The opening of the three-child policy makes many women want to fight. But this is not good for every family, and for some people, the results are often not good. Especially at the age of 40, the challenges faced by the postpartum child are very many.
Ms. Sun already had two children, but she felt that this was not enough. Ms. Sun feels that only when there are more children in the family, the family atmosphere will become better, so even if she is 40 years old, she also wants to fight to have three children. Although everyone around her was dissuading Ms. Sun, Ms. Sun did not listen to the thoughts of the people around her at all. It didn't take long to get pregnant and then she had her 3rd child.
I thought that I could make my family atmosphere better through this way, but I didn't expect that serious problems would eventually appear. Because Ms. Sun's physical condition itself is not so good, after giving birth to the third child, her body became very weak, and she was hospitalized for a long time and did not let her body recover.
Now Ms. Sun realized the problem, and she now suddenly had some regrets. If she knew such an outcome at the time, she would never hastily give birth to a third child, because it would only make her situation very passive.
In fact, this is a very typical example, 40 years old to fight for three children, the challenges after childbirth are very many, especially these three challenges are much larger than the first two births, so we can not ignore this matter, and we must not relax.
What kind of challenges do you face after 40 years old and fight for three children?
If we really want to talk about this problem, then the first thing we should think about is the condition of the body. For 40-year-old women, they are advanced maternal age, if you want to force three children, then the results are certainly not as good as imagined.
One of the most likely problems is that their physical situation will become very passive, which is definitely a very big challenge for women. You know, for 40-year-old women, it is not very suitable to have children, so once such a situation occurs, it is easy to have problems.
For example, if there is a disease in our own body, or a problem with a child in our stomach, this needs to be taken into account. If we don't take these issues into account, then the final result must be very bad.
In addition, 40-year-old women who fight to give birth to three children also need to face such a challenge, that is, their own energy problems. Know that if a woman is older, then their energy is much less than before.
At this time, there are three children in the family, although the family atmosphere is relatively good, but we must also admit that there is no way for women to take care of three children at the same time, which will make their situation very bad. When a child cannot be taken care of by the mother, there will be a lack of maternal love over time, which will not help the child's growth.
Of course, if a woman's energy is more exuberant, and she can take care of three children wholeheartedly after giving birth to the third child, then this point does not need to be considered, because there will be no big problems.
When a 40-year-old woman has given birth to three children, she will face such a challenge after childbirth, that is, there is a high probability that there will be problems between the three children. If only a second child is born, then the likelihood of two children getting along harmoniously together will be greater, and the likelihood of three children getting along harmoniously together will often be smaller. So when facing this problem, we also need to think about it well and don't slacken off.
So once a 40-year-old woman has three children, then she needs to take good care of them. And we also need to make these children live in harmony, and only in this way can we make the atmosphere of a family better.
If these three children in the family simply cannot get along with each other, then the problems caused by them are absolutely very serious, and we will certainly not be able to take care of the children at that time. Of course, if you want to avoid such a thing, it is not a difficult thing.
First of all, we need to discuss this with Dabao and Erbao about this aspect, and see if they have any opinions on the matter of having three children. If there is no opinion, then the multi-half will not be too much of a problem.
Therefore, for 40-year-old women, there are more problems that need to be faced to have three children, and only if each problem is solved clearly, then there will not be too much doubt. Otherwise, your situation will become very passive, which is definitely not a good thing for children.