I don't know when it began, the life that some women yearn for is no longer a happy family, but "long live freedom". They still have the desire and plan to become mothers, but they say that they no longer need love and marriage.
When it comes to people who don't get married but have children, everyone may not remember the name Ye Haiyang, but they must have an impression of her face and her mixed-race baby.
Once spent 500,000 yuan to buy a "small tadpole", the heat of giving birth to a mixed baby in 5 countries has not completely subsided, and now the news that she gave birth to a second child has once again caused heated discussion.
Ye Haiyang's second child has been born, and netizens sighed: it seems to be magic
On February 10, Ye Haiyang posted a photo of herself giving birth to a second child, and everyone lamented that she was giving birth to a child as if she were magical. On the evening of February 9, I was still chatting with everyone live, and the next day the baby was born. If you haven't seen her pregnant belly before, you still think it's a fake pregnancy.
Ye Haiyang had long planned to conceive a second child, and after asking her daughter's opinion, she used the same way as the first time to conceive the baby girl again. During her second pregnancy, she worked like a baby, and once played skateboarding in front of the camera, often forgetting that she was a pregnant woman.
At the beginning of 2022, Ye Haiyang was upgraded to a second-born mother, when people saw her experiencing the pain of opening her fingers, they still expressed great admiration for her, most of the keywords of the comments were congratulations, envy, life was complete, and there were also uninformed netizens who asked: "Where did Daddy go"?
Having two mixed-race babies without getting married, is it a loss or a win?
Ye Haiyang generously posted a photo of the second child, and Dabao Doris hugged his sister and smiled happily. Erbao's English name is Hatti, although the eyes are not fully open, but you can see that the skin is relatively white, the mouth and the sister are somewhat similar, the difference is that Erbao has black hair, which must be with the mother.
Some women are still struggling with what kind of person to choose to marry, and Ye Haiyang has already "not married and had two babies". If the first child was her impulsive and willful behavior, then the second child is a choice that proves her inner firmness.
Among the various congratulations and blessings, Ye Haiyang is a "winner in life", but Sugar Mom also saw this kind of comment. Some people say that women do not marry, life is incomplete, and now she let her two children grow up in a single-parent family, without fatherly love, she and both children are "losers".
But Ye Haiyang does not think that her children are worse than others, looking back at her life with a baby in recent years, she has to admit that her children are well taken care of, and her life is equivalent to the peak stage, whether to lose or win is still inconclusive.
A sentence Ye Haiyang said to the child is thought-provoking: "I conceived you with my mother's body and grew up with your father's love." Therefore, some people question why dads have become indispensable to children today.
Why is the role of dad reduced in the "valuation" of the process of raising a baby?
From Ye Haiyang's experience, thinking of Gu Ailing, who was brought up alone by his mother, people seem to find that many excellent celebrities often have an excellent mother behind them, and their father is rarely mentioned.
Whether it is an ancient celebrity, or a celebrity at home and abroad, their sense of life is indispensable to their gratitude and deep love for their mothers, including children who have lived in single-parent families since childhood and have not experienced fatherly love.
It used to be said that men were the pillars of the family and the trees that protected their children. But later, there were more and more widowed parenting, and the father took the baby to live, and everyone began to reflect on whether in some cases, people's "valuation" of the role of dad was too high.
Sugar Mom is willing to believe that there is a majority of responsible and loving fathers in this world, and there is a reason why dad's valuation in the parenting process has been reduced except for men with extremely poor personalities.
Nowadays, women are becoming more and more independent, which is one of the reasons why male roles are weakened. In the current family, most of them are still the mode of male and female protagonists, and they invisibly reduce the contact between fathers and children, and to be fair, they cannot all blame men.
Single mothers raise their babies on their own, and the premise is to be clear about the following truths
Having a baby without getting married is not as simple as it seems, and getting married and then divorcing a single mother has to bear multiple pressures such as financial, mental and physical. We can envy women like Ye Haiyang, but we must also keep a clear head, and the premise of not needing a father to participate in raising a baby and raising children is to have a strong enough mother.
Or like Ye Haiyang, he has enough economic strength, so that he not only has the confidence to himself, but also provides good living conditions for his children, rather than letting his children suffer after birth. Or have enough experience and experience, both to enjoy the freedom of being single with a baby, but also to have the courage to face the difficulties in life and do their best to cultivate their children to be excellent.
Of course, men also have to think about why they are no longer needed, because a husband and wife relationship, and a family depends on the joint efforts of husband and wife.
Candy Mom has something to say:
If you have not chosen the road of single parent raising a baby, Sugar Mother sincerely hopes that everyone can think twice, if you have already walked on this road, you must also have self-confidence, persevere, not for anything else, but to justify the name of the children of single-parent families.
【Today's topic】How do you think about Ye Haiyang having a second child?