#男朋友患淋巴癌, should I give up # As a doctor who has been working in otolaryngology head and neck surgery for many years, there are many such situations. It is said that human nature cannot withstand the test, and great difficulties are coming

#男朋友患淋巴癌, should I give up# As a doctor who has been working in otolaryngology, head and neck surgery for many years, I have encountered many such situations. It is said that human nature can not withstand the test, the big difficulties are about to fly, whether it is women or men, when they encounter this situation, they will be entangled and face choices, so this girl's question, I think it is also normal, but I also want to share with you the story of my clinic!

In the winter of 19 years, shortly after I arrived at the hospital, I met a young couple who came to see a doctor, a 25-year-old Gu Liang, a junior high school teacher and class teacher, because it was closer to the middle school entrance examination. So the workload is also very large, long-term throat and rest is not good, suffering from pharyngitis, after a period of treatment, there is some improvement, but still can not rest assured of students, and began the previous overload work. This time I directly felt that the throat area began to be uncomfortable, shortness of breath, and hoarse voice. Her boyfriend was anxious to stare at the computer 🖥️ next to me and wait for the results. The girl sat on the other side, as if she were thinking something!

Because I haven't been here for a long time, there aren't a lot of patients, and it's much easier than the patients I can't see and the surgeries I can't do now. So the three of us waited quietly in the small 15-square-meter house. Finally, the computer responded, the girl was stunned, with uneasiness and panic in her eyes, and her boyfriend was lying in front of me, more active than me. When I watched her film carefully, I was also faced with a struggle, because she found a placeholder and a small lump in her throat. According to our clinical experience, the general consideration is malignant tumors, which are called throat cancer!

They saw that I didn't speak, and they kept watching the film, so they asked me nervously, "Doctor, is there no big problem?" "I also struggled for half a day, thinking about whether to say it in the end, after all, the two are still young, such a result may not be able to withstand anyone's body."

But as a doctor, the primary responsibility is to see a doctor to save people, should let the patient know their true situation, in principle, I still told them the condition, but if you need to confirm the diagnosis, you also need to carry out a pathological biopsy, and then 2 of them will do the pathological biopsy!

Later, I was a little uneasy, so I asked the nurse to call them to come again, because I did not see the results of the pathological biopsy, and I still do not know whether the tumor is malignant or benign. So, I was also ready to enlighten them, when I came in, the girl walked in front, the boy came in half a day, it seems that something happened between the two, at this time the girl made a request to communicate with me alone, and I also agreed to her.

She asked me, is this cancer incurable? I replied to her, "It depends on your situation, the inspection report has not yet come out, you don't have to worry and worry, it will be all right!" She didn't stop, then called her object out and walked to the side and began a very serious conversation. Just when the nurse came to sign me, I could just hear their conversation, which probably meant that the girl mentioned the breakup, and the boy was a little confused, leaving the boy and leaving!

I thought that this might be the end of the matter, the second time I came, the boy came to my outpatient room early, asked me about the biopsy results, I told him that it was benign, the problem was not big, the operation could be solved, and then turned around and ran!

The girl came, looked a little nervous 😰, I saw that she was a little scared, just tell her you are no problem, don't worry! The girl was a little disbelieving, took the report sheet and looked at it, and seemed to be sure of the result, and then laughed! The boy appeared behind her with a bouquet of flowers. The final result is that the boy accompanies the girl to complete the operation and is discharged from the hospital! At the time of the follow-up visit, the two were already engaged!

So, Gu Liang, when you encounter this kind of thing, you have to think about it carefully, this is not only the disease, but also your feelings, your heart ❤️, if diagnosed, you can completely match him to go through the last journey, at least without regrets! (Outpatient story, for reference only)

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