Lin Qingkun and Wu Min have divorced, although Lin Qingkun has all kinds of reluctance, but he will not express, Wu Min often does not meet the word, the two people lack communication, resulting in Wu Min's prejudice and resentment against Lin Qingkun more and more!
At present, after the divorce of two people, because of the change of identity, do not hold expectations, but can calm down to objectively and fairly re-understand each other, especially Wu Min, after the divorce, and then look at Lin Qingkun, she instead brought a little appreciation and surprise, so the overall situation, divorce this matter, which is not necessarily a good thing for Lin Qingkun and Wu Min.
Originally after the unexpected pregnancy, Chen Shan planned to exchange battlefields with Sun Lei, but with Sun Lei's unemployment and the miscarriage of the child, Chen Shan suddenly collapsed and was embarrassed, and drafted a divorce agreement in anger, to divorce Sun Lei, Sun Lei was very helpless and did not want to divorce at all, but Chen Shan showed great determination, and only a week after a small birth, she chose to work in the mountains again.
The marriage model of Chen Shan and Sun Lei has always been Chen Shan's main outside and Sun Lei's main inside. Because Chen Shan's mother has been giving her chicken blood since she was a child, this has cultivated Chen Shan's personality of being the first person in everything and doing everything to the limit.
And Sun Lei because he was a premature baby, his parents took great care of him, accommodated him, and developed Sun Lei's free and loose personality, and Sun Lei's work attitude was to be at ease with the encounter, and he put his family first.
Originally, he and Chen Shan's very different personalities just formed a complementary, and they were a perfect couple. But due to Chen Shan's unexpected pregnancy, this made everything go off.
After Chen Shan became pregnant, she felt that she had been a little selfish over the years, because she only cared about her own career, and sacrificed Sun Lei's ideals and pursuits, Chen Shan felt that Sun Lei was also a talented person, if it were not for the fact that she had dumped her family to Sun Lei over the years, then Sun Lei might have achieved high achievements in her career.
Therefore, after becoming pregnant, Chen Shan, taking advantage of this time, plans to exchange battlefields with Sun Lei and let Sun Lei realize his career pursuits and achievements. But it was obvious that this was all Chen Shan's wishful thinking!
Sun Lei was not originally an ambitious person, and in the original unit, scattered for more than ten years, suddenly to the high-paced foreign company, he simply can not adapt, more than ten years of time has already shaped Sun Lei's personality and habits, in the work, Sun Lei has long been accustomed to the loose and free model, everything to the family first!
Therefore, only three days after joining the company, the company decided to dissuade Sun Lei! For Chen Shan, she was very angry that Sun Lei was not angry, and in anger, she miscarried again! The two reasons were superimposed, and Chen Shan was so angry that Chen Shan filed for divorce.
But why is it said that Chen Shan was hasty about divorce at this time? Because the two people have no other aspects of the problem friction, it is purely the work concept and attitude is different!
In Chen Shan's view, the sense of achievement in the career is a person's highest pursuit, so she wants to complete Sun Lei to pursue a career, but Sun Lei does not see it this way, he does not feel that career is the supreme pursuit, he only wants to accompany his children to grow up, and run the family warmly and happily, which is the best pursuit of life!
So the two of them are complementary, and a family originally needs such complementarity in order to operate harmoniously and happily. For example, Chen Shan raised a fetus at home, away from study and work for only two weeks, she already felt depressed and painful, education and counseling children, Chen Shan is also confused, and there is no patience at all.
This shows that Chen Shan and her mother are the same person, it is not suitable for being a housewife at home, no matter how old she is, she is uneasy inside, only at work, she can be rejuvenated and sense of accomplishment!
And Sun Lei, a family-oriented and loyal man, let her have no worries and can completely throw her energy into her career. The marriage of Chen Shan and Sun Lei can be said to be mutual achievements, a perfect couple, Chen Shan proposed divorce, indeed hasty!