#Bye-Bye#
To meet the wishes of the old man, to accompany the two elders to the uncle's house today to visit the New Year, I feel a little strange and embarrassed, what happened to the people in the city?
The in-laws have lived in the countryside for many years, and the uncle's family lives in the provincial city (the uncle came to Changsha to work at the age of thirteen, he is ninety years old this year, and his body is still healthy), whenever he celebrates the New Year in the countryside, it is generally the old man or my husband who calls the uncle to pay respects to the new year, and this year because the old man was sick and came to Changsha for hospitalization a few years ago, he had to celebrate the New Year on the spot.
Yesterday the old man proposed, today to personally go to the elder brother to visit the New Year, considering the physical factors, we suggest not to go for the time being, twenty days later The uncle ninety birthday together to bless it, plus the weather is not good, the body is old and slow, just barely discharged, but we still accompany the two old people from Hexi to Hedong, through half of Changsha City, to the Uncle's house to pay respects to the New Year.
Knock on the door to enter, a large number of people are in (telephone appointment), uncles, aunts, cousins, cousins, cousins, etc. got up to greet warmly, the atmosphere is warm, but when we sit still, chat for less than two minutes, the situation changes, overheard the sound of mahjong, the original cousins and sisters four people activities continue (it is estimated that we are playing mahjong before we go), leaving the four old people and I sometimes watch TV, look at mobile phones, there is an awkward chat without a word, less than an hour, always feel a little embarrassed, some boring, We evacuated home on the pretext of having something to do (Uncle Left us to go out to dinner).
The old man is very affectionate, very respectful of his brother, usually repeatedly warned us, we must know how to be grateful (in difficult times have been funded by its care), "the grace of dripping water should be repaid with a spring", the New Year in the countryside on the phone to greet the New Year, uncles and uncles on the birthday of the two old people we must come to the door to congratulate, but come and go for so many years, always feel that the difference between urban and rural areas is still there, urban and rural consciousness is different, the relationship with cousins is still estranged (they rarely go to the countryside to visit their uncles, including the grandfather's birthday, etc.), the common language is too little, alas, There is a suspicion that the people in the city are superior to others, and this feeling is also strange...
Things are clustered in groups, and people are grouped. The Tao is different, not conspiring...
#Boom boom over the year# #今日微头条 #
