"Taking a son is tiring in itself, if the son is "asked continuously", who can resist? A bao mom left a message complaining, saying that her biggest feeling with the baby is that her son's curiosity is too strong, and there are too many problems.
This bao mother said to herself: I remember that when Dabao was about four or five years old, he began to chase after me upside down, asking a series of questions every day, "Mom, where did I come from", "Mom, you tell me stories", and asked a series of questions.
In fact, there are too many similar things, but fortunately, some of the children's questions are ambiguous and do not involve knowledge points, so I will answer them casually.
But then my son asked more and more esoteric questions, such as "Where did the sun come from?" How old is the moon? "I really can't cope with such a scientific problem as the back, and I am very worried that the child will have a knowledge misunderstanding when he listens to my answer, and I dare not talk about it casually."
Therefore, while working with the baby, I sometimes get busy, I hate the child chasing me to ask questions, every time my son asks me something, I will yell at the baby. At one point, my son was scared to cry and crouched in the corner of the wall shivering.
For half a month, I found that my son had changed, introverted and did not like to talk, often shut himself in the house to play with toys, and muttered something to the toys. At that moment, it was like being hit, and I immediately reflected on my mistake. By chance, after reading your article, I felt that I had less patience with my child and failed to actively accompany my child.
Fortunately, after I corrected my behavior, my son became active again, and as I became more and more patient, I would also collect and sort out my son's questions, find the correct answers, and then tell the children.
Sure enough, after a stage of persistence, the son's improvement was remarkable. The knowledge reserve is rich, and I am more and more fond of talking, and my verbal expression ability is very good. It made me overjoyed, and the joy overflowed into words. Seeing that my son has become better, I can't help but tell you the good news.
The above is the mental journey of one of our fan mothers with her baby, and it is also the good result she has gained after changing her educational methods. Nowadays, her son is getting better and better. In fact, from this matter, we can see that allowing the son to "chase the mother and ask" has many benefits for the child and is conducive to the growth of the child.
The son chases after the mother to "ask serially", which is conducive to the son's "excellence" and cannot be treated sloppily
It is beneficial for boys' language improvement
In terms of language skills, boys' language organization skills are relatively weak, and may be a little worse than girls of the same age. Moreover, the language is not so meticulous, and even some boys speak later than girls.
Therefore, in life, if the mother can have more patience, allow the son to chase after himself to ask questions, and patiently communicate with the child in more language and do more communication. That is really good for the improvement of children's language ability, and it can really make children excellent.
It is conducive to improving the knowledge of boys
When the boy grows up, he is curious, has a strong interest in things he does not understand, and turns to constant exploration and curiosity. At this time, if the mother can encourage and guide positively, find more correct answers for the child and solve the confusion in the child's heart.
Then, the child's curiosity will usually be further enhanced, the knowledge will also be expanded, and it will be easier to "excel" in the future.
It is conducive to improving the thinking power of boys
In a pattern of asking for an answer, the mother should guide the child step by step, gradually informing the child of the answer to the question. Then, the boy's thinking will go to a higher level and get a certain exercise.
For example, a child asks, "Mom, can you tell me a story?" So, the mother can ask the child, "What story do you want to hear?" Do you remember the story you heard somewhere? ”
In the dialogue, let the child keep thinking, the brain works, and the brain can become more and more intelligent. At the same time, the affection between mother and child will become stronger and stronger, and the feelings will also heat up a lot.
The mother's patience is exercised and can better accompany the child to make progress together
Throughout the process of "serial questioning", the mother's patience was improved. This kind of progress is a harvest for mothers, and it is a positive result of accompanying children to grow and progress.
Of course, the most important thing is that this result is very beneficial to the child, once the child gets along with the mother in the future, there are any problems, learning areas that are not understood, and there are aspects that need attention in the child's growth, the mother may be more careful to find out and guide early. This has a great help to the children's learning changes and the direction of life, which is of great significance.
Therefore, behind a good child, most have an excellent mother. Behind a successful man, most have a loving and patient mother. I believe that your son must be very lucky to have such a good mother!
Interactive Topic: How old is your child and likes to chase after your mother for "serial questions"?