When people reach old age, they must be able to take care of themselves, otherwise the children will become enemies.
My partner's grandmother, Who has been unable to take care of herself for three years, is now completely immobile in bed, and she needs the assistance of two people to eat and drink Lazar.
She had four children, all of whom were now in their sixties, and because of the unpleasantness of the brothers and sisters who served her.
It is not a matter of not waiting, or how to take turns, and everyone has different opinions.
The uncle suggested that the family live in turn for a month. The eldest aunt and my family had no opinion, but the second aunt was unwilling to take it, because her family only had three houses and really could not live.
Later, the aunt proposed that the two groups be in groups for two days, and go to my grandmother's house to serve. My mother-in-law took care of the children for me, my father-in-law went to serve, and after two days of waiting, there was no way to rush to do business, and it was better to delay for a whole month at a time. Because my brother-in-law is not yet married, the old couple is not steadfast in their hearts if they do not earn some money.
If each group waits for a whole month, the aunt is unwilling, saying that she buys rice every day, and cannot buy a month's worth of food in a row. In fact, the aunt's family is in the neighboring village, riding for ten minutes, and it is also possible for the uncle to deliver food once a day. The two of them had no land, the children were older, and they didn't do any other work, and they walked around the village every day.
Although each family has the difficulties of each family, the final plan was not unanimously adopted, or it was implemented in groups of two people for two days.
Because of the service of the elderly, in the past two years, the four of them have obviously become estranged. At first, they all ate together, and when my aunt cooked, she made everyone's meals, and later, because of some trivial matters, the people who went to serve brought their own meals.
If the elderly are healthy and healthy, with four children and a bunch of grandchildren, they should be very happy. Now, although there are many people, everyone is quite difficult, and everyone has to consider their own actual situation.
Therefore, we must take advantage of our youth, live well, and live with high quality.
