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Ignorant girls will always fall in love with a boy at the beginning of their love.
It's just that whether you can finally become a family member with the person you like can only be left to fate.
In fact, all girls need to know that a person who does not like you so much can only bring you a lot of harm.
The heroine in the next case, because of a backward love, will never get the initiative of love.
Xiao Han sat on a bench on campus, staring intently at the basketball court next to him.
Her favorite person is getting ready to shoot a three-pointer.
The shy and introverted Xiao Han did not dare to come forward, so he sat alone not far away and looked at his crush.
The person she likes is called Zhang Zexin, a tall man of 1 meter 85 walking on campus quite windy.
Xiao Han still felt the taste of crush for the first time from childhood to adulthood, and all he thought about when he ate and read was Zhang Zexin.
When she heard that Zhang Zexin did not have a girlfriend, her heart began to stir.
Her parents had told her not to fall in love at college, to arrange a job later, and to find a reliable and good family.
However, Xiao Han, who was guilty of lovesickness, had already left the advice given to her by her parents.
She knew she looked ordinary. In order to become beautiful, she went to the mall to buy several sets of clothes that were not cheap.
Because of his good family,000,000,000,000 cards, the father did not call his daughter.
After changing into an expensive dress, Xiao Han's temperament was indeed significantly improved, and even his roommates praised it.
The simple Xiao Han spent two days to write a love letter, hurriedly gave it to Zhang Zexin and left.
But for several days there was no movement at all, and Xiao Han, who did not accept defeat, began to send him gifts again.
At first, it was some high-end desserts, and then slowly began to send some valuables.
When Zhang Zexin asked her for basketball shoes, she actually spent more than two thousand to buy them for him.
Zhang Zexin, who received the gift, was indeed surprised.
You should know that although Zhang Zexin's appearance is outstanding, his family situation is very general. It's almost impossible to buy shoes over a thousand yuan.
Looking at Xiao Han, a stupid girl, Zhang Zexin finally agreed to associate with her.
After falling in love, Xiao Han was very happy, not only often buying food and drink for Zhang Zexin, but also giving him gifts that were not cheap on special days.
But Zhang Zexin seemed to take it for granted, because he did not like Xiao Han from the bottom of his heart.
Agreeing to a relationship is entirely because she is chasing and willing to spend money for him.
Therefore, in love, his attitude towards Xiao Han is also arbitrary. Sometimes when he was in a bad mood, he would provoke and quarrel, which made Xiao Han always be cautious about Zhang Zexin.
Unconsciously, the two soon graduated from college and entered the society.
Here, Xiao Han's parents have already found a public institution for their daughter and asked her to hurry home to work.
But no matter what, Xiao Han was not moved, and had to stay in the city where the school was located.
At this time, Xiao Han's parents found out that their daughter had already had a boyfriend.
In order not to be in a long-distance relationship with Zhang Zexin, Xiao Han took it upon himself to live with him.
She knew the strict traditions of her parents and only dared to say that she shared a room with her classmates.
But she didn't know how much of a hidden danger living with her boyfriend would be.
Originally in love for several years, they were ready to get married after graduation with a stable job.
So at the beginning of the same stay, Zhang Zexin's mother also came to meet Xiao Han on purpose.
After knowing that Xiao Han's family was well-off, he secretly said that his son was blessed and that he would not have to work too hard to find a wife with good conditions.
And Xiao Han also thought that this was even if she had seen her mother-in-law, so she became more and more bold, and even found out that she was pregnant a few months later.
The silly Xiao Han knew that she was pregnant, and she was even a little happy.
She thought she would be able to get married and have a happy family of three.
However, after this news was known to the parents of both parties, their reactions were completely different.
Xiao Han's parents were shocked and incredulous.
Zhang Zexin's mother was secretly happy, boasting that her son had a brain.
Because Zhang Zexin's family is not well-off, not to mention the marriage room, it is difficult to take out hundreds of thousands.
If you are pregnant before you get married, there is naturally room for bargaining.
So she told her son Zhang Zexin that if Xiao Han proposed marriage, she would remember to delay it.
Seeing that his stomach is getting bigger and bigger, he has asked for marriage countless times, and he has been dragged by his boyfriend and boyfriend's mother for various reasons.
Xiao Han began to be afraid, if she did not get married, what would she do in the future.
Because of this unmarried pregnancy, her parents were already reluctant to contact her.
Finally, in more than six months, Zhang Zexin's mother appeared.
This time she came, and the last time she pretended to please her face, there was a world of difference.
Knowing that Xiao Han was pregnant, as a mother-in-law-to-be, she actually came empty-handed.
When they arrived at the house rented by the two, their eyes were also full of disgust and disdain.
For several days in a row, xiao Han was not given any good looks.
Xiao Han looked at the attitude of her boyfriend's family, and her heart became colder and colder.
In fact, privately she called her father, and she could hear that his father was haggard a lot on the phone.
He told his daughter, "Han Han, I really spoiled you with your mother, originally we thought that you would be safe and happy in your life, but now you..."
Having said a lot, the relationship between Xiao Han and his father has also eased up a lot. The father also told her to beat the child up and go home before she was born.
This sentence actually speaks of Xiao Han's heart, and she has become more and more mature in society, and she has long since stopped being told by Zhang Zexin to drink five or six.
Coupled with the absurd behavior of the man's family after pregnancy, she found that her parents were really good for her.
With her father's words, she finally had a little comfort in her heart.
In addition, Zhang Zexin's mother came for a few days, and everywhere she was giving her a horse.
No more timid than before, this time for the face of her boyfriend's family, she has a little more calm.
Sure enough, on the third day, Zhang Zexin's mother talked to her: "Xiao Han, you are so old in the month now, you have to hurry up and get married, I think it will be simpler." ”
Xiao Han changed his previous childishness and introversion and said: "It's not simple, I am pregnant, but the wedding dowry cannot be less." I was also raised by my parents, and I couldn't marry out of thin air. ”
Seeing that Xiao Han was so rude, Zhang Zexin's mother said with a straight face: "Then do you want to get married with a bride price, or do you want to be a single mother, choose one of the two." ”
Xiao Han's face turned red when she heard the anger, and she really didn't expect that as an elder, she could say such a thing.
So she dismissively said: "I choose three, beat the fetus and break up!" ”
After saying that he took his important belongings, he left.
And just when Zhang Zexin's mother and son were discussing the method, Xiao Han had already gone to the hospital accompanied by his parents...
The stupid girl Xiao Han in the case, fortunately, finally plucked up the courage to end this wrong relationship. This also tells us that women in love, to remember the following two truths.
02
One: Women in love, to put up a good "shelf".
Men and women do have a big difference in their views on love.
For example, a man's love is determined at a glance.
If you don't like it, no matter how good it is to him, or to move him, it can't change this fact.
But women in love, will not be so absolute.
If a man can persevere in pursuing a woman.
Then over time, women will really fall in love with this man because they are moved.
This strange personality nature is doomed to be not so perfect for women to chase men.
Because in love, there is no introverted and inactive man.
If your man can't come after you proactively, it's because there's no incentive to attract.
Therefore, in love, women should be high-profile, but also appropriate to put up the shelf.
Because only hard-won things, they will cherish more.
In love, men are natural chasers.
Only the harder it gets, the more he cherishes it in the time to come.
03
Two: In the relationship, it is not too late to stop the loss at any time.
Feelings are the last thing in life.
Because emotions are not controlled by our brains.
Marriage and love are about to accompany us for half a lifetime.
And the quality of feelings affects our emotions and feelings all the time.
When you encounter the wrong feelings, don't be afraid and don't hesitate.
Stopping the loss as soon as possible is the wisest thing to do.
If you continue to be confused, you will not be able to save yourself decisively.
Then pain and sorrow are the themes of the rest of the time.
Time flies and is extremely precious for each of us.
And to spend one more second in the wrong emotion is a great waste.
Life can actually be very good, you just need a little courage.
04
Men and women react to love in fact, they are the same.
I hope that all people will not settle down, let alone wronged themselves.
Because only when you meet true love.
You know what it means to live up to this life.
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