On this day, mom and dad and their triplets went out for a walk together, and the picture was very harmonious.
But a fork in the road breaks this harmony:
Mom went to the right, Dad went to the left, the three children were stunned for a second, just when the last child looked at the father's road, the first child pointed to the mother's road: "Go here", so the three children walked neatly to the mother.
The last child stopped again to keep up with his brothers and asked his mother, "Where has Daddy gone?" In the video, the little guy waved his hands and had a little temper with his mother.
Presumably, when Dad saw it in the distance, he would feel that he didn't hurt this child in vain.
In life, many children are more clingy to their mothers, but why are children closer to their mothers? The child is not close to the role of the mother, but to the image of gentleness, understanding, diligence and carefulness.
Hungry, mom cooks; when it's cold, mom buys clothes; grades don't go well, mom comforts. As long as there is a mother, anything can be solved.
So what should Dad do to improve that distance?
1, accompany the child's fathers to put down the work and mobile phone in their hands, talk with the child, watch a movie, play games, etc., the two people have more common topics, and the distance is smaller.
2, respect the distance between the child's father and the child, and on the one hand, there is another reason, that is, the father and the child's thoughts are always on the same channel.
Children are independent individuals, taking their own path, fathers give up your machismo, let the children go their own way, do not impose their own ideas on the children, the children are not to copy the father's life.
Mom and Dad should believe that no matter how much the child loves two people, so don't ask the child who he likes anymore, can you choose between the two?