Intellectuality is a woman's inner beauty

It is said that sima xiangru, a great talent, was invited to Zhuo Wenjun's home as a guest, but Zhuo Wenjun was impressed by his song Feng Qiuhuang and decided to elope with Sima Xiangru. Many times we only know that because Sima Xiangru is talented, he can win the hearts of beautiful people, but in fact, Zhuo Wenjun was actually married at that time, a widow, and Sima Xiangru, although he was depressed, was also proud, why did he look up to Zhuo Wenjun? The reason is very simple, Zhuo Wenjun was born in a rich family, from childhood to learn piano, chess, calligraphy and painting, talent compelling, if we have seen her written the white head chant and tips, we know that this woman is actually full of strong bookish atmosphere, not to mention that she is still a very kind and connotative woman, for love willing to give up a superior life, such a woman all the time emits intellectual beauty. It can be said that it is precisely because of this unique temperament that Sima Xiangru fell in love with Zhuo Wenjun.

Many women think that as long as they are beautiful, as long as they are virtuous and obedient, then they will be able to win the hearts of men. In fact, intellectual women are often more popular with men, more attractive and attractive. The so-called intellectual, usually refers to elegant behavior, generous, general knowledge and very connotative. Intellectual women are often kind, cultured, connotative, and have stories. Such women are natural and elegant, hiding a faint poetic feeling, often with more charm and femininity, so they have more masculine popularity and aura.

When it comes to Tang Xuanzong's love, many people's first impression is that Yang Guifei, who is located among the four beautiful women, Yang Guifei is indeed beautiful and moving, it is not too much to say that she is beautiful and oppressive, and because of this, she has been deeply loved by Tang Xuanzong for many years. However, in fact, in Tang Xuanzong's harem, there was another concubine who was also deeply favored, and it could even be said that she was equal to Yang Guifei, and she was Concubine Mei.

In fact, if you talk about appearance, there is still a gap between MeiFei and Yang Guifei, but Meifei's advantage lies in having intellectual beauty. First of all, Princess Mei is a person who does not like to compete for favors, treats people modestly and kindly, is introverted and calm in the world, and her appearance is fresh and unworldly, and she is still a talented woman, such a quiet and generous, introverted and intellectual woman makes Tang Xuanzong very respectful. Therefore, even when Yang Guifei was favored, Tang Xuanzong often ran to Concubine Mei to meet. After the Outbreak of the Anshi Rebellion, Princess Mei was not willing to be caught by the rebels, so she jumped into the dry well to preserve her virginity and love, which made Tang Xuanzong sad.

In fact, intellectual beauty has always been a woman's skill, because beautiful women will eventually perish under the destruction of the years, while intellectual women will become more mature and charming with the precipitation of the years. It's like a piece of jade, becoming more and more crystal clear with the polishing of time. Intellectual women may not be considered to be the national color, but they are very talented, and gentle and kind, and the temperament is outstanding; they are occasionally sensual but never arrogant, elegant and noble but not arrogant and indifferent, calm and introverted but not losing peace and humor; intellectual women are full, have grace, temperament, and have stories, they are not the kind of thin flat beauty, but three-dimensional, full; intellectual women are healthy and positive, and their mentality towards life is also open and grateful.

Because of this, intellectual women are often more popular, and men are often attracted by each other's words and deeds when facing intellectual women, and will be moved by the unique temperament emitted by each other. In fact, those intellectual women are often more likely to become popular lovers, more likely to be recognized and accepted, and those beautiful women are likely to be just a vase of temporary scenery.

Therefore, if a woman wants to make herself more attractive and wants to successfully grasp the hearts of others, then she must know how to take the initiative to cultivate her own intellectual beauty.

First of all, we must talk elegantly and behave appropriately. For a woman, words and deeds often reflect her quality and cultivation. If the action is rude, the swear words are repeated, there is no standing posture, there is no sitting posture, then others will only leave a bad impression on her, and even stay away, but the elegant and generous behavior is very decent and contrived, making people feel very comfortable, and others will also feel that she is very connotative.

Second, dress appropriately. Women like to wear heavy makeup to win eyeballs, but dressing brightly and weirdly often gives people a bad impression, and others will think that you are more flashy and frivolous, not stable enough. In fact, the dress should be simple and smooth, the color should be stable and simple, generally black and white gray and beige, coffee color is better, some plain colors are also good.

Again, read more. In feudal society, "women without talent is morality" has almost become the truth, but in fact, women should read more, so that not only can expand their horizons, but also learn more knowledge, learn more about the way to live in the world, and more importantly, reading can cultivate their personality and enhance their personal temperament. In general, women who like to read, talented women are more likely to get involved with intellectualism.

In fact, if you want to become an intellectual woman and want to have a strong aura, then women should spend more time on some details of life, try to make their words and deeds look more appropriate and generous, through continuous cultivation and tempering, through the precipitation of time, women will slowly emit intellectual beauty.