distribution, you are now living in your brother's house, which means that your brother has received a double share, and you quickly moved to my house." I broke out in a cold sweat, and I didn't dare go to his house. Asking for help from the majority of netizens, what should I do now?

I am 68 years old and have two sons, and for a farmer, the most difficult dilemma for a family of two sons is to marry a daughter-in-law. My wife has been bedridden for many years, and the eldest son is five years older than the younger son, so I let him come down early to help me do farm work.

The younger son studied well, the eldest son discussed with me to always provide for the younger son to go to school, the family is already like this, can only rely on learning to change the fate, I can see that the eldest son is very sorry that he can not go to school.

After the death of his wife, there were three big men in the family, there was no atmosphere at home, the younger son came back from school, the family did not even have a cook, the two men cleaned the house, cleaned and did not clean up, washed clothes can be confused on the fool.

Once the younger son came back from school and the clothes were untied, the two big men could not sew, it was difficult to fool well, and the next day the younger son came back crying, dead or alive, saying that the classmates laughed at him.

It was my eldest son who talked to me again, "Dad, I want to get married." But who in my family would want to marry a daughter? Eventually the eldest son married a widow with a son.

The wedding did not need to be done, and the woman symbolically asked for a 5,000 yuan bride price to bring the child to my house.

In addition to being a second marriage, the daughter-in-law is simply not picky, the work is clean and neat, the family is properly packed, and it is also very good for my young son, and it is not too much to describe her as the eldest sister-in-law as a mother.

In this way, the younger son was successfully admitted to the university, and after graduation, he took root in the city and even moved his hukou out of his home.

The younger son worked for two years and saved 80,000 yuan, came back to tell his brother and sister-in-law that he wanted to buy a house and get married, let us give a hundred thousand, the family saved 70,000 or 80,000 yuan at that time, the daughter-in-law deliberately went back to her mother's house to borrow 20,000 yuan for the younger son.

The younger son went back with great gratitude at that time, we helped her buy a house and became a relative, the woman knew that my family was in difficulty, and offered not to pay the bride price.

I have never been to their house except once when my youngest son got married. Until the year before, when I was hospitalized because of cerebral infarction, I had to come to my younger son's house, because my son's home was close to the hospital, the eldest son stayed at home to farm, and the eldest daughter-in-law accompanied me to the hospital to take care of it.

The young son went to the hospital to see me after work, this arrangement is not bad, the result from hospitalization to discharge I have not even seen the face of the daughter-in-law once, I feel very uncomfortable, after the discharge of the doctor suggested that I come back to review it in ten days, I naturally lived in the younger son's home, the family farm work is too much, the eldest daughter-in-law is not convenient here, just say that she went home first, I will not toss first, live here for half a month.

Because I was recovering well at that time, I could take good care of myself and not bother my young son or anything, so I stayed without much thought.

I didn't expect that in the half month of living here, my son began to be good to me, and within three days, the two people quarreled, it sounded like it was because of me, when I was hospitalized, the money I was hospitalized was shared equally between my two sons, each spent 8,000, this matter the younger son did not tell the daughter-in-law, the daughter-in-law was furious after knowing, saying that she did not want a point for the wedding dowry, and now that I am sick, I should not ask her for money.

He also said that my eldest daughter-in-law threw me away, which means to live permanently, and what should I do if I don't leave in the future? She didn't give me a pension, and asked her youngest son to send me home quickly.

I heard my younger son say to her: "If you endure it any longer, it will be over in ten days, it is impossible to live permanently, let us provide for the elderly and we will not raise it?" Rest assured! ”

My heart was half cold, and for the remaining few days, my daughter-in-law threw her face in various ways, afraid that I would not go back after a good life, and my son turned a blind eye to all this.

Finally after more than ten days, the eldest daughter-in-law came, and I quickly returned home after reviewing it like seeing a savior. I never wanted to go to my youngest son's house again.

The demolition of the old house in the family is divided according to the head, and it is reasonable to say that it is impossible to get one point when the younger son's hukou is moved out, but the whole family still decides to divide it into three parts and give the younger son a share.

I called my younger son and asked him to come and collect the demolition money, but I didn't expect that my daughter-in-law also came with me, and they listened to my distribution plan and were directly unhappy, saying that my distribution was unfair, because I lived with my eldest son, and they thought that my share would be spent on the eldest son, so let me either divide the demolition money equally, or take my share to their home for the elderly.

With the lesson of the last time, how dare I go to their house? The discerning person knows what's going on at a glance. Now I don't want to divide the demolition money equally, after all, leaving a part of the money in my own hands is the king, I don't want to go to the younger son's house, but the younger son told me that I can't go to his house, my share of the demolition money belongs to him, what should I do now?

@Wei Wei Wei Wei said: The younger son set thousands of pets in one, from childhood to be loved by the brother-in-law, should have thought about how to repay them, but by the money want to eat more and occupy more, obviously they do not account, I think as a father you are divided into three equals is very fair, if you have to say that there is unfairness, that is, the younger son moved out of the hukou but also gave them a third, they should learn to be grateful.

At this time, I have the following suggestions:

1, the very young son pointed out that the demolition money is divided according to the head, the real fairness is that they do not have a point, the eldest son and the eldest daughter-in-law account for two shares, you as the father account for a share, so that they can learn to be satisfied.

2, said that you will not give this part, is to keep their own need to see a doctor in the future when you need to see a doctor for the elderly to take out the medical pension, then no one will drag.

I hope my opinion can help you, do you have any suggestions for this matter?