Approaching the New Year, it is almost the day when the elderly leftover men and women are urged to marry. I believe that many friends have been urged to marry by their families, and many friends are anxious because they are single. However, marriage is a must-do thing, because marriage is a lifelong thing for two people.
Some people are older, and their families are anxious to get married, so they have to embark on the road of blind dates. However, blind dates are only a means of making friends, and it is not necessarily successful or not.
A girl from Zhengzhou, Henan Province, was introduced to a boy by a matchmaker, and the two met at a hot pot restaurant to eat hot pot. The two men had a good chat on WeChat, and the girl sent an invitation to the boy to eat hot pot together.
The boy agreed, saying that he would invite guests and let the girl pick a place to live. The girl was very happy and picked a hot pot restaurant that she often went to. After dressing up, I came to the hot pot restaurant where I met the boy.
In the process of ordering, the boy keeps the girl ordering and orders nothing himself. The girl was afraid that the boy would be embarrassed to order, so she ordered a lot of meat that she liked to eat, thinking that if she couldn't finish eating, she could pack it home. After ordering, the waiter told the boy that the table had ordered 500 yuan of dishes, and the boy smiled and nodded.
When the dishes were ready, the boy told the girl that he was going to go to the bathroom and let the girl eat first.
The girl waited for the boy without moving her chopsticks, but she waited for an hour and did not see the boy return. So I sent WeChat to the boy, but I didn't expect that the boy had blocked her and couldn't contact the other party.
This is also very strange, the boy is not willing to pay 500 yuan, then with the girl AA, there is no need to escape. Such a boy deserves to be single-handed, and the pattern is too small.
In addition to this matter, there are even more bizarre things.
There is a blind date woman ordered 20,000 dishes, Ms. Yang is a flat model, usually like to post photos of her life on the Internet, but also met a man on the Internet, the two chatted very closely.
Once, Ms. Yang sent a message: "Everyone else has a girlfriend, why don't you, from now on I will be your girlfriend." This also narrowed the distance between each other, the man's words and deeds are very generous, saying that he is doing business, the mercedes-Benz and BMW cars in the circle of friends are often changed, and he also proposes to invite Ms. Yang to dinner, and the restaurant is chosen by her.
Ms. Yang chose a hot pot restaurant, the per capita consumption of this shop is 1200 yuan, the decoration is luxurious, Ms. Yang is not the first time to come, she is very skilled in ordering wagyu beef and king crab and other delicacies, about 6000 meals.
While waiting for the dish, the man asked her if she wanted to have a little wine, and Ms. Yang ordered a bottle of red wine worth 12,000 and prepared a romantic dinner. Unexpectedly, halfway through the meal, the man excused himself to go to the bathroom and never returned.
So why has blind date changed its flavor? How do you get on a proper blind date?
It is a very normal thing for a man to marry, a woman to marry, and to go on a blind date.
So how to treat blind dates correctly? With the right mindset, blind dates are not a shameful thing. Many young people reject the blind date arranged by their parents, they think that the blind date will definitely not meet the person they like, and they think that the blind date is very humiliating, afraid of being looked down upon.
In fact, blind dates are an inevitable product of social development, modern people, after graduating from college, in the development of first-tier cities, commuting to work every day, in addition to knowing the company's employees, rarely contact with other opposite sexes. Before going on a blind date, get to know each other from the mouth of the matchmaker.
To find the right other half from the blind date, first of all, you must have certain requirements for your own mate selection, so that the matchmaker wife can introduce you to you in a targeted manner, and before going to meet, first understand the basic situation of the other party from the matchmaker wife. Before you go to meet, take a good look at your grooming.
Girls are best to put on light makeup and put on a little bit of mental lipstick, so that they will look much younger.
Before the boy goes, he straightens his hair, shaves his beard, and wears a neat and clean set of clothes, which is also the minimum courtesy to people. When you meet, take the initiative to find a topic.
Are adults, the basic conversation chat should be understood, do not need to take the parents to go on a blind date Oh, parents are present, many people can not let go, do not know what to talk about. In fact, you can start with friends, if friends can't do it, it is even more impossible to be a couple.
If you feel that the other person is suitable, after meeting, keep in touch. It is rare to meet the right person, just try to pursue it, don't let the opportunity go to waste, and don't give up the person you like. If you feel that it is not appropriate, reject the other party as soon as possible, do not drag the mud and water, drag and pull. There is nothing to be embarrassed about, and rejecting the other party as early as possible can also give others more opportunities.
From the Internet chat, the people I know are generally purposeful and do not really want to find a wife.
A programmer boy in Beijing took a holiday in advance, avoided the 7-day shift, but was arranged by his family for 7 blind dates, one a day. He carefully made plans based on the personalities and hobbies of his blind dates, and prepared gifts for different New Year goods. This boy is also too serious, this is really want to get married, this young man is really reliable.
In addition, love is the door to the door, when one day you go on a blind date, you can take the initiative to pay, if there is no mentality of taking advantage, maybe you will gain self-esteem.
Men should not put their faces up to be fat, how much ability to invite girls to which restaurant to eat, do not say that for the sake of face, let girls choose their own, you say?
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