"A woman can only make any decision without fear if she is strong enough!"
This is the life creed of Shandong girl Li Xueke.
The girl earned tens of millions of dollars at the age of 24, and in order to realize her dream of becoming a mother before the age of 30, she looked for the sperm of a foreign man to do IVF and gave birth to three cute mixed-race babies.
Li Xueke and three mixed-race babies
She is not married, but she has three children, let people talk about it, But Li Xueke does not care, she will put all her body and mind on earning money and raising a baby, and the major media report that she has money and leisure in her single life, which has attracted countless people to watch.
How did she, a young girl, earn such a huge fortune? What kind of life experience made her choose to raise a baby without a couple?
Rich and independent Li Xueke is enviable
Internet celebrity Li Xueke, you can find her shadow in the major media. The figure of the model, the appearance of an angel, the delicate and expensive dress every day, or shopping, or childcare, or work... The videos about her are all about a rich life living in a luxurious villa, having three nannies at home, and driving a luxury car. What you see and hear of her is a rich, independent, individual, beautiful new age female figure.
Li Xueke and three mixed-race babies
The most eye-catching thing is that she also leads three cute mixed-race dolls every day.
Was she married to some rich man? The answer is no. She gave birth to all three of these lovely babies, but she was single and never married.
So how did these three children come about? Saying it may not make many people understand, because in China, there are only a few people who do this, because it not only does not conform to the traditional concept of Chinese, but it is not allowed by Chinese law. The three children were born from her using foreign sperm as IVF.
Li Xueke is very rich, her daily expenses reach 100,000 yuan per month, comparable to the savings of ordinary people for a year, the family has three nannies to take care of three children, three school-age children are the most expensive private kindergartens in Hangzhou, the tuition fee is 300,000 a year, and the tuition fees of three children alone will cost one million.
Li Xueke and three mixed-race babies
Despite this large expense, it did not affect her quality of life in the slightest, in her words, even if she stopped working now, she could use her existing savings to live this life without worry.
Her state and economic strength make many girls yearn for but can not follow.
Such a woman with excellent figure, beautiful appearance and wealth of tens of millions, there are undoubtedly many suitors, and she has also been in love several times. It's just that real love is far from being as fairytale as it is in the TV series.
Or Li Xueke did not meet the right person at the right time, in short, her boyfriend is either too macho or too restrictive to her. She never met a suitable soul mate.
Li Xueke
In 2018, the 29-year-old Li Xueke has not yet found someone who can entrust her to life, but in her life plan, she became a mother before the age of 30. Because she clearly knows that the best age for a woman to have children is before the age of 30, she wants to raise the healthiest children in her best physical condition.
Ignore the world's eyes and choose to have children out of wedlock
Without a suitable marriage partner, how can she have children alone? One day, Li Xueke was walking in the street, when a small advertisement on the side of the road caught her attention: "Professionally provide sperm". This sounds like something that ordinary people feel is against ethics, but it makes Li Xueke think deeply. Why does a family have to have a father? Children without a father can grow up in the same way.
IVF
This idea grew in her heart like a water weed, and since she couldn't find the right other half to have a child, she would "borrow sperm to have a child". It didn't take her long to convince herself, but in China, IVF is not possible without a marriage license, but it is possible abroad.
So Li Xueke came to Thailand, where he was more familiar with the technology and the existence of excellent sperm from all over the world. She came to a specialized institution in Thailand to find the right sperm pairing. After several screenings, the institution matched her with a British professor.
Li Xueke was more cautious, and in order to ensure the quality of sperm, she met with the other party. This Englishman is very tall and handsome, perfect for not having bad habits such as smoking and drinking. Li Xueke was more satisfied and decided to use his sperm. From making up your mind to choosing sperm and finally to successfully conceiving, it took only three months.
Li Xueke in pregnancy
Why didn't Li Xueke choose Chinese sperm? In fact, there are two reasons: one is to choose Chinese, easy to cause others to associate, many people think that such a young girl, so rich, nine times out of ten is raised by others, so choose foreigners' genes can prevent this rumor; the second is that she thinks that mixed-race children are generally smarter and more beautiful.
After taking 140 injections of fetal protection pills and suffering painful morning sickness from pregnancy in October, in 2019, Li Xueke gave birth to mixed triplets, two sons and a daughter in Zhuzhou Hospital in Hunan Province. She finally fulfilled her dream of being a mother before the age of 30.
Single-parent families make her precocious than her peers
We know that the formation of outlook on life and values is inseparable from the personal growth environment. What kind of experience made Li Xueke make such a life choice?
Li Xueke and her mother
Li Xueke's mother was named Li Miaodan, and after she married Li Xueke's father, she gave birth to Li Xueke in Heze, Shandong In 1989, but Li Xueke's father cheated before Li Xueke was a full moon. This was a big blow to Li Miaodan, who was still in the moon, but Li Miaodan looked at her infant daughter and couldn't bear that she didn't have a complete home at such a young age. Therefore, I have been suppressing the pain in my heart and barely maintaining this loveless marriage.
However, Li Miaodan's hidden patience did not save the family, Li Xueke's father spent every day outside drinking, and when he returned, he also scolded Li Miaodan. Domestic violence made Li Miaodan unable to bear such a life anymore, and she finally bravely filed for divorce. In this way, 23-year-old Li Miaodan and 3-year-old Li Xueke have been dependent on each other ever since.
Li Xueke and her mother
On the one hand, li Miaodan in order not to let her daughter be wronged, on the other hand, her ex-husband's absurd behavior made her fearful of marriage, so she has not remarried, and a person has worked hard to pull Li Xueke to grow up. For the livelihood of his mother and daughter, Li Miaodan worked everywhere to earn money, sometimes working several jobs at the same time. She went to factories, sold clothes, and worked as an apprentice in a barbershop. Although he works day and night, the income earned can only barely support the basic expenses of living.
For the young Li Xueke, some unusual experiences of single-parent families made Li Xueke feel the warmth and coldness of the world prematurely. She saw that everyone else had a father, and her own mother was busy every day, and there was little time to accompany her, and the lonely little girl began to become introverted and timid inside.
Early photos of Li Xueke
She tried to cry to her mother: "Mom, let's go find Daddy." And what was obtained was a harsh criticism and negative answer from my mother. At that time, how could a little girl understand the complicated emotions in the adult world?
Li Miaodan while working, while taking care of the little Li Xueke, when encountering life embarrassment, she also tried to contact Li Xueke's father, hoping that he could give child support on time, but what was waiting was that the other party refused to answer the phone and shut down, Li Miaodan was discouraged and only took care of her daughter more carefully.
Her biggest goal in life is to cultivate her daughter into a talent, others have it, she hopes that her daughter can also have it. So although life was not rich, when Li Xueke was 5 years old, Li Miaodan still sent her to learn dance.
Early photos of Li Xueke
Longing for his father's love, but it backfired
Little Li Xueke, because she grew up in a single parent's environment, she knows that her mother is not easy, and she knows that only by studying dance hard can she make her mother happy. In addition, her own conditions are relatively good, very suitable for dancing. In dance competitions big and small, she can win awards. Gradually, she found confidence in it and became cheerful.
As Li Xueke grew up, the biggest sentimentality in his heart was the lack of his father's love. Li Miaodan's strict discipline of her sometimes made her feel very stressed, after all, she was just a little girl. Occasionally, she wondered if she would be happier than she was now if she lived with her father.
Li Miaodan was very sad to see that her daughter always thought of her father, but she still decided to let her daughter cultivate a relationship with her father to make up for the lack of fatherly love in her heart.
Early photos of Li Xueke
When Li Xueke was 10 years old, she was given the opportunity to live with her father. She happily came to her father's house, by which time he had already remarried and had a little brother. Life in her father's house made her feel for the first time what is snubbed and what is real grievance. The kindness and care she imagined of her father was completely absent in reality. Some are just the differences between her father and stepmother towards her and her brother.
On an ordinary night, Li Xueke wrote homework in the room, because there was too much homework, some questions could not be written and did not dare to disturb the stepmother, so he meditated and wrote until midnight. When my father came back, he saw that her homework had not yet been written, thinking that she was greedy, and he slapped her directly without saying anything.
She has always had a greater illusion about her father, who lacked her father's love. The last hope of fatherly love after repeated disappointments was also slapped away. These childhood shadows all had an impact on her life choices as she grew up. Li Xueke was completely disappointed in her father, and she returned to her mother Li Miaoke's side and never mentioned her father again.
Early photos of Li Xueke
Later, in her growth process, the role of her father has always been dispensable, just give birth to her and raise her, and even when she grows up, she is still used as a cash cow, and she has helped her father pay off debts more than once.
This is also one of the important reasons why she finally decided to have children out of wedlock, she felt that if she could give her children a good enough growth environment and conditions, she could also raise excellent children. For example, herself, how did Li Xueke achieve the transformation from an ugly duckling to a white swan?
The little lotus only shows its sharp corners
Although there is no careful care of parents, God is sometimes fair. Took away the happiness of her family, but compensated her in other ways. That is to give her a good look and a good body.
Li Xueke in high school
When Li Xueke was 13 years old, his height had grown to 1.69 meters, standing out from the crowd and looking good, and it was easy to attract the attention of others wherever he went. Li Miaodan is also very proud of her daughter's innate appearance, so when Heze City held the "City's Image Ambassador" recruitment, she did not hesitate to register her daughter. And this is also the beginning of Li Miaoke's road to success.
Thanks to Li Xueke's learning to dance since childhood, she has a straight posture and a good posture. Although she has never been exposed to models, she is very smart, now learn to sell, and learn the pace of models very well in a short period of time, which is probably talent.
Li Miao can rent a dress for her daughter from the studio, although the adult costume is worn on the 13-year-old Li Xueke, which is somewhat ill-fitting, but Li Xueke still relies on her strength to pass five levels and slash six generals, all the way to the final.
Li Xueke in 2015
In the end, due to the lack of experience in catwalk performance, he lost the hand with the champion. But for her young age, it was not easy. This competition also opened a new door for Li Xueke's life.
Li Xueke on the catwalk is full of confidence, when she becomes the focus of everyone's attention, the dissatisfaction in life begins to seem insignificant, and she has found a suitable life position for herself.
At the age of 16, the "Sunshine Fast Lane" variety show hosted by Shandong Satellite TV opened a new section of "Sunshine Girl". Li Xueke also went to sign up to participate, and at this time she was already out of the woods.
When she stepped on the bigger stage of Shandong Satellite TV, her vision was expanded again, and her catwalk ability was also greatly improved, and she gradually began to become less famous. Independent and intelligent, she has begun to have a certain plan for life at this time.
Model Li Xueke
After graduating from junior high school, she directly applied for the modeling major of Qingdao Art School, taking an important step in her career. In school, after professional training and systematic learning, she became the best among many students.
Originally, she wanted to directly pass the art college entrance examination and enter the university for further study, but unfortunately, her cultural class results were not satisfactory, and she eventually lost her chance with the university. However, looking at her later life path, perhaps Saion lost his horse and was not blessed?
A person's life, it is good to go to college, but if you can't get your wish, as long as your heart is firm and persistent, you can achieve your life goals. So how did Li Xueke become a winner in life step by step?
Drop out of school early to earn a living
After graduating from Qingdao School in 2006, Li Xueke came to a modeling agency in Jinan alone to apply, because her appearance and professional ability were excellent, and she signed the contract without suspense.
Li Xueke participated in the competition in his early years
When she got her first salary, she was very excited. Growing up with her mother, she understood the importance of money. Since then, she has no longer reached out to her mother for money, and she has secretly made up her mind that in the future, she must live the life she wants by her own efforts.
Jinan's salary level is not high, and after all, she is only a little girl who has recently graduated, although there are more than 20 performances per month, but the remuneration for a performance of more than 100 yuan does not have much income in total.
In Jinan, she is a foreigner, who wants to rent a house, eat, and buy beautiful clothes and cosmetics. Gradually, Li Xueke found that Jinan's work could no longer meet her pursuit, and she needed to go to a broader world to develop.
Li Xueke
As young people, especially young girls engaged in modeling work, Shanghai is undoubtedly the most ideal choice for them. It is the most economically developed city in China, with the most top technology and the latest ideas, and countless opportunities for development. In 2007, Li Xueke set off again, and she went to Shanghai alone.
At this time, she has undergone a certain degree of professional experience, and she is no longer what she used to be. She soon signed a contract with a modeling agency in Shanghai, and her monthly income grew from 10,000 to 20,000 yuan.
As an 18-year-old girl, this month's income is not comparable to that of her peers. The material leap is only one aspect, she uses her excellent appearance and ability to participate in various competitions, and various awards and honors follow: the champion of the Shanghai Supermodel Competition, the third runner-up of the Miss World Tourism, the runner-up of the New Face Supermodel National Competition, and so on. Her innate conditions and acquired efforts have allowed her to take her to the next level in her modeling career.
Wenchuan earthquake
The Wenchuan earthquake of May 12, 2008 disrupted her career. In order to commemorate the victims, many entertainment, exhibitions, model contests and other activities across the country have been postponed or cancelled. Li Xueke felt that Shanghai had nothing to do, so he returned to his hometown. She thought that the summer vacation was coming, and she wanted to use the summer vacation time to go back to her hometown to hold a modeling interest class.
She is an activist and immediately implements it when she thinks of it. Choosing a classroom, setting up a venue, handing out flyers, new media promotion, etc., with the support of her mother, she quickly created a modeling interest class with the money she earned as a model in recent years. Thanks to her accumulation of honors in major competitions in the modeling industry in recent years, this modeling class has successfully recruited a group of students.
Two months of summer vacation training has created a group of small models with similar looks. When he saw these childish faces walking confidently on the catwalk, Li Xueke seemed to see his original little self.
Li Xueke thought to himself: After all, models eat youth meals, why don't they take model training as their career and return to their hometown to develop?
Start a school
With this idea, Li Xueke once again found a new goal to strive for. She and her mother Li Miaodan expressed her thoughts, and Li Miaodan also expressed her support, and she hoped that her daughter could stay by her side. So Li Miaodan sold the house where he lived and collected 300,000 yuan to open a model training school for Li Xueke.
In 2008, the bold and avant-garde Li Xueke founded the "Kellehi Model School". A 19-year-old girl has a catwalk model who has become the chairman of the company and a model teacher.
Model school
It's just that running a school is completely different from running a modeling interest class. At the beginning of the school, it was not as smooth as expected, and at the beginning, the few students and empty classrooms also made Li Xueke very anxious, but she did not retreat because of this, but instead became more and more frustrated in the face of difficulties. Finally, through her efforts, more and more students, the model school is getting better and better, and she has reaped another big success in her life.
If relying solely on modeling school is not enough for her to harvest huge wealth, then what does she rely on to earn tens of millions of dollars a year? Perhaps, as it is often said, opportunities are often given to those who are prepared.
At the end of 2012, Li Xueke came into contact with the Thai Buddhist plaque from a friend, which has both religious and decorative nature, and is very popular in Southeast Asia, and some people in China are also very interested in it. Li Xueke felt that this might be an invisible market, and she keenly captured this business opportunity.
Thailand
So she immediately flew to Thailand, where she traveled to various temples and collected various Buddhist tablets. While collecting, send a circle of friends to promote these Buddhist cards. Unexpectedly, before she flew back to China, the Buddha card had been booked in the circle of friends.
Since then, she has opened up a new way to make money: to buy Thai Buddhist brands and various Thai goods. By selling these goods in the circle of friends, she can earn about 70,000 yuan a month.
In 2014, Li Xueke forwarded a cosmetics that he usually used in the circle of friends. Because of her previous accumulation of customers who purchased on behalf of her, coupled with her natural beauty skin conditions. This cosmetic was inadvertently stirred up by her, and the manufacturer contacted her overnight to ask her to endorse the product. As a result, she naturally became the national general agent of this cosmetics and started a micro-business.
Li Xueke
The income of model school, the income of purchasing agents, and the income from cosmetics sales, add up, Li Xueke has unconsciously become a fashionista with an annual income of tens of millions.
Opportunity is always for those who are prepared
Anyone's success is not accidental, there are opportunities to seize opportunities, Li Xueke is such a smart person.
In 2015, Li Xueke used the accumulated sales channels of selling cosmetics to establish Beijing Enxi Biotechnology Co., Ltd., and became a micro-business gangster to develop micro-business agents at a price of 298 yuan for a set of products.
In those years, it was the rise of micro-business, she took the slogan of "professional team to create professional products", and created a sales performance of 20 million yuan in the first month, and since then sales have risen steadily, and the number of direct distributors has reached 10,000.
Li Xueke of Bentley
In 2016, at the first Micro Business Spring Festival Gala, Li Xueke made a shining debut as a micro business gangster. During this period, she also successively founded "Heze Keren Fashion Culture Media Co., Ltd." and "Shandong Tianhua Gloria Culture and Art Co., Ltd." and so on.
After 2018, micro-business has gone downhill, Li Xueke began to invest in real estate again, in Hangzhou and Changsha, she has purchased a certain number of fixed assets. With her own efforts and keen grasp of the outlet of wealth, she soon accumulated hundreds of millions of dollars.
Li Xueke and three mixed-race babies
Seeing her sun-dried fragrant car mansion, people can't help but ask: This girl is so lucky, has she not failed? In fact, in Li Xueke's entrepreneurial journey, like most people, there are difficulties and failures.
When others were still studying in the classroom, she went out early to earn a living, the little young people in the society, suffered a lot of grievances; her modeling school from 0 to later developed to 12 campuses, but also through twists and turns; she invested in hotels, resulting in the collapse of the hotel lost millions. It's just that her ultimate aura of success masks her untold darkness.
Li Xueke
epilogue
For Li Xueke, there are admirers, doubters, supporters, and suppressors. However, for all kinds of voices in the outside world, Li Xueke was unmoved. Although she is very young, she is very strong at heart.
She has a very clear plan for her life and a very rational understanding of what she does. She never rejected love, but never attached herself to it; she always believed that a woman could only be herself back if she was strong enough; money was vulgar but money made people steady and happy.
Finally, I would like to sum up her outlook on life in one sentence: life is short, and you must bravely live out what you want.