If the husband does not report it, what will happen to other women privately
Just after going to work in the morning, colleague Xiao Xie was listless. Asked the reason to know, it turned out that Xiao Xie used her husband's mobile phone yesterday, and inadvertently found in WeChat that he had a private meeting with other women a few days ago and did not report to her. He questioned his husband at that time, and as a result, his face was straight, completely unaware of his own impropriety, he said to tell you, you do not agree, then more is better than less.
Her husband's answer made Xiao Xie both angry and sad.
In fact, it is nothing for a married man to have a meal and a tea with other women. Even if you are married, you should have your own circle of friends, of course, there should be both men and women in this circle. This is also normal socializing. So women have to learn the atmosphere. But if you cross the line and married men are still ambiguous about other women, that's a different story.
At lunchtime, I gave Xiao Xie three tricks.
First control the man's money. His pay card must be handed over to you. In this way, even if he has any non-divisional thoughts outside, he has no money to support him.
Couples must have communication and exchanges, and tell him your bottom line. He can go on a solo date with other women, but be sure to report it, he wants to tell you where and with whom he does it. Only by respecting each other can we trust each other.
Old husbands and wives should cultivate a sense of freshness. And this freshness many people mistakenly think that just change the appearance, beauty, do hair, buy a new dress and so on.
No. To cultivate freshness, we must not only change the external beauty, but more importantly, enhance the inner beauty. For example, cooking, before you didn't cook, suddenly you cooked. Or maybe you used to cook badly, and suddenly made a very delicious new dish, which stimulated his appetite and had an aftertaste.
For example, learn more skills and knowledge. When you encounter difficulties or problems, you can have a unique insight into something and the ability to solve problems. Let him impress you.
For example, enhance your ability to be independent. In the past, I always had to rely on him when I encountered things. And now sometimes you can do it yourself.
Women should learn to take the initiative to show weakness.
Don't make a man think you can do anything, let him feel like he: you can earn money, you can drive a car, you can bring a child, I am a waste.
If you can do everything, men will not worry about you, do not worry about you, how can they care about you?
A woman's proper showing weakness to a man will make him more confident and brush his sense of existence.
When encountering this kind of problem, don't worry, don't be sad and angry, try to use the above tricks to make him obedient.
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