The opening of the two-child policy and the three-child policy has made many people join the ranks. However, this kind of thing has advantages and disadvantages, and it may not be too different today, but it will be obvious in 20 years.
The three-child policy made Xiao Wang have a sudden idea, so he consulted with his husband and then gave birth to three children. Xiao Wang has always felt that if there are more children in the family, then the atmosphere of the whole family will become very good, and if you survive in such an environment, you will become very happy.
However, as the children get older, Xiao Wang suddenly realizes the problem, and one of the most helpless things for Xiao Wang is the family's economic problems. Because now the three children have reached the age of marriage and marriage, plus the three children are all boys, it is necessary to prepare a bride price for them.
It should be known that the family situation in the Xiao wang family is not as good as imagined, so it is also very passive to prepare a bride price for the child. She had some regrets now, and if she had thought about it, she would never have thought about having three children, because the living conditions she had brought to herself were too negative. If there is only one child in the family, then she can obviously afford it, and she will not be in such a dilemma as she is now.
In fact, this is a very realistic thing, there is a big difference between having one child and having two children and having three children. Although we can't see much difference now, we can reveal obvious differences in 20 years, and then we will know the seriousness of the matter.
What's the difference between having one, two, three children, 20 years later?
If we want to talk about this problem, then we should first talk about the degree of parental work. Raising a child is not an easy task, it can cause us a lot of trouble, if there are two children in the family or three children, then our worries become more. For example, we will worry about the problem of our children's food, the problem of clothing, the problem of housing, and even the problem of education, and these things will make us feel broken.
So if there are two or three children in the family, it will make us feel very confused, if there is only one child in the family, then we don't have to worry so much. And we can also make good use of the time, but also be able to take care of the children very well, which is the advantage of having fewer children at home.
If we have two children in the family or three children, then we will clearly understand one thing, that is, our cost is to increase a lot. The quality of life and living standards of having one child in the family and two or three children in the family are different, if there is a child in the family, then the same family conditions, the quality of life of the family will become very good.
Especially when the children grow up, the cost of their marriage is very large. If we have a child at home, then when they reach the age of marriage, we can provide them with some help, and even we can save money for the elderly. If there are two or three children in the family, then they can only support the family, and there is no way to save the money.
Especially when all three children grow up, they will also form their own families, and at that time, they will need to spend more money, so that parents will have a hard time breathing.
There is another thing we must understand, if there are more children in the family, then the biggest gap with only one child in the family is the degree of harmony of the family. If there are more children in the family, then we don't have to put all our energy into the children, because the children can play with each other, so we will have more time to spend with the couple.
But if there is only one child in the family, then we can avoid a lot of conflicts. After all, there will definitely be unfair things when the child gets along with the child, so that the child will have a hostile relationship with the child.
Once such a situation occurs, the psychological pressure of parents will become very large, so the spirit of the two people will always be tense, and the family environment will become more depressed relatively, it is easy to quarrel because of some small things, so that the family will not be harmonious.
Therefore, the number of children in the family also determines the quality of life, of course, if we are not fully prepared, then it is best not to have too many children, because this is absolutely no good for us. But if there is this economic condition, then having multiple children can also make the family atmosphere better.