When Ms. Liu and her ex-husband divorced, they met Mr. Wang, who had been divorced for five years on the Internet, and the two quickly got married. But after marriage, Mr. Wang still took his ex-wife back to his hometown during the New Year's Festival, and in order to confirm that he was not married to his ex-wife and daughter, Mr. Wang pulled Ms. Liu, who had just completed hysterectomy, to divorce urgently.
Mr. Wang divorced his ex-wife for five years and runs a car rental company. Ms. Liu was in a divorce with her ex-husband at the time. After the two exchanged good feelings, Ms. Liu, who was still a little hesitant, made up her mind to divorce the marriage and soon married Mr. Wang. Unexpectedly, after the marriage, Mr. Wang was suspicious of her, and also restored her mobile phone to factory settings, WeChat did not let it be used, and the number was also replaced. She also deleted all her contacts, even her mother's family.
Ms. Liu thought that after all, the two had not been together for a long time, and perhaps after a long time together, Mr. Wang would be able to trust himself. In order to reassure Mr. Wang, Ms. Liu also closed her shop and did not do her work. But then she found that she had cut off contact with all her relatives and friends at Mr. Wang's request, but her identity as a wife was not recognized.
After the marriage, Mr. Wang said in front of his sister that Ms. Liu was a hired employee, and every time she returned to Mr. Wang's hometown, she also let her sneak out of the car and enter the room, just like seeing no one. Not only that, Mr. Wang said that in order not to affect his daughter, he would not let his ex-wife and daughter know that he and Ms. Liu had remarried. Every New Year's Festival, I still take my ex-wife back to my hometown, and even my relatives have things to do with my ex-wife. In this regard, the "generous" Ms. Liu feels that Mr. Wang and his ex-wife have lived together for many years after all, and they have a daughter, as long as she and Mr. Wang love each other, she can accept it.
However, after Mr. Wang's daughter learned the news of her marriage to Mr. Wang, she openly opposed it and insulted Ms. Liu in various ways. Ms. Liu was scolded and cried, but Mr. Wang said: You are the one who wants to be a stepmother, can't you bear this? Mr. Wang said that his ex-wife was with him when he was the poorest, but when he had money, he made mistakes outside, and his ex-wife could not accept it before divorcing. His daughter has been 21 years old since she was a child, and she has never taken care of herself, so he has always felt guilty about his ex-wife and daughter.
But his guilt made Ms. Liu look like a transparent person, silently enduring the rejection and insults from Mr. Wang's daughter. What Ms. Liu did not expect was that there were more cruel things waiting for her later. In order to increase the relationship, the two can be together for a long time, they decide to have a child of their own, so they go to the hospital for examination. This investigation did not matter, but it was found that Ms. Liu had cervical cancer.
Ms. Liu couldn't believe it was true, she wanted to go to the big hospital in Beijing and Shanghai to check and confirm, but Mr. Wang firmly disagreed. No matter how she cried, Mr. Wang still felt that going to a big hospital was not only expensive, but also inconvenient for unfamiliar people. A hysterectomy had to be done at the local hospital. Even so, Ms. Liu is still grateful to Mr. Wang for at least curing her illness.
Ms. Liu loved her righteously, even to such a humble point, but she still failed to keep her marriage. After the ex-wife and daughter learned that Mr. Wang was married, they asked Mr. Wang to transfer the two properties in his and his ex-wife's name to the ex-wife. In order to prove that he was not married, when Ms. Liu had just completed the operation for ten days, Mr. Wang proposed a divorce to Ms. Liu on the grounds that it would not affect his daughter's mood and give his ex-wife the transfer of real estate. He also promised Ms. Liu that the marriage was in his heart, and they were just fake divorce.
Ms. Liu said that she had only been in ten days after the operation, and whether she could wait for a few more days to go again. Mr. Wang really couldn't wait for this matter, and regardless of Ms. Liu's body, he pulled her back and left for hundreds of kilometers. Ms. Liu, who had been tossing and turning all the way, felt that she could not hold on any longer, so she asked Mr. Wang to send herself back to her mother's house to raise her for a few days. But Mr. Wang not only disagreed, but also absurdly had to send Ms. Liu to her ex-husband's house.
Ms. Liu feels that if you say you leave, you will leave, and now you want to send me back to her ex-husband's house, what do you think of me? Mr. Wang didn't care how Ms. Liu cried and begged, until she lay in the car with a stomachache, Mr. Wang still did not care about her dignity and sent her to her ex-husband's house.
What is strange is that Mr. Wang, who sent Ms. Liu back to her ex-husband's house with an iron heart, suddenly took her back five days later. As soon as she returned home, Ms. Liu found that in just five days, Mr. Wang had actually run to the Internet to solicit marriage again. While talking about fake divorce and releasing information about the marriage, Mr. Wang explained that he was bored and playing. Ms. Liu actually believed it, one dared to say one dared to believe, but was she angry?
Ms. Liu has retreated emotionally, to the point of being divorced, and the matter is not over. Because Mr. Wang began to have some reservations about her financially, he gave hundreds when he was happy, dozens when he was unhappy, or even not. Without financial resources, Ms. Liu felt even more aggrieved.
She was like this, but when she learned that Mr. Wang's daughter asked Mr. Wang for 10,000 yuan to buy a computer, and Mr. Wang could not get his daughter out, he blocked him. In order to please Mr. Wang and his daughter, she actually transferred the 10,000 yuan that her uncle had picked up and saved to Mr. Wang's daughter behind Mr. Wang's back. As a result, Mr. Wang's daughter ignored her.
At the same time, Ms. Liu found that on the birthday of his ex-wife, Mr. Wang sent red envelopes to his ex-wife, ordered birthday cakes, and bought underwear worth thousands of yuan. Thinking back to her marriage, Ms. Liu cried into tears. I have been divorced once, so I want to cherish this time more, and I don't want to make people laugh anymore, so I desperately want to keep it from being destroyed.
Therefore, there is no bottom line to repeatedly lower themselves, vainly trying to exchange for the life they want by pleasing others. But in fact, blindly forbearance can only make yourself more and more humble, more and more undignified, and worthless. Ms. Liu and Mr. Wang did not have much in-depth understanding at the beginning, so they hurriedly ended the previous marriage and hurried into this marriage.
As the old saying goes: Out of a house, and then into another door, how easy is it? Both were already remarried, and the marital relationship was more complicated.
In feelings, unprincipled tolerance and concessions will not be exchanged for love and happiness. Only by establishing a bottom line, treating yourself well, living out your dignity, and re-establishing a sense of self-worth can you reap equality and respect.
