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Civilization needs to be passed on and accumulated for the New Year, and the six brothers and younger siblings who settled in Urumqi, the capital of Xinjiang Province, said that they had been waiting for the phone of their nieces in Xinjiang since the Chinese New Year's Eve

author:Wild Wind Mountain Gang

Civilization needs to be inherited and accumulated

In the New Year, with the six brothers and sisters who settled in Urumqi, the capital of Xinjiang Province, on the telephone screen, the two said that they had been waiting for the phone of their nieces in Xinjiang since the Chinese New Year's Eve, and as a result, they only dried Chinese New Year's Eve meals and lost their quick rest.

We have eight brothers and sisters, six men and two women. In the past eighty years, the agricultural cooperatives were dissolved, the land was contracted to the households, the old four, the five, the sixth, and the little sister were stirred in a pot, and together they experienced the arduous years of cutting food in the soil for more than ten years from the eighties to the early nineties, and they were more emotionally kind. My sixth brother and I have no daughters, and we treat the daughters of the fourth brothers as our own. My niece also sees us as fathers.

After forty-five years, the sun has passed noon, the light of life is gradually shrinking, introverted, and the view of life and the world is subtly changing. When you were young, traditional culture and civilization were rules and regulations, shackles, tying, and the object of knocking down, burning, and trampling. After forty years, I have experienced so many things, walked so many curves, straight, bumpy and frank roads, and many things in the world have been seen open, seen clearly, seen thoroughly, and not confused. At the age of fifty, I know what can be done and what cannot be done, and I know where my destiny lies. At the age of sixty, good things, bad things, such as the wind over the water, the waves are not happy, the honor and disgrace are not alarmed.

With age, especially having serious illnesses and disasters, ideas have gradually become traditional and conservative. The background of Chinese culture and civilization is farming; farming civilization, the reincarnation of the four seasons, spring planting and autumn harvest, marriage and funeral, and family affection.

Alone in a foreign land for strangers, every festive season to think of relatives. As a young man, I naturally understood the feelings of the sixth brother and younger sister in the year of knowing the destiny of heaven. Does the niece of the year of confusion understand? The answer is yes, it's just that like countless Northwestern people, they are not good at expressing themselves.

I feel that instead of the fourth brother, it is my duty to guide and guide my niece. In WeChat, I said: (to blood relatives) hit the video screen, greet the body, send words of blessing. Pay somebody back in the same coin. Loved ones and friends, there is no coming and going, over time, it will be like passers-by. A man knows the way forward, but he has a way back.

The niece quickly replied "OK".

A nephew once said to me: According to his observation, if the parents study well, the next generation will study well, and there is a high probability; if the parents cannot study, the next generation will not be able to read the book, which is a high probability. This is true of studying, and the inheritance and filtering accumulation of cultural civilization is also the same.

I used to swim around Qinghai Lake, and the smoke waves were vast. I also looked out of the window of the train to the Heihe River and the Shule River flowing in the Hexi Corridor. I also squatted on the yellow river in Lanzhou, in a daze, watching the big river go east.

Why is it that the Yellow River flows more and more, but some rivers flow and disappear?

Life is the same, from the good as the stream, the hundred rivers are strong and strong, and the lonely and the old will die.

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