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Under the three-child policy, why are women still reluctant to have children? The pressure of parenting is too great!

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Recently, many people have proposed many measures for women's fertility, aiming to encourage women to take the initiative to have children, change the current situation of the country's low birth rate of newborns, and alleviate the aging process of the mainland population.

According to the 2021 National Name Report released by the Ministry of Public Security, as of December 31, 2021, a total of 8.873 million newborns born in 2021 and registered with the public security organs have dropped to less than 10 million in 2021, a decrease of about 45% in the past nine years.

Under the three-child policy, why are women still reluctant to have children? The pressure of parenting is too great!

The government work report proposes to improve the supporting measures of the three-child birth policy, include the cost of infant and child care for children under 3 years old in the special additional deduction of personal income tax, develop inclusive childcare services, and reduce the burden of family parenting.

Some deputies pointed out that the whole society should treat the children born to older single women equally in terms of settlement, schooling, and medical treatment. Unmarried women over the age of 30 are allowed to have one child and enjoy the rights of maternity leave and maternity insurance for legal birth. Healthy women over the age of 30 are allowed to voluntarily retrieve eggs and freeze eggs regardless of whether they are married or not, and unmarried and childless women over the age of 30 are allowed to undergo fertility procedures such as artificial insemination and IVF.

It was also suggested that men should take paternity leave and that the State should bear part of the losses and burdens caused by the employment of women of childbearing, childbirth and pregnancy.

Under the three-child policy, why are women still reluctant to have children? The pressure of parenting is too great!

It is not difficult to see why many married women are reluctant to have children, and women who have already had children are reluctant to have a second or third child. There are three aspects: willing to give birth, affordable, and affordable.

The first aspect is willingness to be born. With the improvement of economic conditions and the improvement of women's status, many people are indeed reluctant to have children, and some people are willing to have a second and third child after giving birth to a task. Because for women, work and family can not be both, it is really difficult to achieve balance and balance, and the employment environment is not friendly enough for women, coupled with women after giving birth will appear some "leakage of urine" "stretch marks" and other different degrees of physical damage, no longer have children has become the choice of most people.

Under the three-child policy, why are women still reluctant to have children? The pressure of parenting is too great!

The second aspect is affordability. Many ordinary families, when they get married, buy a house and a car, the cost of milk powder diapers for the birth of children after marriage is unbearable, and having a child has become the general consensus of everyone. Not to mention that many young men and women of the right age have no money and dare not fall in love and get married, let alone have children. In the face of high housing prices, the meager wage in hand is particularly pitiful.

The third aspect is affordable. Families willing to have three children are basically well-off, can provide a good living environment and educational environment for their children, the more families who attach importance to their children's education, they are particularly cautious in terms of fertility, rather than not giving their children a good life, preferring not to have children. And ordinary families, it is not easy to support a child, where dare to talk about another one?

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