090 forum netizens posted:
My personal idea is not willing, after all, in the process of children growing up, different surnames will cause a lot of misunderstandings and be treated differently, and I always think that the son's surname with his father is originally a tradition, and he will also be gossiped about.
But the wife thinks that the mother who has a child is the hardest, I also admit this, and it is all in this era, the child with the mother's surname is also very normal, and the attitude is very resolute, otherwise it will not be born.
Want to hear everyone's thoughts and have any cases around you?
Netizen Comments:
Hello to me: it is better to have a surname that is customary according to customs. The way of marriage and funeral marriage determines the ownership of naming rights, and it is not possible to let the man marry his wife Ben (dowry three golden banquets, etc.), but also to give up the child's surname and enter the child with the woman's surname. Don't talk about the only child, the way of marrying determines the child's surname.
"Oh: You just can't pass the psychological barrier yourself, now there are a lot of surnames with your mother, I have them in my child's class, and I haven't been laughed at by other classmates." Mainly the children themselves should be excellent, three views are positive, and they will be popular when they get along with friends and classmates in the future.
Chenxuan baby: With my family, it seems that I gave birth to twin sons, my father proposed to buy a house with my surname to help us, not with my surname he will be at home early pension, don't fight so hard, and then my husband weighed the pros and cons and agreed to change the second brother to my surname. Quite simply, the hukou is still in my husband's house, I am both only children, and my two economic ability is limited, and the pressure to raise a baby is really great.
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