Wei Sizheng | family style in the family book

Family letters, this form of correspondence as communication between relatives, seem to be far away from us. In fact, for a long time, the "family letter tradition" played an absolutely important role in the family relations of Chinese. Not only is it an important way to convey emotions between family members, but also an important way for parents to teach by example and conduct moral education for their children, in a simple and sincere family letter, a good tutoring style can be inherited The first semester of 2021-2022 Is approaching the end of the semester, and the teachers of the Marxist College have assigned a special homework for the new students of the class of 2021: "A family letter"! These family letters, some written to parents, some to grandparents, and some to brothers and sisters; some describe their mental journey from high school to college, tell the confusion in their hearts, recall the beautiful life in the past, and express their infinite thoughts and remembrance of their relatives. No matter which relative is written to or what content is written, we can read the softest and most rational side of the hearts of young college students in the new era, and we can also understand the inheritance of a good tutoring style from it! The following are some of the excellent family letters selected by teachers from students' assignments, which will be divided into three topics and pushed to everyone. Let's enjoy the tutoring style of bengbu college students together!

1. The love of parents is the most selfless love under the sun! Although I have no return, but I am grateful, dear father and mother, please rest assured that I will let me break through the world independently, I am the treasure in your heart, and I want to be your pride!

Thoughts are far away

I don't want beach bird carriages and castles, I don't want people screaming passionately, I don't want colorful and brilliant lights to shine, I just want one day you can be proud of me - inscription

Dear Mom and Dad,

Hello!

Red cherries, green plantains, freshman year life has been more than two months, the first time away from home so long. The panic, exhaustion and uneasiness on the first day of registration are all vividly remembered. Fortunately, it is now slowly on the right track and is proceeding in an orderly manner. So want to say to the family that I'm fine and don't worry about me.

At the beginning of September, the former students have started school one after another, and seeing the photos they shared in the circle of friends, I am full of unknowns and expectations for the new school. Some students shed tears when they separated from their parents on the first day of school, but at that time I felt that I would definitely not cry, after all, after ten days of going, I could go home again during the National Day holiday. But when that day really came, I really wanted to cry when I waved goodbye to my parents, my nose was very sore, my throat seemed to be stuck with something, I had to endure not to let my parents find out that I was making bed alone that day and packing things, although I was very tired, I had to learn to grow and think for myself.

Now that the end of the semester is approaching, the days of returning home are counting down, looking forward to meeting with friends and reuniting with relatives.

In these three months, there was the bitterness of military training and the sweetness of life, but no matter what, I wanted to tell my parents that I was fine, that I was not reluctant to eat, that I was reluctant to wear, and that I would buy what I needed. When you have a cold, you should also take good medicine and take care of yourself. You are always worried that I will forget to study in college, and then I will say, rest assured, I am an adult, I will be responsible for myself. Now that I think about it, I feel that I have changed in the past three months, when I first started school, I was still an adult, I did not have a clear concept of home, and I was not very mature in the management of money. Parents will say that they have no money and then look for them, but I don't think we can let our parents bear everything for their own reasons, and be a little adult by themselves.

These three months, I feel like it's both the beginning and the end. The beginning of an independent life for the true self, the end of dependence on parents for everything. Sometimes when I see classmates who are close to home, I can go home on weekends, I am very envious, and I remember that I once vowed to be as far away from home as I can be in the future, and now I think about it, it is really young and crazy.

In just three months, after experiencing the changes from summer to winter, the next step is to look forward to the arrival of New Year's Day, the new year, relatives, friends and reunions! May the thoughts be far away!

Your daughter: Wenwen

December 16, 2021

A family letter

Tribute to Loving Father:

Time flies, the sun and the moon are like shuttles. Unconsciously, you have accompanied your daughter through eighteen spring and autumn seasons, really fast but so slow. From a toddler to a toddler to a young girl, perhaps others will sigh: I haven't seen the little girl grow up so big in a few years! But these years of hardship and bitterness are known only to you.

Since I can remember, you have been strict with me, and I remember when I was in elementary school, at the end of each semester, you asked me to get a certificate of honor and go home. Forced by your "coercion", I will take the award home at the end of the semester for six years of primary school, but it is precisely because of your "coercion" that I will be among the best in primary school and successfully admitted to key middle schools when I enter the beginning of primary school. After middle school, I thought I would finally be able to stay away from home and finally stop listening to your nagging. But you seem to be able to see through my mind, you are afraid that I will not study well in school, call the class teacher at both ends of the three days, ask the class teacher about my study, and you come to the school twice a week, the county middle school is far from home, whether it is spring, autumn, winter and summer, you are twice a week. In middle school, Xu was in the rebellious period of youth, I was very rebellious, I always gave you the opposite of what you asked me to do, I didn't want you to continue to restrain me, I began to quarrel with you. Looking back now, I can't help but feel ashamed and regret for what I did at the time. I am really stupid, I always think that I have grown up, in fact, in the eyes of my parents, my children will never grow up.

As a father, as the head of the family, the responsibility for the family also falls on you. In fact, I have also heard my grandparents say that when you were young, you were also an unruly teenager, disobedient to discipline, and caused trouble everywhere. But since you started a family, Long Qi has children, and your stinky temper has also improved at a speed seen by the naked eye, and you are no longer reckless. Of course, these are all things I heard from my grandparents. I remember when I was in high school, you wanted to come to school to see me, and you were afraid of disturbing my studies. Especially in my junior year of high school, you know that I am very stressed, and every time I come home from vacation, it is clear that it is your own daughter but you treat me as a "guest". No matter what you do, you feel that you are always careful, even if you call me to eat, you don't dare to scream loudly, just like you will disturb me. And when I was in school, you were both worried about my grades and my body. Calling the homeroom teacher is the norm. The class teacher said to me, you take the college entrance examination, your father is more nervous than you. Yes, in the third year of high school, you worked too hard for me, thought too much, and when the college entrance examination was over, I found that you were so old in one year! The once spirited teenager now has fine lines on his face, and the silver wires are also showing one by one, and I want to sincerely say to my father here: Dad, you have worked hard. After the college entrance examination, you said to me: No matter what the result is, child, you have worked hard, dad has seen it, at least we have no regrets. Dad, do you know, this sentence made me feel relaxed after the college entrance examination, and my heart gradually calmed down from anxiety, without burden. You will always give hope to your family, in my heart, Dad, you are the daughter's superhero, omnipotent!

Finally, I wish my dad good health and all the best!

Your daughter: Ting

December 15, 2021

A letter to a parent

Dear Mom and Dad,

Hello!

The years are not living, the seasons are like a stream, in the blink of an eye, I have grown from the age of teeth and teeth to a responsible person, and you have changed from green silk to white hair, and the years have smoothed out your edges and corners. In this short 18 years, in this happy time, I feel very fortunate to be your daughter.

Time flies so fast, and the scene of my childhood seems to be yesterday. I vaguely remember my father teaching me to learn to ride a bicycle, the first time I carried me, the first time I took me to make a train. When I was 9 years old, my father went back to my hometown to pick me up by train; when I was 18, my father took me to school, took the high-speed train, and for a moment, I seemed to feel that time had coincided. Growing up, I was used to my father's taciturnity, and I didn't know where to start with many words, and there were too many emotions that could not be expressed in words. And my mother is a person who likes to think in pieces, every time I talk on the phone, my mother will tell me over and over again what new year goods she has prepared, and they are all my favorite food, and they will not tire of coaxing me when I am sad, and will tell me all kinds of happy things. Although Dad never showed up every time he made a video call, I knew that he was always listening, and some things seemed to suddenly be understood at some moment, and at the same time, how I wished that time could slow down, that this happy time could stay forever.

Looking back, I was not an obedient child, in addition, sometimes I was particularly willful and stubborn, my mother often told me that my personality and my father were very similar and stubborn, I was unwilling to change one thing but I did not have perseverance in doing things, three days of fishing and two days of drying nets. Mom is a gentle person, can infinitely tolerate my bad temper, is the person who loves me the most in this world, in my mother's place, I will always be a little girl who does not grow up, and I can also be a little girl who will never grow up. Although I was in school, I could imagine my mother at home preparing New Year goods and nagging me about the day I would go home. Sometimes before going to bed, I would talk to my mother about the future, tell her what I wanted to do in the future, what kind of person I wanted to be, and in the face of my brain-opening ideas, my mother was very supportive, even if it was a little unrealistic, but my mother was very supportive of me. I look forward to going home every day, missing my mother's egg fried rice, the scorched bitterness, the taste of home. My mother often told me that she liked her hometown, the countryside, and the green vegetable fields, and she felt particularly at ease every time she saw them. Mom is a "forgetful" person, seems to be born with some kind of function, forget all those unhappy, left are happy and peaceful, mom told me to learn to discover the beauty of life, to remember others are good to you, forget others are bad to you, after all, there are many words can not be expressed.

Sincerely

salute

Your daughter: Lin Ling

December 12, 2021

Have you been doing well lately?

This is the second family letter I have written to you. Before writing this letter, I wet my eyes for the first time after college. The tears contained not only my thoughts about you, but also my guilt. These complex emotions made me sour, and the tears couldn't stop falling.

After entering the university, I started to get busy. In addition to my daily studies, I also joined the student council and some clubs to enrich my life. By participating in some activities, I found some of my shining points and became more confident. Now I am no longer afraid of people, and I now not only dare to preside over but also participate in several debate competitions. Through these exercises, I have begun to take the initiative to talk to people and express my feelings and opinions to others. I thought, I should have grown.

Speaking of which, I want to apologize to you first: "I'm sorry, Mom and Dad! "In order to welcome and fit the new university life, I often forget to talk to you on the phone. Mom said I don't want you. Actually! Mom, you know what? Your daughter is the first time she's so far from home, the first time she's residential. There were many nights when I could only hide in the quilt and cry. But every time you ask me, "Do you want us?" I always smiled and replied, "It's okay!" "Actually, I really miss you guys, but I'm afraid to see my mother sad, and I can only laugh and say the past."

After I went to college, when I put my hands in the cold tap water to wash my clothes, when I was supposed to go to bed at noon to dry and fold clothes, I realized that my mother was really hard. Thinking back to high school, I once said that I must go far away and leave your control as soon as possible. For this sentence, I only have endless guilt at the moment. It's me who doesn't understand things, it's me who's willful. Mom, I really miss you and want the meals you cook. Dad, I'm really sorry to make you earn so much money. In the future, I will definitely study hard, find a good job in the future, and honor you well. Mommy and Daddy, you've worked hard! In the days to come, we must pay attention to the body. I had a good time in college, don't read it.

Wish: good health, smile always open

Your daughter: Tao Jing

November 28, 2021

Dear Mom,

How are you? Moonlight babbling, how charming, cozy. I can't help but reminisce about the past of my childhood, the corners of my mouth involuntarily rising, what a happy smile.

Time is hurried, the years are gushing, countless black silk turns white hair, and the road is not exhausted and suffered all the way. Mother's love is the greatest love under the heavens, the deepest love. Thinking back to the bits and pieces you have paid for me in your life, memories come to mind one after another. From conceiving in October to raising me as an adult, you are like a gentle drizzle that moisturizes me; you are like a warm sunshine that shines on me; you are like a gentle breeze, blowing me. Your gaze hides love deeply; your words open the first lesson of my life; your shoulders, with weakness to support the strong, your great love, with the yardstick can not be measured. Thank you for giving me the most selfless love, careful care, and accompanying me to grow. Once upon a time, you were also a little girl who loved to be beautiful, and you also had spring flowers stuffed eggs, autumn water sencha, but the end of the rice oil salt, sweet and sour, bitter and spicy. Without you, there would be no me, no sadness of my dozens of cold and summer, and no laughter of my spring, summer, autumn and winter. Thank you for giving me all the beauty and growth in my life. In the long road of growth, every fall, every injury, you are always by my side, silently helping me and supporting me. When I complained that you were too wordy and didn't understand me at all, when I shouted "Don't worry about you", I said it inadvertently, and afterwards I secretly regretted it alone. Your menopause had a huge collision with my adolescence. You may be disappointed in me occasionally, and I will complain about your nagging, but we all know that we are still a hundred points in each other's eyes forever. You are a first-time mother, I am also a first-time child, we all grew up in friction, please forgive me, this clumsy child, I really don't love very much.

"Whoever says anything will be rewarded with three Chunhui." God couldn't be everywhere, so he created Mom. You are first yourself, then my mother, may the years be gentle with you, love you more than three thousand times. Don't worry about the old days, your years have always had me, in the past you helped me to toddler, in the future I will accompany you on the sunset walk.

salute!

Your child: Cai Siyu

December 10, 2021

Hello! Have you been okay lately?

The first time I communicated with you in writing, after a few months, I also accumulated a lot of gratitude. You are an umbrella that shields me from the wind and rain; you are a cup of hot water that warms both my body and my heart; you are also a cutting board, which, though mercilessly carved by me with lingering scars, quietly embraces me. I always thought that the college entrance examination could leave my parents' side without restraint outside the province, and I could be more free, but when I came to this strange city, I found that the temperature at home made me most nostalgic.

Now that I have entered the university gates, I think back to the old bits and pieces, when I fell asleep in the bed, you have risen early to prepare a rich breakfast for me; when the sun hit me, when I was overcoming difficulties, you washed and cooked for me at home; when the moon hung high and I was "fighting in blood", you always fought with me. When I was highly nervous, you never stopped, cheering me up every day, supporting me, encouraging me, at that time, I was very hard, and so did you. But what makes me most indignant is that when I took the college entrance examination, you traveled because of your work, I understand your hardships, and I understand you, but because of the college entrance examination, your absence will still make me sad. However, I have now entered the university as I wished. However, I often feel sorry for you, because I always feel that I am not your pride, I have not achieved your satisfactory results, although you do not say it, probably afraid that I will be sad.

Before, I always felt that you did not love me, felt that you were partial to my brother, felt that you did not give me enough love, always envied other people's children, what to want, but I think carefully, every time I need something you will be ready without saying a word, what I want, although you reject me with your mouth, but in fact, you will still give me ready, you are always knife mouth tofu heart. In fact, I have what others have, and I need you to try my best to satisfy me if others don't have it, and I am very grateful to have a mother like you.

I have always wanted to say sorry to you to the previous me, probably because of my own rebellion and ignorance, I used to mess with you often, and you were so angry that you lay in bed all day and ignored me, but you loved me after all, and when you were angry, you would cook for me and be afraid that I would be hungry. Now that your daughter is 19 years old, she has grown up, she is no longer the angry and noisy child she used to be, she may really grow up, go to college, and feel more and more how precious your love for me is, and now she has become a daughter who only wants to protect you, and I hope that I can become your pride in the future.

Your daughter: Gong Ziling

December 1, 2021

Since I went to college, the number of times I went home has also decreased dramatically, although I am also a resident in high school, but I can always see each other once a week, and now Bengbu and Chizhou are far apart. Then borrow this little family letter to pin my little thoughts!

Every time I video call you, I can actually see the happiness and concern in your mother's eyes. Even hanging up the phone has to say goodbye several times, like a little couple in love haha, maybe I am not the right metaphor. In fact, I miss you too, every time something funny happens or I take a prize or a beautiful scenery on the road I will want to send it to you, I have always thought so, only mom and dad are really happy for you, without a trace of doubt and jealousy. This kind of sharing is what makes each other feel comfortable.

"If we encounter difficulties or unpleasant things, our parents are our strongest backing" has been said to be rotten, but even if it is bad, it has been said because it is indeed an unchanging truth. No matter what I do wrong, call you and you'll still keep telling me to take care of myself and dress more and keep warm. At that moment, the heart will always be very inexplicably calm and at ease, even free, will feel that those difficulties are not going well is a big deal, the car to the mountain will have a road, the boat to the bridge is naturally straight. No matter how difficult life is, no matter how many troubles there are still you behind, really care, real warmth, really help at all times, then what else to worry about, and why bother. I also want to say thank you to you for this, it is behind me that I don't have to worry about the back road, so that I have been growing up safely and running to the light.

Birds will always grow, every drop of water will always rush forward, I am growing up slowly, and you are getting older. But the birds always have to land, and every drop of water will eventually flow into the arms of the sea, and I can be your backing in the future. Mom and Dad, I'm no longer the little fart kid who used to have to be personally checked by you and worried about me!

The letter is written here, I am very good here, you can rest assured, you must also take care of your own body, oh, the rest of the words back to us slowly.

Finally, I wish you good health and all the best!

Daughter: Hu Yanan

December 14, 2021

A letter to parents

Hello!

Have you been feeling well lately? Busy at work, right? Son, I am doing very well now, please don't worry too much about my parents, I have learned to grow up, but it is too far away from home, and sometimes I miss home.

I'm ashamed to say that I've never written to you yet! At the age of 20, I never said "I love you", but I didn't want to say it, but I was not good at expressing my love for you, and in college, I came into contact with many things that I didn't know before, and here I will gradually complete my three views. Remember when I first entered the university, I was not used to it, especially eating and living and the surrounding environment, because the climate here was slightly colder than home, but in the end I slowly adapted to it, but I had to sigh that time passed so fast, just adapted to the feeling of being a new student, immediately a semester is coming to an end, too late to think, too late to react, the most afraid is to think back to the college time that has been spent, I am unwilling to admit "waste", but think about it, I really seem to do nothing, the university is really an ivory tower, in it, sometimes it will become lazy , learned to enjoy, learned to hurt the spring and autumn, but forgot to aim high, always feel that they are still students are children, is a 20-year-old child, but have you ever thought, how many peers have been in the society for many years, recently saw a sentence on Weibo: "Society will not open up to you because you are a child." "Indeed, never have such a mentality, not to mention that I am no longer a child, and I should do what an adult should do."

There are still more than three years of time, this is not short, as long as the transformation begins now, the same can break through the mediocrity, so, with this determination, I no longer do nothing all day in school, but participate in various clubs, famous activities, I constantly improve myself, through these activities, I learned to grow, knowledge, enrich my own after-school words, I understand that the difference between people is in the time outside of these activities, so I insist on going to the playground every day after class to run, outside the time of eating and sleeping, I can create experiences that I am proud of.

Mom and Dad, you have given me too much, from now on, I have learned to be independent, do not let you worry about me, I will repay you with excellent results.

I wish Mom and Dad good luck in their work, good health and all the best.

Your son: Wang Xingyu

See the letter well.

Father's love is like a mountain, it is silent.

My years on the motorcycle lasted from birth to eighteen years of adulthood, listening to my mother, when I was a little baby, we both followed my father on the motorcycle, when I snuggled in my mother's arms and sat in the back seat of the car, I was wrapped tightly, my mother surrounded my father, listening to the car "buzzing" I probably always stared at the trees that moved back rapidly with curious eyes, searching the world, exploring nature...

Later, when I went to kindergarten, I also began to remember, at that time it was my mother who sent me to and from school, and my father was out early and late with the sound of "buzzing" cars, and I woke up, and the car was gone. After school and looking forward to my father riding the trolley home, I didn't know who everyone was working for, day after day. The good times are not long, the naïve children are about to go to primary school, I left my parents and left the familiar motorcycle, began to live with my grandfather, the primary school was accompanied by my grandfather, so I began to look forward to the arrival of the weekend, my father worked at home, my mother went out, looking forward to the weekend, my father rode to pick me up and my grandfather home, "buzzing" The three people on the car became dad, grandpa and me, and we went back to the mountains! Turn over the bend that your eyes say with your eyes closed; up the steep slope that is famous before you arrive. Back and forth, the hot summer sun always makes me dark; the cold wind in winter is bitter and bone-chilling, although it is cold to the point of shivering, but I am still the one who is caught in the middle to protect me... In this way, I spent seven more spring, summer, autumn and winter on the motorcycle.

In junior high school, for various reasons, I became a boarder, began to stay in school for a whole month, my father went out, my mother came back, yes, they worked and loved me, enough to move me for a lifetime. Dad started to come home occasionally, and I came home occasionally, but so that we could meet together and ride out for a walk together, Dad always tried to rush back from my holidays. Our family of three can ride a small motorcycle to talk and laugh and play in the mountains, and the day of "buzzing" with dad is really carefree!

Failed the college entrance examination, my parents did not blame me, no matter how to face the results, so I lost the opportunity to go home every day, or boarding, at this time home less, my father is busier, when I am not happy at school, I always miss my family, and the reassuring "buzzing" sound... My studies began to get busy, and I couldn't think of my days on the motorcycle.

Finally lived up to expectations, admitted to college, that five months of vacation I signed up to drive with my dad, dad learned this car how difficult it is! Because of the disability of my hands, I have not been allowed to learn to drive, and I understand my father's reluctance and disappointment... So I accompanied him on a motorcycle and ran countless trips around the city, exposing my father's disabled hands to the crowd countless times for various officials and doctors to watch at three hundred and sixty degrees. But countless mixed feelings disappear with the "buzz" of the motorcycle. I understood my father's grievances too well, and I was eager to have a car, and I was eager to shield us from the wind and rain. When we grew up, the little motorcycle could no longer accommodate the three of us. Fortunately, with our unremitting efforts and the good policies of the country, we have succeeded! I studied with my dad and we passed together, and he always liked to proudly say, "It's all inherited from me, that's why you're so good!" "We've got a new car and two drivers!"

I have never sat on that little motorcycle again, which means that it will be snubbed by us forever, but the memory cannot be cooled, the memory cannot be changed! There will never be any more windy days in the car, but there will be no more warmth of three people huddled together to keep warm. Life is getting happier and happier, but I, too, have been thinking about the days when we rode together in a happy life...

Poor words do not represent emotional alienation. Mom and Dad are always the best in my heart, irreplaceable!

You show me the world, and we become each other's world!

Your daughter: Lejia

2. As the saying goes, generations of relatives are deeper than the sea! Ancestral love is a rare joy under the heavens. Once upon a time, I was spoiled and spoiled in your arms, countless childhood dreams, and endless grandparents! Dear grandparents, grandparents, I really hope that the years will slowly go by, let me accompany you to grow old slowly!

A letter to Grandpa

Dear Grandpa,

See the letter as it is, two months have passed, from the last time we met or during the National Day, I don't know if you miss me! Of course, I'm asking knowingly, but I miss you anyway.

Although when I was in high school, I had not seen him for nearly two months, but at that time, I was in Lu'an in my hometown, and I never felt homesick. And now, although I am still in Bengbu in Anhui Province, the distance is not too far, but I think it is really very troublesome to go home, and yes, you are still motion sickness, and your wish to personally send me at the beginning of school has not been fulfilled. I look forward to college life and can't wait to start a new journey, but you are still where you are, watching me "fly" farther and farther.

I have never liked to show my heart to others, but I have never been stingy in expressing my feelings to people close to me. You know, I love to coddle you, and I fully respond to the phrase "petty and petite" because I can feel your preference. As long as I'm spoiled, you'll be soft-hearted, right, because you love me so much.

I don't know if you remember, in the first two years you often told me: "You have to be sensible, you have to get used to it." "What do you mean?" I think I kind of understand now, yes, I'm going to make you feel worth it. You, for your part, rarely discuss future conversations with me, blame me, and always interrupt you. But who makes you start with the words "Wait until I'm gone"! In fact, at that moment I was very scared, extremely scared, and even more unbelievable what would happen in the future without you. Therefore, this is the least interesting thing to say.

I often miss all my childhood, even though I was naïve and mischievous, but the memories are quite beautiful. When I went out to play, I was carried on the shoulder by my grandmother, let the bees sting the head bag, and went home to make everyone laugh; I also climbed a ten-meter-high tree to lay down the bird's nest, and then took out my own swallow nest, and was reprimanded by you for half a day; I also made a mess at home by overturning the wall and the cabinet, hurting myself, and as a result, you still hurt me first, without considering any gains and losses. I often say, in the future, I will find a boyfriend like you, who will take good care of me and be considerate. Anyway, you can take care of all kinds of details, and I feel honored to be pampered by you.

"Love you more than yourself." You say that and you do it. I sincerely wish you good health, a long life, and a happy life every day.

Zhang Yihao

You are such a stingy old man, and in the year, four months, and fifteen days that you have been away from us, you have not come to my dreams once.

On July 23, 2020, at eleven o'clock in the afternoon, my first college entrance examination, fell off the list, and at two o'clock in the afternoon, you left forever. This day was like an abyss for me, the sun was big that day, but the heart was like ice, and in the year of re-reading, the scene of this day played repeatedly in my mind, and overnight, my heart was like two people. The failure of the college entrance examination deepened my guilt for you, you should also be waiting, waiting for my brother and me to get the college entrance examination results, see that we can become college students, and draw a happy end to your life. Your aunt lied to you, a white lie, and exchanged your deep sleep.

What am I thinking at this moment? When I was young, you made me sit on the back of the old cow in my house, and you led the old cow and walked in the fields; you took me to catch hedgehogs in the vegetable garden and take them home to feed; it was your face when I shared with you my favorite snacks countless times; it was the big cotton hat that covered even a few white hairs in winter; it was the thin figure of you lying on the hospital bed emaciated and weak; it was my own incompetence. Why can't you work harder at that time, just try a little harder, will it be different, or why can't you wait for me anymore, that is, wait for another year, then my heart will be less tormented, the things that should be done are not completed, and there is no time to stay with you at the time of death, thinking about everything when I was young, I said a few words, Grandpa smelled and got drunk.

The deceased is gone, I say nothing at this time is useless, maybe you will want to accompany me for a lifetime, maybe like now you can't accompany me for a lifetime, but you can accompany me for a day I already feel that this day is my life. I believe that you have not really left, just out of time, I hope you can come to my dreams, so that I can see you again.

Wu Fan

A letter to Grandma

Dear Grandma,

Hello!

In the blink of an eye, I have grown from an ignorant little boy to a little adult, and perhaps in your eyes, I am still the ignorant child.

For as long as I can remember, it was Grandma you have always taken me, at that time, my parents went out to work, and it was Grandma you who brought me up. Thank you for your meticulous care for me over the years. When I was a child, the naughty me always slept honestly, and always loved to pestering you to tell me stories and sing nursery rhymes. You always talk tirelessly, sometimes you scare me, and if you don't go to sleep quickly, there will be evil spirits taking you away... Looking back now, it's all full of memories!

Every summer, you are always extra thin, I know that it is all for me, my physique loves to attract mosquitoes, a bite is red and swollen. Coupled with the fact that it was hot again at night, I was unstable all night. Later, you shook the fan to drive away mosquitoes for me, I slept peacefully, but you stayed up all night, and now every time I think about it, I am very uncomfortable, your deep love makes me feel happy, and at the same time, it is more painful.

From childhood to adulthood, I have never left your sight, this time to go to college, should be my farthest away from you, the longest time. Grandma, you can rest assured, I have a good life here alone, and I have made a lot of classmates and friends. But, Grandma, you are so old, and you live alone in your hometown, how can you reassure me? Grandma, do you go grocery shopping and meat as often as I usually do at home? In the hometown must take good care of the body, health and wellness is the most important ah.

Grandma, I miss you so much! There is probably a month to go, I can go home to see you, a thousand words on the phone is better to go home to see, more with you. From childhood to adulthood, you are accompanying me to see me, time is changing, and the heart of loving grandchildren remains unchanged; Time is changing, care is unchanged, time is changing, companionship is always the same, your company gives me warmth and human capacity, in the future, change me to accompany you. I will take your weathered hand and accompany you as you continue in the sunset, just as you were with me when I was a child!

Wish Grandma peace and happiness!

Xu Wenxiang

As of today, I have lost half a year of you, but I still can't forget it! Because I have lived with you since I was a child, grown up under your care, taught me how to behave in the world, and let me know how to make progress with others in life!

Grandpa, I know that you have great expectations of me, and I hope that I can do my best for the motherland in the future life and create a better life for our generation and the next generation! You always want our generation to be united, to face difficulties together at all times, and never to give up! Grandpa, although you have left me, I will continue your wish! If nothing else, because I also want to create our own glorious era! Although I always disappoint you, you have never lost faith in me and have always encouraged me!

I know that I have never let you worry about it, always worry about me at any time, plan a lot for me, and hope that I can go on forever, I have all this in mind, and I have been working hard for this goal! Because I don't want to disappoint you anymore, I want to work hard for myself and for the expectations in your heart! Although you will not be able to see me with your own eyes again, I know that you will be watching me in heaven and guiding me in my life! Grandfather! Rest assured! This time you won't be disappointed!

Every time I think of you, there is always some loss in my heart, because I feel that I can't enjoy your care again! I can't do my filial piety around you again! I was not by your side when you left, leaving you with the pain of chemotherapy, I did not do what a grandchild should do, and I have always felt guilty about it! So I want to do everything I can to make up for this regret!

Grandpa, the truth you have spoken has made me understand the hard-won nature of today's life; let me understand the strength of the motherland; and also let me know how to love our motherland and the land under our feet! Grandfather! Thank you! Let me know how to do it in society in the future!

Grandpa, rest assured! I will love life even more in the future! May you be well in Heaven!

Your grandchild: Yan Yuhan

A letter to Grandpa

I've been in good health lately!

I wanted to eat your braised pork, I wanted to eat it, and I thought about it for a long time. I grew older, taller, farther away from home, longer and longer, and saw less and less. Every time we meet, I feel like the wrinkles on your face are getting deeper and deeper.

Every time you call to ask about your situation, you always don't want us to worry, but tiredness always secretly betrays you and puts tiredness on your face. You comforted us, and I had tears in my eyes on the other end of the screen. This winter is exceptionally cold, you are also older, pay attention to cold and keep warm, earn money don't always think about helping us, buy yourself more good, the new down jacket bought for you can be warm, nothing to wear don't save the New Year to wear. I'll save money to buy you a new one for the New Year, and now it's more important than anything else to stay warm!

I am now in college, eat well, sleep well, study tasks are not as heavy as high school, you don't always worry about me, I will find a heartwarming job through four years of hard work, take care of myself, can help the family, so that you can also unload the burden on your body, enjoy the happiness. Grandma said to me, when my mother was pregnant with me, you said that you wanted to enjoy the blessings, and then you still held me in your heart, with fear of melting, holding it for fear of breaking. My mother once told me that when I was a child, I was particularly difficult to carry, crying in the middle of the night, and you patiently coaxed me to sleep on the side and held me in your warm and powerful arms. I remember when my sister was just born, you were still clumsily driven back by your grandmother, taking care of me who was forgotten by everyone, making me braised pork every day at noon, making egg soup, learning how to braid, from clumsy to skilled is your love for me.

When My grandmother passed away, I was really sad that you were rare not with me. I think you are also very sad, just silently dealing with the various things left behind. There is no one in this family who can always be with you...

Grandpa, go home and make me braised pork again!

Zhou Ying

3. This is the fate of the previous life, so you became my younger brother and sister! The fights, awkwardness, and friction that were once together have all turned into beautiful memories, brotherhood, and preciousness! Look at it, dear brothers and sisters, today I am also an adult, I will teach you how to grow up!

Dear Brother,

Hello!

Have you studied hard in school lately? Did you make your mother angry at home?

Time flies, and I haven't been home for months. You should not be surprised that I am writing this letter to you. This is just a family letter.

Brother, this semester I spent in college did learn things that I wouldn't normally learn at home. Also saw, something that I couldn't see at home. Everyone here is very self-reliant and has a different self-confidence than my high school classmates. The school's library and playground also exude youthful vitality. At night, the brightly lit study room illuminates their path to firm ideals, and the starry sports field in the middle of the night marks their journey to a better future. During the day, the sound of teachers' lectures and students' reading is often heard in the teaching building. Everyone is in their own profession, looking for a better version of themselves.

Here, unlike high school and junior high school. The learning here is mainly based on the self-discipline of the students. Dormitories, teaching buildings, and libraries can all be places for them to pick up lights and fight at night.

Brother, you are now in the middle school of your hometown, and your vision is still very narrow. I suggest you go to the city's model middle school and the surrounding universities on weekends. Feel the atmosphere there. I'm sure you'll feel an atmosphere you've never felt before. There you can feel the tranquility of learning. You'll be driven by that vibe in an instant.

Brother, in addition to studying, you should also exercise more. Communicate with your classmates more. Friendship as a student is the purest. Remember to make more friends, make good friends, and don't make bad friends. I have time to go to the gym with my classmates to exercise. The body is the capital of the revolution. To have a strong body. You must not indulge in the virtual game world of the Internet every day. That will surely make you regret it in the future.

Brother, if you feel that you have no direction to go, you may wish to spend a little more time to set a goal. Don't go blindly. That will most likely get you lost in the way. Direction is extremely important to a person. He can either guide you forward, or he can keep you firmly believed in desperate situations.

Brother, I haven't been home for months. But I still miss you and my father and mother. You must not make your parents angry at home. When you have time, you have to help your mother do some housework and share some of the things you can share. Brother, hurry up and grow up! As your brother, I will guide you ahead of you. Don't be afraid of the pain of growing up. Me and Dad, Mom will always be your most solid backing.

Finally, may you grow healthily and learn to progress.

Your brother: Sun Jiaqi

First letter to cousin

Dear Cousin,

See the letter as well, is your life in the second year of high school still full? Are you having trouble with your studies? My sister, I just went to college and had a little experience.

My sister knows that you are a hard-working child with good grades, but don't put too much pressure on yourself, the weekend time is supposed to be used for a good rest, and you choose to study physics. To be honest, I know you are unwilling, and because of them, your classmates are going, you are afraid of not being able to keep up.

Sister, open your eyes, your fate is not bad, please stop worrying, no matter how good the school is compared to your health. I wish you had attained spiritual abundance, rather than confining a sunny sixteen-year-old to one desk. You have to try, to accept new things and new people. The college entrance examination is very important, but you are more important to me than the college entrance examination. People who are not in a good place should not be treated, the sea of people is vast, some people you should not care about them, they will disappear into the sea of acquaintances.

I want you to get enough sleep and read an hour of extracurricular books two or three days a week instead of dwelling on the scores and taking out a day out of the week, wherever you go. Choose to go to a surrounding city for a month. Go to the breath to find the decharging and charging. High school is a good time, don't think of it as purgatory. One day you will be grateful for everything you have today. I have to have a grateful heart for the teacher, which you have done a lot, and I am very pleased. Be a sensible child and don't get angry with your mother. Mom was also very hard, so she had a day off. You must be more considerate of your mother. At this age, I always feel that no one understands you, in fact, no one needs to understand anyone, you must work hard, don't be afraid. A person is also very good and learns to live independently on their own. In fact, there is no high school happiness in college, and high school only has exam assignments and study, all for the same goal. Learn to be confident and believe in beautiful things. Don't lack confidence because of your own imperfections, confident girls are the most beautiful. Sister believes that you will definitely meet a better and brighter future.

Sister, come on. No matter where you are in the end, your sister will become your strong backing.

I wish you good health and all the best

Your sister: Wang Youyou

Dear Sister,

Good evening!

To tell the truth, give you this little fart child feel nothing to say, but there are a lot of things to tell you, Xiao Quan, sister I have gone to college, after a while it will really become an adult, watching you from a small one, holding dare not use the stage to now have my tall one, looking annoyed, feeling quite big, the previous children are almost able to be responsible for their own words and deeds, although you are not old now, but I know that you already know a lot of things, so ah, you have to learn to do some things, For example, take the initiative to complete their homework, help their parents to do some housework, study well in school, do not run around when staying at home, complete homework well, there are many people with outstanding abilities in the current society, if you do not work hard, you will be eliminated a little bit, so ah, I sincerely hope that you will obediently and well.

Our family is not very rich but not poor, the happy life we have now is the hard work of mom and dad, you have to know moderation, can not put forward unreasonable requirements to mom and dad, to understand what does not belong to us we do not force, and, can not have and others to compare the mind, we have to know that some things are not a symbol of something, mom and dad's love is worth showing off and cherishing, and oh more chat with mom and dad, although, You are still young but talk to mom and dad more, I have left home, I always felt that mom and dad don't love us, now I understand, our mom and dad are weird, they actually love us, but they don't express, they don't use words to express their love for us, but they will use the most clumsy actions to show their love for us, so ah to accompany them more.

Your sister: Quan Danhui

December 1, 2021

When you see this letter, you must wonder why I don't call you, but write a letter to you, in fact, some words can not be said to your face, but the letter can be said.

Sister, you are now a first-year student, but also grown up, when I was a child my brother often yelled at you, when my brother I was adolescence, bad temper, always angry for no reason, this has always made me feel very guilty, I am not as good to other people's brothers, love you, but I have always loved you very much, I hope you can forgive your brother for the way you used to be.

You have also grown up, not arguing with me like before, and now that you are a first-year student, you must also study hard, although your grades are not good, but also study well. I haven't helped you with my homework before, and I'm responsible. Although we don't see each other very often now, I sometimes want to give you and my parents a few phone calls, but I am a little embarrassed, but I have always thought of you in my heart. When you grow up, you should also pay attention to civilized etiquette, and when you go out to eat in the future, friends who meet your parents should also take the initiative to say hello, don't talk, that doesn't seem polite. Eating at the dinner table should also pay attention to their own etiquette, and they should stand up and toast well. The older you get, the more mature your mind becomes, not the little girl you used to be, and the longer and more beautiful you are. In this brother also wish you more and more good looks, better and better grades.

Brother who loves you: Xu Haozhan

December 8, 2021

When reading this family letter full of strong family affection, the teachers were always deeply moved! Not only is it gratifying for the students' growth and maturity, but also proud of the good family style contained in this sealed family letter! So why are we so moved and why do we resonate so strongly with it?

Because: "The foundation of the world is in the country, and the foundation of the country is at home." The Chinese nation has always attached great importance to the family, respecting the elderly and loving the young, wives and husbands, mothers and children filial piety, brothers, friends and brothers, cultivating and reading the family, being diligent and thrifty, knowing books and etiquette, abiding by discipline and law, family and wanshixing, and other traditional family virtues of the Chinese nation, which are remembered in the hearts of the Chinese and integrated into the blood of the Chinese, and are an important spiritual force that supports the Chinese nation's endless life and passing on the torch, and is a precious spiritual wealth for the construction of family civilization.

General Secretary Xi Jinping has said that family style is an important part of social atmosphere, and the family is not only the residence of people's bodies, but also the destination of people's hearts. If the family style is good, it will be able to prosper and be harmonious and happy; if the family style is poor, it will inevitably harm the children and grandchildren and harm the society, just as the so-called "home of good deeds will have yuqing; and if you accumulate bad homes, there will be residual disasters." Zhuge Liang's aphorisms, "Yan Family Training", "Zhu Zi Family Training", etc., are all advocating a family style. Mao Zedong, Zhou Enlai, Zhu De, and other revolutionaries of the older generation all attached great importance to family style. General Secretary Xi Jinping's words have a long focus, emphasizing the importance of attaching importance to family building and the cultivation of family style. Look, this letter from the students of Bengbu College is a vivid reproduction of the inheritance of good family style!

Students, does the affection between the lines resonate with you? It's winter vacation, and at this moment, are you savoring this strong family affection with your family? I hope to see you again next year!

Source: Marxist Academy

Editor: Jing Yuting, a school press corps

Review: Mao Xingyi