I am a rural person, with children and daughters, and I have been forcing my children to study hard, hoping that they can have a better future, not like my ancestors in the countryside, in the field to plane food. But every time I've been there

I am a rural person, with children and daughters, and I have been forcing my children to study hard, hoping that they can have a better future, not like my ancestors in the countryside, in the field to plane food. But every New Year's Festival will sigh whether they should let them go to school, there are several elderly people in the village, when they were young, they desperately sold houses and land for their children to go to college, and when the children are older, some of them work and settle in big cities, some want to take their parents to live together, the elderly are not used to the life of the city, some and the daughter-in-law and son-in-law in the city live less than a piece, often live for a few days and never go again, they still go back to their hometowns for the elderly, children occasionally give some money, most of them can't come home twice a year, Some people don't come back for the New Year's Festival, under the pretext of being busy at work, and on the pretext of having an epidemic. There was also an old mother who died three days before arriving home, saying that the road was too far to go, and that no one could drive down the seven-hundred-and-fifty-kilometer highway. Daughters-in-law and children have not entered the house for several years, not to mention grandchildren, and when they are five or six years old, they do not know what grandpa looks like. It is that the grandson who comes back dislikes the poor rural conditions and does not get off the bus. There is an extreme case where the old lady dies and her daughter-in-law and grandson do not come to accompany the spirit and do not come back to send the funeral. What is the use of raising such children? I saw a seventy-year-old man sitting alone at the exit bar on the first day of the New Year, smoking a cigarette, with a sad face on his face, and his face full of loneliness. Today I joked with the kids in junior high school and high school that you guys should cast lots, and one of you should stay at home and stop going to school. They promised with a full mouth that they would not treat us the way they did. Sentimental I hope that my decision not to be so lonely and helpless, I hope that the decision to work hard for them to go to school is right, do what I should do now, and leave the rest to fate [prayer] [prayer] [prayer] [prayer] [prayer] [prayer]