"He's still a kid, he doesn't understand things, why beat him!" On January 29, the hot search on a video, in a wedding scene, a bride sitting on the bed, waiting for the groom to receive the kiss, the groom entered the room, holding a seven- or eight-year-old child in his hand, the man let the little boy call the bride's mother, the result was that the little boy did not bark, but also reached out and directly ripped off the bride's hijab, the bride saw that the hijab was ripped off, and directly pushed the little boy in anger
The bride said angrily, "What are you doing with this child", the groom quickly explained "he is still a child, he does not understand things", the bride did not hesitate to say to the groom, "You don't know that on the wedding day, the child can't lift the bride's hijab" The groom also said angrily, "He is my son, what is wrong with lifting your hijab", in the face of the groom's rhetorical question, the bride was even more angry, "I haven't passed the door yet, you dare to yell at me"
The two sides quarreled because of this matter, and before the marriage was completed, there was a dispute because of this matter, and such a thing really should not happen on a big day, after all, this is a major event in life, and it cannot affect the whole wedding because of this small episode
Netizens also expressed different views on this, some netizens said that children do do wrong, even if they are children, do not understand things, but adults should understand things, in advance to teach children how to do, can not let children do something wrong, children some things can not be done, is because of the lack of education
Rules are rules, and the size of the age has nothing to do, the son does not godfather's fault, is this truth, children do not understand no manners, is the adult spoiled, if the adult is responsible for a little, will not happen on the big day of the big thing, in the final analysis, or adults can not do it
Even some netizens said that such a man nephew Hu his own children, do not care about the feelings of the bride, or do not get married, married this stepmother is not good, when educating children, there will be disagreements, then there will be quarrels, such a day is better than not getting married, the stepmother is difficult
However, some people say that the bride has no tolerance, adults should tolerate children, after all, they are all family in the future, the bride can not be childish, maybe the bride has not been a mother, but since the groom knows that he has children, he must have this psychological preparation, after all, being a stepmother is not an easy thing
The child's naughtiness is the manifestation of the adult education is not in place, that means that the child is indeed neglectful, the original stepmother will bear this part of the responsibility, at the beginning of the two sides to meet like this, then it is estimated that it is more difficult to get along, the stepmother does a good job, some people say that the gossip, if the stepmother is not good, then there will be some people who say that the stepmother is vicious, really can not easily marry the second marriage
Many people do not educate children after the child causes trouble, but shirk responsibility, such as often saying "he is still a child", it makes people very angry, the child is the epitome of adults, is the education of adults, children do not understand things, indicating that adults do not understand things, so some netizens said that there is more than one bear parent behind the bear child
Regardless of whether the child is big or small, when the child is wrong, it is necessary to educate, otherwise, the society will also educate him, maybe this child does not want to accept this stepmother, only deliberately do this, the bride's reaction, is also normal, maybe the second marriage of people, it is not easy to live a good life together
Second-married couples are destined to have so many troubles, especially families with children on both sides, and there are more troubles! Do you think the bride should refuse to be a stepmother in this matter?
