Children are described as the "crystallization of love" between two people, and people subconsciously believe that if they want to have children, they must be realized through love and marriage. 【Gestational Pulse Health Russian Three Generations ivy Fertility】
However, a woman who claims that "I don't want love, I just want to have children" has once again broken everyone's inherent cognition.
She is Li Xueke, a female model from Shandong.
She did not marry, but single-handedly gave birth to three mixed-race babies, and the father of the child never appeared.
The keywords "female model gives birth out of wedlock", "triplets", and "mixed-race baby" are superimposed, and any one of them is enough to set off a heated discussion on the Internet.
Young girls don't want men not to marry, as long as they have children, most people may not have the courage and courage to do so, but Li Xueke secretly made a decision four years ago and fulfilled her wish to be a mother before the age of 30.
What had happened to her and why had she made such a decision to have children out of wedlock? Besides, she was just a weak woman, could she support three children?
In 1989, Li Xueke was born in Heze, Shandong. When her parents divorced her when she was 3 years old, she followed her mother to live. Li Xueke was raised by her mother, and her relationship with her father has always been tense.
For so many years, in order to pull Li Xueke up, she has not remarried.
The real entry of Li Xueke into the modeling industry is also because of her mother's encouragement.
Li Xueke is tall, only in the sixth grade, he is one meter and sixty-nine, which is more than half a head taller than his peers. Li Xueke participated in the model competition registered by her mother, and passed the audition, preliminary round and rematch, although she did not qualify for the final in the end. But it was this experience that made Li Xueke fall in love with the feeling of being a model. Only on stage can she be generous and confident in herself.
After separating from campus life, in July 2006, 17-year-old Li Xueke came to Jinan alone.
She is not an adult, she can only pick up some catwalks in pieces, and the cost of each appearance is only one or two hundred. I worked for more than half a year, and I didn't save a penny. In order to seek better opportunities and development, she moved to Shanghai and successfully signed a contract with a well-known modeling company with excellent professionalism and perfect body.
Later, she began to recruit trainees to run model training courses, and the model training classes were full of students, and the model training classes were made into model training schools. She put in more energy, with a team of professionals who specialized in the retail business and set up her own cosmetics brand.
Every time the times Li Xueke seems to have guessed correctly, but she is a girl in her early 20s, and the wealth value she has accumulated is enough for her to achieve wealth freedom.
Career is smooth, but in terms of feelings, it has been stumbling, and several relationships have ended without a problem.
She has a strong sense of enterprise, but her boyfriend wants her to be a good wife and mother at home after marriage. Restrain her everywhere, control her. Doing business has socializing and not allowing her to go, and clothes are worn with a low collar and are not allowed to wear. She really couldn't stand such a life, and she didn't want to compromise, and she has been single since the breakup.
In 2018, Li Xueke was 29 years old, at this time she had already accumulated nearly 100 million fortunes, in order to fulfill her wish to have a child before the age of 30, after careful consideration, she decided to accept IVF.
Due to her work, Li Xueke often travels back and forth between Thailand and China. She already knew the policy of IVF in Thailand, but she did not dare to tell her mother or anyone what she thought.
Heze is a small city, and the circle of small towns is small, and there are not many. For such a thing as being single and having children out of wedlock, it is absolutely unacceptable.
Li Xueke is beautiful in appearance and has a successful career at a young age. Originally invited criticism, often people discussed her behind her back, was she raised by which big boss?
She worries that if she gives birth to a Chinese baby, it is likely that the rumor will be implemented in the eyes of others. So she decided to use a foreign sperm transplant, not to mention that she herself likes mixed-race babies.
In advance, she had chosen a handsome Russian, but she temporarily returned to China because of an affair at the other party's home. So the Thai agency re-found a Britishman for Li Xueke.
Li Xueke was not very reassured and asked to meet with the Englishman to see the real person. The other party is tall, sunny-looking, does not smoke, and loves sports. Li Xueke was also very satisfied with this, and donated sperm the next day under the arrangement of the institution.
The first transfer failed, and the second time for insurance, an additional embryo was transferred. As a result, the three embryos transferred, a daughter and two sons, were successful.
The doctor suggested subtracting one, but Li Xueke was reluctant to do so, so he kept all three embryos.
Test tubes require fetal protection injections, and she has a total of about 140 injections before and after. Morning sickness also tortured her whole body to the point of yellow muscle. The day before production, Li Xueke was still working on projects in the company, staying up late with his partners until 12 o'clock.
In July 2019, mixed-race triplets were born, one three pounds six two, one three pounds seven two, one three pounds two two.
The whole thing Li Xueke's mother has never known, so Li Xueke has no relatives around whether she gives birth or confinement. Those days were also the most difficult time for Li Xueke.
Before I could experience the joy of becoming a new mother, I was tormented by postpartum physical pain and depression and cried every day.
Two days before the end of the confinement, she sent a picture of the child to her mother and told her that she had given birth to a child. The mother's initial surprise, to the subsequent heartache, finally became understanding.
After leaving the confinement, Li Xueke hired three nannies to take care of the three children, and she threw herself into the work.
For Li Xueke, work is a good medicine to solve all troubles, and money can bring the greatest sense of security. After becoming a mother, Li Xueke returned to the company and returned to the work rhythm of the previous strong woman, and there was no longer depression.
Before, she was fighting alone, but now that she has three more small ones behind her, they are the driving force behind her to fight forward.
Li Xueke released a video through the short video platform to introduce her experience and share her life with triplet children.
In the past, she could not adjust her mentality well, afraid of the strange eyes of others, and did not dare to disclose her child's life. But watching the children grow up day by day, opening their mouths and calling their mothers, her heart is fast.
She never hurt anyone else, just did what she wanted to do. Besides, the children are beautiful and smart, why should she sneak up on hiding the children.
She wants to openly and honestly reveal the child's life.
After becoming popular on the Internet, some people in the comment section slammed her for being too selfish, the child never enjoyed paternal love, that is an incomplete family. But most people think she lived the envy of women, independent and sober, away from bad marriages with men, with a career, and beautiful children.
Some people also ask the child when he grows up, where will she answer when he asks the father?
In Li Xueke's view, love does not distinguish between gender, whether it is fatherly love or maternal love, the most important thing is to give children enough love. As long as there is love, it is a complete home.
As for the attitude towards marriage, Li Xueke said on social platforms that it may be a pity not to have marriage, but it is also a kind of happiness to have a career and children.
Everyone's definition of happiness is different, and there are many ways of life, only suitable for themselves is the best.