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What if you don't want to get married and want to have children of your own?
In the past, people may be scolded for daydreaming, or have brain diseases, but the answer handed by 30-year-old beauty model Li Xueke is completely shocking.
She was a mum of three, but she wasn't married, didn't have a husband, didn't have a boyfriend, or rather she got pregnant and gave birth to her own child without having sex with any man.
Is such a thing reliable? Of course, before we all thought it was unreliable, such a thing only exists in mythological stories, the women in the daughter country of "Journey to the West" are pregnant by drinking the water in the Zimu River, and the unwitting Tang monks and disciples who drank the water in the Zimu River were also pregnant...
But after all, it is a mythical story, not real, our real life is mature men and women get married, have a relationship and give birth to children.
Adolescent Li Xueke also wants to meet the right person to get married and have children, but after experiencing several periods of disease-free emotions, she is no longer interested in men, she also thought about changing herself, but found it difficult to devote herself to feelings, and it is difficult to harvest love without single-mindedness, and she finally chose to give up.
She no longer has any hope for love, but she has a very strong desire: to be a mother before the age of 30!
Not in love and not married, but wanting his own children, is Li Xueke dreaming?
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How does Li Xueke, a single 30-year-old beauty model mother, have her own children?
First, let's take a look at what kind of person Li Xueke is.
Li Xueke comes from an ordinary family in Shandong, and when she was three years old, her parents divorced.
She hadn't read much, and her education was high school, but she had an outstanding figure and looks.
Li Xueke began to learn ethnic dance at the age of five, and later slowly moved to the modeling line with natural beauty and unremitting efforts.
After graduating from high school in 2006, Li Xueke signed a modeling agency and began to support herself, no longer reaching out to her mother for money. In 2008, she started a modeling summer school in her hometown of Heze.
At the beginning, it was very difficult to start a business, and in order to support Li Xueke to sell their only house for more than 300,000 yuan as a starting capital, and then gradually opened a model training school, now Li Xueke has 12 campuses in Heze.
Li Xueke began to do purchasing in 2013, at first her mother was opposed, and then she borrowed 50,000 yuan to go to Thailand to help people buy skin care products, Buddhist brands and so on, and earned back the cost in a week, and then she could earn 500,000 to 600,000 to 700,000 or 800,000 yuan a month.
Later, she ran an e-commerce company, and the scale of the business was very large, making her a well-known billionaire.
Success, just want to get married and have children, but the feelings have not been smooth, especially the last man is extremely controlling, 24 hours can not leave him, which makes her very broken, there is no strong desire for marriage.
She can't meet the right person, but she wants her own children. So gradually came to the idea of having a child.
In the autumn of 2018, after visiting Thailand for three months, Li Xueke selected a medical institution for IVF through an intermediary. Immediately after, she injected ovulation, retrieved eggs, selected a British sperm, implanted three embryos at once, and successfully implanted them all. After that, in order to save the fetus, she gave more than 140 injections of progesterone.
Li Xueke was born in China after becoming pregnant, giving birth to two boys and a woman, and three mixed-race babies.
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Li Xueke's video was uploaded to the Internet and immediately caused a heated discussion.
Many people exclaimed: uneconverted child-rearing, marriage and men are not necessities.
"Dollless Raising" We know of another one called Ye Haiyang.
Ye Haiyang is a native of Changchun, Jilin Province, who grew up in a difficult family, and when he was young, he started from scratch and owned a cosmetics company. After the success of his career, he wanted to form a complete family, but true love was delayed, so at the age of 29, Ye Haiyang spent 500,000 yuan to the American Ivy To select high-grade sperm, and finally gave birth to a mixed-race baby girl.
Ye Haiyang, who is now an unmarried person, said on her social media account: "I support modern women, I support them having children, but I don't encourage them to get married." ”
I don't support Ye Haiyang's point of view that happiness in marriage is irreplaceable by other feelings.
But her other point is right, women should be financially independent, children can be raised by themselves, and money can be earned.
In a word, women must have money.
Let's talk about Li Xueke, she now has to take care of three children alone, both as a mother and a father.
Naturally, she had to earn money and take care of so many babies, and she was helpless, so she asked three aunts to help take care of the children.
Li Xueke said that the cost of 3 children a month is nearly 100,000, of which the cost of 3 aunts is 20,000, and next, Li Xueke plans to send the children to a private kindergarten in Hangzhou, spending more than 1 million yuan a year. But she believes she can support the family, because "if I can't make money in the future, it shouldn't be a problem to support them until they reach adulthood with my existing assets, so I have the confidence to have three children." ”
Look at your bank card, how much money do you save?
Li Xueke's lifestyle, we do not need to envy, "no puppet children" is not worth emulating.
But one thing is certain, only those who have money can choose the life they want.
Whether a woman is married or single, she must be financially independent, have money to have confidence, and money can give you the greatest security.
No matter when, make good money, you can't go wrong!
The topic of this article: Compared with widowed parenting, Li Xueke and Ye Haiyang not only meet the material needs of children but also give children enough spiritual love, do you think that the confidence of unmarried mothers is given by money? Do you support such an approach? Feel free to leave a message to share your opinion.
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