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In today's three-child policy, those who have three children in the family will inevitably be looked at differently. For example, walking on the road, seeing the couple leading three children of different heights, people will always sigh in their hearts "rich" and "warrior". There is something in this sigh that does not know whether it is envy or jealousy, and there is also some bystander mentality of "watching a good play".
If the three children in the family happen to be boys, the attention will be more.
What is it like to have three sons in the family? A friend said that although he was called a "winner in life" by others, he knew in his heart that there was a joke, sympathy, and even a little schadenfreude.
If "having children and daughters" is the perfect combination of two-child families, then three sons are even the most "unlucky" ones in three-child families. Because they have already given birth to three, why have they still not given birth to girls?
◆ How did a family of male dolls get it?
Give birth to triplets in one step
I've seen this on video. On a short video platform, there will always be families who have triplets uploading their daily lives.
One family had triplets at once, and they were all male babies. Because they are identical triplets, the three brothers look exactly the same, and it is difficult to distinguish them. But parents find the trick to differentiate them: look at the spin on their children's heads. One child has only one spin on his head, another child has two on his head, and the third child has three spins on his head.
The video was taken by Mom. In the video, Bao Dad wakes up the three children, the children line up to go to the toilet, and then line up to brush their teeth and wash their faces, and then carry their school bags to kindergarten.
The three children are out and about, usually in line. One tugged at the back collar of the other's clothes, and if they walked sideways in a row, the sidewalk would almost be occupied.
On the way, Bao Dad did not dare to take it lightly, and he used a special traction rope to "manage" the three small ones. One bracelet wrapped around his wrist and the other three elastic ropes were placed on the wrists of the three children.
In this situation, it is really a proper "walking baby"!
Thinking of having a second child, I didn't expect to get pregnant again and give birth to two children
There are not many families that give birth to triplets at once. There are three children in the family, and there are also those who originally wanted to have a second child, but accidentally gave birth to twins, and they were all male babies.
A friend said that her colleague originally only had a son who had gone to primary school, and her husband and in-laws wanted to have a second child, and the conditions at home were OK, so they discussed getting pregnant again.
As a result, the doctor told me during the pregnancy test: it is likely to be twins.
The whole family was a little panicked, and entrusted someone to help see if it was a dragon and phoenix fetus or something. The results were told: at least one was a boy and the other could not be seen clearly.
It can't all be boys, right? Either don't lose the tire anymore. The family got by with a fluke mentality.
As a result, the moment the child was born, the whole family was confused. Two boys.
Later, when a friend visited her colleague's house, she found that the family's style of raising children had changed greatly. Originally, they put two children in a special play house, laid mats on the floor, put toys, and let them toss it!
In order to get a daughter to have three children, the result is still a child
After all, twins are still a minority, and most of the three boys in three-child families are born one by one.
After giving birth to a boy, the parents thought of having a second child, and it would be best to have a daughter. As a result, the second child was still a boy.
After a few years, the three-child policy came out, and the parents who were eager to ask for a daughter felt: Do you want to have a three-child trial? The first two are boys, and this time there must be a daughter.
But God didn't do what he wanted. The third child is still a boy.
My relative's family is like this. The eldest is 10 years old, the second is 7 years old, this year in order to fight for the daughter to give birth to the third, a look is still a boy, the mother's mentality immediately collapsed a little. The child is mainly watching from the grandmother.
Why should a family of three boys be chosen alone out of three children? Because in the traditional concept of the Chinese people, three sons mean three suites, three cars, and three bride price. None of this can be done easily. What a burden it would be in an ordinary family.
Of course, the problem is not without solutions.
【Topic Discussion: Do you have a family with three sons around you?】 】
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