It is said that women in love have zero IQ, in fact, men are the same.
In the eyes of many men, it is natural to spend some money for his girlfriend in the process of falling in love, but can you imagine an infatuated man who has spent 800,000 yuan of savings for his girlfriend in 4 years, but has never seen his girlfriend?
This is not a fictional story, but a real case.
Xiao Lu and Xiao Yang
This obsessive and generous protagonist is called Xiao Lu, a native of Hangzhou.
Xiao Lu liked martial arts since childhood, his academic performance was not good, he did not go to high school after graduating from junior high school, he went to a martial arts school to learn martial arts, and later because of an injury during a training, he could not continue to practice martial arts, so he had to withdraw from school and go home.
Xiao Lu's family is in a good financial situation, but he does not want his parents to raise them, so he opened an online store online, specializing in selling second-hand luxury goods, usually maintaining customers online, offline purchase and delivery, a person to take care of business, very busy and fulfilling.
As he grew older, seeing that his friends around him were paired up and talking about love, Xiao Lu felt that a person was very lonely and hoped to have a confidant with a red face to accompany him. It's just that love is something that can't be demanded, although I have been in contact with some of the opposite sex, but I don't call, and the other party is not the person that Xiao Lu wants to wait for.
It may be that the fate has not arrived, and everything is natural! Xiao Lu thought to himself.
Perhaps it was the moon elder in the sky who heard Xiao Lu's voice, and fate inadvertently came.
One day in September 2017, a stranger suddenly added Xiao Lu's WeChat, saying that he was asking him to help identify the bag. Seeing that the other party is a young and beautiful girl's avatar and has business contacts, Xiao Lu did not hesitate to pass the other party's friend application.
The girl's name is Xiao Yang, a native of Anhui.
Xiao Yang introduced that he accidentally visited Xiao Lu's online store, felt that Xiao Lu knew luxury goods very well, added his WeChat, hoping that he would help identify several bags he bought, Xiao Lu was very happy to help, and the two people met in this way.
Since then, Xiao Yang has been buying things in Xiaolu's online store every three to five minutes, generally buying a small wallet, small accessories and the like, because they are second-hand goods, the price is not expensive, it is also a few hundred yuan, men and women have.
This made Xiao Lu feel very strange, so he asked the other party who bought something for.
Xiao Yang replied: I don't give it to anyone, I put it there to see for myself.
Xiao Lu was even stranger, because the other party's explanation was obviously unreasonable. If you really have money, just to buy it back and put it at home, you won't buy second-hand goods? Not to mention the men's bag, what is there to see?
Xiao Yang seemed to understand Xiao Lu's thoughts and told Xiao Lu that she was joking, in fact, the reason why she always looked for Xiao Lu to buy things was because only in this way could she often chat with Xiao Lu.
Hearing this sentence, Xiao Lu was flattered, was the other party stirring himself? Xiao Lu, a "straight man of steel" who has no experience in love, instantly blushed and beat his heart, not knowing how to deal with it, and even some of them were in a hurry.
Unlike Xiao Lu's nervousness, Xiao Yang behaved generously, and she told Xiao Lu bluntly that she felt that Xiao Lu had run an online store by himself at a young age, was very self-motivated, and was sunny and enthusiastic, which was the type she admired, and she unabashedly showed her heart.
Next, the more the two people talked, the more speculative, Xiao Yang liked to post selfies in the circle of friends, travel, ski and eat with friends... Living in a sunny and healthy life, she often takes the initiative to privately chat and send photos of herself to Xiao Lu.
In Xiao Lu's view, Xiao Yang looks very much like Di Li Reba, youthful and beautiful, with a bad appearance, and it makes people very protective when they see it. Such a big beautiful woman took the initiative to pursue herself, Xiao Lu's mood can be imagined, and her good feelings for Xiao Yang doubled.
Photo of Xiao Yang
Next, Xiao Lu learned in the chat that Xiao Yang's life is very special, her family is incomplete since she was a child, her father went to prison early to serve a sentence, her mother divorced and left, she was brought up by her aunt.
Growing up so unfortunate, but still sunny and lively, which makes Xiao Lu like more and more, plus Xiao Yang is gentle and considerate, empathetic, although in a different place, but he is very concerned about Xiao Lu, every day to ask for warmth.
Xiao Lu, who has been looking forward to a good love, was soon attacked by the gentleness of the other party, and the two formally established a romantic relationship.
Although it is a long-distance relationship, and the two have never met, this does not affect the development of their feelings in the slightest, especially Xiao Lu has completely fallen into a gentle township, and even has no intention of taking care of the online store, and the business performance has directly declined.
After a long time, Xiao Lu began to be dissatisfied with sending texts and proposed to video chat with Xiao Yang.
But whenever he made this request, he would be rejected by Xiao Yang, and at most he could only chat by voice. Xiao Yang told Xiao Lu that her father in prison was very concerned about her safety and asked her not to video chat with anyone so as not to be deceived or subjected to online violence.
Xiao Lu is very strange, boyfriend and girlfriend video chat about the day, what impact can there be, how can there be network violence? But thinking about it, I thought that it might be that Xiao Yang's family was special, so he managed it extra strictly, and he didn't force it anymore.
But two months later, Xiao Lu encountered a big thing: his girlfriend was probably going to be gone.
One day, Xiao Yang suddenly cried and told Xiao Lu that her family did not agree to be with Xiao Lu, and forced her to go on a blind date with a rich second generation, and she could not stand it alone.
Hearing this news, Xiao Lu was so anxious that he drove from Hangzhou to Anhui overnight, and he decided to personally come to the door, make it clear to Xiao Yang's family, and bring his girlfriend back to meet his parents by the way.
Near his girlfriend's house, Xiao Lu called Xiao Yang to say that he wanted to see her, and Xiao Yang was very moved, but their whole family was opposed to two people falling in love, and they had been controlled by their families and could not come out at all.
Xiao Lu listened and was even more anxious. At this time, Xiao Yang comforted him and said: Fortunately, there is a person on his side, that is, the aunt who raised her since childhood. He had already convinced his aunt, and his aunt was willing to come out to see Xiao Lu for a trip, hoping that Xiao Lu would seize this opportunity and plead with his aunt well, and only by convincing his aunt could the two of them have a future.
A photo posted by Xiao Yang
Under Xiao Yang's arrangement, Xiao Lu met Xiao Yang's aunt for the first time.
My aunt is a middle-aged woman of about 50 years old, fat and good-looking, and a reasonable and good person at first glance. Seeing his aunt who raised his girlfriend, Xiao Lu was very emotional like seeing his own relatives.
The aunt told Xiao Lu that in order to be with him, Despite the opposition of his family, Xiao Yang even took a knife and cut his leg, the wound was stitched more than a dozen stitches, and also showed Xiao Lu a photo of Xiao Yang's wound, which was bloodstained and shocking, which made Xiao Lu both shocked and moved, and felt that his girlfriend had a deep affection for him and sacrificed too much.
The more Xiao Lu thought about it, the more distressed he became, and he directly knelt on the ground and wept bitterly, begging his aunt to complete himself and Xiao Yang.
The kind aunt learned that Xiao Lu came overnight and was touched by his sincerity, especially Xiao Lu was on her knees and crying, she was also touched and broken, crying together, and then comforted Xiao Lu, saying that she regarded Xiao Yang as a daughter, as long as Xiao Yang was willing, she would definitely support and find a way to let the two of them together.
Xiao Lu was overjoyed to hear this, and quickly asked his aunt what a good way was, and her aunt kindly reminded Xiao Lu that he must let Xiao Yang's whole family see his sincerity, so that it is possible to impress the other party, not too stingy.
Xiao Lu suddenly realized, immediately ran to the mall to buy various gifts, gold and silver jewelry, famous cigarettes and wine, etc., spent tens of thousands of yuan in one breath, and asked his aunt to bring them back.
After a few days, the good news came, and Xiao Yang excitedly told Xiao Lu that the family felt that her boyfriend made online was quite realistic, and her attitude was obviously relaxed, but they still had to test Xiao Lu for a while.
Through this incident, Xiao Yang also saw her boyfriend's love for himself and made a promise to Xiao Lu:
I will never marry someone else, you must be tested, wait for me, never leave me.
Xiao Lu burst into tears with excitement and confessed affectionately to Xiao Yang:
Rest assured, dear, I will not abandon you, and I will not abandon you no matter how long!
Xiao Lu and Xiao Yang's chat history
No one could have imagined that Xiao Lu had actually waited for four full years.
In the past four years, Xiao Lu has never seen a girlfriend, not even a video chat, only relying on phone, WeChat text, voice to fall in love, but Xiao Lu has always had no regrets and waited obsessively.
After the parents knew, they felt that their son was too stupid, and more than once advised Xiao Lu to say that the news had reported a lot of similar "online love fraud routines", which must be false, but Xiao Lu did not believe it, and even had fierce quarrels with his parents many times.
Finally, in order to prevent Xiao Lu from falling in love, the extremely disappointed parents directly said to their son, "You don't want to enter the house, we don't have your son", and Xiao Lu actually fell out with his parents directly for Xiao Yang, and did not go home for a long time, nor did he contact his parents.
In Xiao Lu's view, his girlfriend Xiao Yang has made unimaginable sacrifices in order to be with himself, and as a big man, he must overcome all difficulties and cannot live up to the deep friendship of the beautiful people.
In fact, there is another important reason why Xiao Lu is so obsessed and bitter for four years, that is, Xiao Yang's aunt has repeatedly "tested" him, supporting Xiao Lu to keep his promises and waiting for Xiao Yang.
Victim Xiao Lu
It was March 2018, just over two months after Xiao Lu first arrived in Anhui, Xiao Yang told Xiao Lu that his aunt had recently gone to Hangzhou for a trip and asked Xiao Lu to host him.
At this time, it is the so-called "test period" of the Yang family, Xiao Lu is worried about how to make his girlfriend's family fully accept himself, such a good performance opportunity came, he did not hesitate to agree.
In order to strive for a good performance, Xiao Lu did not let his aunt live in the hotel, but took his aunt to live in his own home, he worked while taking care of his aunt, food, clothing, housing, food and clothing, all the expenses were packaged, and he also took his aunt almost all over the city of Hangzhou, and he cried out one by one "aunt", just like his own aunt.
The aunt is older, the blood pressure is high, Xiao Lu gets up every morning, he has to measure the blood pressure of the aunt, and remind the aunt to take antihypertensive drugs every night. It can be said that Xiao Lu has never been so concerned about his parents, just like a nanny serving his aunt, he is afraid that his aunt will not be happy and say bad things about himself in front of his girlfriend.
The aunt who lives in the Xiaolu family
At first, Xiao Lu thought that his aunt would go back after living in his home for a while, but surprisingly, his aunt had traveled all over the city of Hangzhou and had no intention of leaving, and still lived in Xiao Lu's house.
What is even more bizarre is that my aunt has lived for more than three years!
For more than three years, her aunt lived in Xiao Lu's house, except for eating, drinking, and sleeping, she did not do any work, did not treat herself as an outsider at all, and all the living expenses during the period were borne by Xiao Lu alone.
Over time, Xiao Lu found that this aunt was a little different, she held three mobile phones, rotated every day to play, kept calling, sending messages, and did not know who to chat with, what she was busy with. Sometimes, the aunt lay on the sofa and looked at the mobile phone, And Xiao Lu casually walked over to talk, and the aunt would turn the mobile phone screen to him.
What makes Xiao Lu even more speechless is that as long as Xiao Lu wants to talk to his girlfriend Xiao Yang on the phone or in voice, his aunt will throw him out and let him go to the basement or other places to talk, and he also said that he is old and can't listen to the love words of young people.
Obviously in his own home, making a phone call to see the faces of outsiders makes Xiao Lu very depressed, and it is inevitable to complain in front of his girlfriend. But whenever this time comes, the sympathetic Xiao Yang will give him a shot of "cardiotonic agent", saying that his aunt is deliberately testing Xiao Lu's character and must meet his aunt's requirements, so that after three years of persistence, the family will agree to the two marriages.
Because of this, Xiao Lu had to be patient and hoped to pass the test.
But the yang family's test is one link after another, they believe that Xiao Lu's character has passed, but the economic conditions must continue to test, hoping that the two young people can have their own small treasury to prepare for future marriage.
Xiao Lu felt that he had fallen out with his parents for Xiao Yang, and had served his aunt for so many years, so he must persist to the end and not give up halfway. In order to reflect his greatest sincerity, the infatuated Xiao Lu did not hesitate to hand over the bank account and password of his online store to his girlfriend Xiao Yang with confidence.
Since then, all the income of Xiaolu online store has been mastered by Xiao Yang, and all the funds have reached the hands of his girlfriend at the first time, and even if there is any extra income, Xiao Lu has also taken the initiative to transfer money to Xiao Yang. Xiao Yang said that she was afraid that Xiao Lu would spend money indiscriminately, and she wanted to save money for the two people so that their marriage had a good economic foundation.
Xiao Lu's transfer record to Xiao Yang
In this way, after more than three years, Xiao Yang received more than 800,000 yuan from Xiao Lu, and Xiao Lu himself was almost penniless.
I have to say that Xiao Lu really fought for love, whether it was hard or spending money, he did it to the extreme. The so-called lovers eventually become dependents, so obsessed with Xiao Lu, in the end, it is always time to hug the beauty, right?
However, what Xiao Lu could not imagine was that he had been obsessed with waiting for four years, paying without complaint or regret, and fantasizing about beautiful love... All this was finally shattered one day.
What shattered all this was a piece of QQ message.
One day in August 2021, the protective film of his aunt's mobile phone was broken, and he asked XiaoLu to help him repair it.
During the repair process, the QQ message was constantly heard in the mobile phone, and the curious Xiao Lu wanted to open it to see, so he tried a few simple passwords, and it was quickly opened.
Chat history on my aunt's phone
Opening it, Xiao Lu was stunned. My aunt's QQ friends have a classification called "men", which has a lot of people, casually open a few to see, are ambiguous messages of flirting with each other.
Xiao Lu's first reaction was that his aunt was still quite popular at such a young age, but when he read it carefully, he found that these ambiguous love words seemed familiar, and the content and tone were similar to his and his girlfriend Xiao Yang chatting!
Xiao Lu was wooden in an instant, how could the tone of his aunt and girlfriend be so similar? A bad idea came to his mind, and then think about it, the girlfriend was raised by his aunt, and the tone of the two is similar and normal, don't think about it.
But the more he didn't want to, the more chaotic his head became, and finally Xiao Lu decided to test it himself.
The next day back home, Xiao Lu took advantage of his aunt's lack of attention, turned on the recording function of a mobile phone, hid it in a hidden place in his aunt's room, and then ran out by himself, and then called his girlfriend Xiao Yang.
The two of them finished on the phone, Xiao Lu came back and quietly retrieved the mobile phone, opened the recording and listened, dumbfounded:
There is no Xiao Yang at all, the whole process of the two people talking, it is the aunt imitating Xiao Yang's voice!
Xiao Yang and his aunt
"Husband, I miss you, I love you..." In the past, it sounded incredibly sweet, but now I hear Xiao Lu's nausea, goosebumps all over his body, and every sentence is like a thunderbolt on a sunny day, splitting onto Xiao Lu's head.
No matter how reluctant Xiao Lu was, he had to believe that his girlfriend who had been thinking about twilight, Qingqing and me, and who had been guarding for four years, was actually a fifty-year-old aunt who lived together under the same roof as himself for more than three years!
All the truth was revealed, and the mystery surrounding Xiao Yang's body was also solved, and while he was sad, Xiao Lu reported to the police.
The police quickly took control of her aunt Xu, but Xu never admitted that Xiao Yang was her disguise, and said that she really wanted to promote the good deeds of Xiao Lu and her niece "Xiao Yang", but she had not yet come to formally introduce Xiao Lu to her niece.
However, when the police showed her the chat records of the mobile phone used by Xu, Xu was dumbfounded.
The police control the aunt at Lu's home
In Xu's many chat records, she almost always uses the same name, the same photo, to the image of a girl in her twenties, and chats with many men at the same time, the tone of speech, her own encounters are the same.
In the face of evidence, Xu mou honestly confessed the fact that he cheated, her name is virtual, the selfie photo is downloaded online, and the life of the father serving a sentence is fictional, just to attract the opposite sex, win sympathy, and then use the method of "falling in love" to defraud the other party's money. Xu's methods of dealing with these men are exactly the same.
In the process of falling in love with each other, Xu Mou can be described as exhaustive, and even design a round of tests for screening, but those who hear that she is controlled by her family and go to the rescue in spite of herself may be a "big fish", and will be screened out by her to continue to "love", and play the role of "aunt" at the right time to knock on the side of the target and ask for money.
In order to cover up his true identity, Xu Mou will deliberately use an Anhui accent when talking to Xiao Lu in normal times, mixing some dialects and local dialects from time to time, and when he talks to Xiao Lu on the phone, he deliberately hides his accent and speaks a more standard Mandarin.
The civilian police investigating the case
Such a person playing double reeds has never worn a gang for such a long time.
Generally, network scammers are hiding behind their backs and dare not show their faces, and Xu Mou not only has two corners of one person, but also dares to move directly to the victim's home and publicly cheat under the eyes of the other party.
Of course, the reason why Xu Mou's not clever deception succeeded was also due to Xiao Lu being carried away by "love", his beautiful and foreign appearance, sweet and gentle voice... Such a beautiful image of the online love girlfriend, how can it not be the same person as the 50-year-old aunt with an Anhui accent, fat body and rustic clothes!
In the detention center, Xu mou made a ridiculous request to the police - she wanted to see Xiao Lu, she felt that she had not hurt Xiao Lu, and hoped that Xiao Lu could see the feelings of these years and help her ask the police for an intercession.
"Aunt" Xu was interrogated by the police
Xu Mou probably did not know that Xiao Lu had been crying after learning the truth, crying all day, and he had paid all these years without regard to the returns, paying not only all the savings of 800,000 yuan, but also the broken affection with his parents, and the most sincere and beautiful love, but the truth was too cruel for him to accept and bear...
In the end, it was the parents who stood up and said to Xiao Lu: "It's okay, you are still young, you can start all over again." ”
In fact, Xu's scam is very simple, it is a common routine of "killing pigs", the head is a beautiful woman, behind it is a foot-cutting man, similar scam media reports are numerous, there is always no shortage of people deceived, but like Xiao Lu, who has never met a girlfriend, even at the expense of scattering family wealth, the "infatuation species" that breaks with his parents is rare.
The Internet is a virtual world, especially in today's beauty and filter rampant, there may not be the truth in the picture, and seeing may not be true. As the saying goes, "What you see is what others want you to see."
"Aunt" Xu Mou
Here I would like to advise all idiot men and women: online dating is risky, and you need to be cautious when making friends.