On the sixth day of the Chinese New Year, the daughter brought home her boyfriend of five years and said that she was going to get married. The boyfriend made a request: Uncle and aunt, my family conditions are not good, my mother has been sick at home, after marriage

On the sixth day of the Chinese New Year, the daughter brought home her boyfriend of five years and said that she was going to get married. The boyfriend made a request: Uncle and aunt, my family conditions are not good, my mother has been sick at home, and I need Wenwen and I to take care of my mother after marriage.

I'm 62 years old, because I got married late, when I was young I only knew how to work hard in the big city, I didn't get married until I was in my thirties, and my wife and I only have one daughter, 26 years old this year. I used to be a small boss of a private company, and in the past few years, the company's performance has declined, and when I am older, I will transfer the company to my nephew to run.

Spring Festival, we took our daughter back to the rural brother's house for the New Year, the relatives of the family are busy introducing objects to my daughter, sometimes introducing several boys a day, but the daughter does not look at any, if in the countryside like the daughter of the girl has long been married and have children, my daughter is not in a hurry.

The nephew and niece asked me what my daughter really liked, and the daughter was forced to be anxious, and voluntarily admitted that she had a boyfriend of five years, so she would not be interested in any boys, which made me and my wife not know whether it was true or not, half-convinced.

On the fifth day of the Chinese New Year, we returned to the city from our hometown in the countryside, and on the sixth day of the Chinese New Year, my wife and I eagerly asked our daughter to bring her boyfriend home to see. The boy came to our house for the first time, only took some fruit, I did not pick how much things, but the wife was not a taste in her heart, and the wife said that the boy was too unappreciated.

My daughter's boyfriend is called Wenbo, he told us that he was ready to marry my daughter and wanted to ask for our opinion, and the boyfriend made a request: Uncle and aunt, my family conditions are not good, my mother has been sick at home, and after marriage, I need Wenwen and I to take care of my mother together.

To be honest, we were all dumbfounded and overwhelmed to hear the request from our girlfriend's boyfriend. But after all, he is a good child of filial piety, and we cannot refuse a child who knows how to be filial.

Although I retired from the company two years ago, the company is still mine, and the living conditions at home are good. My wife and I have only one daughter and are very sensible. We didn't have to worry about her since we were young, she achieved excellent results. We also cultivated her very carefully. My daughter got a 985 with honors and is now a lawyer.

This boyfriend of my daughter is her high school classmate. That year, Wenbo was admitted to the 985 University, but due to the poor family, he wanted to give up going to college, and after his daughter knew, he secretly took out her private money (the daughter's money from childhood was stored in Kari) to fund Wenbo to finish college.

After graduating from Wenbo University, at a classmate party, perhaps grateful to his daughter, Wenbo took the initiative to confess to his daughter, and the two talked about love.

When I first learned about my daughter's relationship with Wenbo, our husband and wife strongly opposed it because Wenbo's family situation was too special. After all, marriage still needs to be the right door, otherwise, life will be like chicken feathers.

Through years of hard work, Wenbo himself has also done some food business. Through a brief description of his daughter, we know that Wenbo's father died in an accident when he was three years old and his mother was permanently disabled. He lived with his mother and relied on the care of relatives until he grew up.

However, my daughter told us that Wenbo's qualities are very good, others are very smart and motivated, and my daughter would like to be with him. As the old saying goes, instead of demolishing ten temples, it is better to destroy a marriage. In the end, we acquiesced to our daughter's continued relationship with Wenbo.

Alas, we only have one daughter, and of course we wish her happiness. But we are more afraid that our daughter will complain about us in the future. We have also come from hard times before, and we know that life is not easy. We also know that family relationships affect the feelings between two people. But now our daughter has decided to be with Wenbo.

This time Wenbo came to our house, he was more handsome and energetic than in the photo, the boy was very sensible, well-behaved, and I was satisfied with him. After dinner, we sat on the couch and talked.

At this time, my wife quickly mentioned their marriage, and my wife said: We are spoiled like this one daughter, baby, and do not want the daughter's wedding to be too simple. However, my wife had just finished speaking. Wen Bo suddenly said: Uncle and aunt, the two of us have decided not to hold a wedding, let's invite a few good friends, let's get together. After getting married, we will live with my mom. Wenwen can stay at home with her mother and no longer have to go out to work. ”

My wife and I were suddenly shocked, how could the wedding not be done? Can I just let my daughter take care of Wenbo's mother?

However, my wife pretended to be calm and asked him, how can you get married without a wedding? Mom can find a nanny to take care of, Wenwen also needs a job after marriage, she needs to have her own career. "

I took over the words: My daughter is also excellent, she needs to have her own life.

Wen Bo looked at my daughter, who nodded, and I understood immediately. In fact, Wenbo had already discussed this matter with my daughter, and my daughter agreed.

Now that our daughter has agreed, what should we do? Is it to let your daughter suffer this grievance?

 @Mu Yibaiflower 

The sheep feed on their knees, and the crows feed back. Of all the virtues, filial piety is the first, and Wenbo is a filial piety. You and your wife are responsible parents. I think it's better to think about the facts and the life your daughter will face in the future, and then make your own decisions.

If Wenbo is really a very capable person and really likes your daughter, then making both parents happy is the best outcome. In its current state, I don't think it's a good choice. After all, Wenbo does not want to do a wedding, obviously because of ability, or do young people like simplicity now? #Emotion ##我要上 Headline ##人生感悟 #