Watching the interaction between Zhang Zhilin and Yuan Yongyi in "The Night of Greater Bay Tsai", once again being fanned by the "Xian Liang couple", although the interaction between the two is not much, as long as the two are in the same frame, they really sprinkle sugar all the time.
Just back at the food stall, Zhang Zhilin immediately went to find his wife, and really did not want to delay for a moment.
Not optimistic, not showing affection, but more loving than anyone
In 1990, 19-year-old Yuan Yongyi won the first prize of Miss Hong Kong and the most photogenic Miss Award, because of her outstanding appearance and excellent figure, in the following years, Yuan Yongyi's resources in the entertainment industry were so good that the first drama cooperated with Leung Chao-wai, Jacky Cheung, Tsang Chi-wai, Tang Zhenye and others, and won the Best Newcomer Award.
At that time, although Zhang Zhilin had released his first album "Modern Love Story", compared with those around Yuan Yongyi, Zhang Zhilin was still a little transparent.
Although there was a certain gap in the fame of the two at that time, the circle was not large, and the two people who did not know each other fell in love at first sight because of the movie "The Prodigal Son of the Border City" and soon established a relationship privately.
At first, the people around them basically did not approve of Yuan Yongyi and Zhang Zhilin being together, and some people thought that Zhang Zhilin was too handsome, and most of the handsome people were careful. Some people think that Zhang Zhilin is with her because he wants to borrow her to ascend to the throne.
But no matter how others are not optimistic, they still live a small life that they feel comfortable with as if they have identified each other.
Before they got married, Yuan Yongyi had asked Zhang Zhilin why he had not married her, and said that if he did not intend to marry her, he should not delay her.
For Yuan Yongyi's direct marriage urging, Zhang Zhilin said that he hoped to marry her when he had some achievements in his career, she loved money too much, and he wanted to give her a better life.
In 2000, Zhang Zhilin became popular because of "Moonlight on the Fifth Day of October", and even the theme song he sang, "Wishing the King", was very popular and won the Golden Melody Award, he finally fulfilled his promise and proposed to Yuan Yongyi when she visited Singapore.
Because they were afraid of trouble, the two chose to marry in secret, so they never took wedding photos and did not hold a banquet. However, the romance between the two has never stopped.
Zhang Zhilin has a song called "Fiancee", in which he sings:
"Kissing with you for many years will still beat your heart, no need to be so ostentatious as a guest, showing off in the party, soap operas like announcements in the world, there is no need, love will give time to prove, mediocre people stop disturbing themselves." 」
His heart for her, the discerning man could see it.
In 2011, Zhang Zhilin held a concert, and he agreed with all the fans and Yuan Yongyi that when he was 60 years old, he would go with her to take wedding photos.
Although they were not optimistic at first, although they did not show affection as often as others, they spent 30 years together to show everyone what true love is.
More important than passion is love and understanding
After the two were together, Zhang Zhilin's career has made great progress, and he has become a first-line celebrity who coexists with appearance and strength. Along with this, in addition to the initiative of other girls to offer hospitality, there are also malicious media.
But whether it is in the face of girls who take the initiative to give hugs, or the media with bad intentions, Zhang Zhilin's handling methods are exemplary.
For example, if a girl sends him love soup in the crew, he will directly bring the soup home to Yuan Yongyi to drink.
For example, the ill-intentioned media asked him if he cared about the scandal that Yuan Yongyi had been raised in the past, and he said that he regretted that he did not appear earlier and failed to protect her.
If the two were together at the beginning because of the five senses, then their relationship can last for a long time must be because of the three views.
At the beginning, Yuan Yongyi did not leave Zhang Zhilin because he was not red, she gave him the support and encouragement he needed most. Today, Zhang Zhilin did not dislike Yuan Yongyi because she was no longer young and no longer as red as she was then, but used her own way to reassure her and protect her.
Passion can make two people start a romantic relationship, but if you want to have a long-term relationship, you must have love and understanding, just as someone asked Zhang Zhilin, if you can change something on Liangliang,What he hopes to change, and Zhang Zhilin's answer is: "She doesn't need to change, what I want to change is my own ideas." ”
It also reminds me of the book "Love is not only a bed, but also love and understanding", there is a chapter in the book that says that marriage needs to be managed, not transformed. If the other party has something that makes you feel dissatisfied, you should not think about how to change the other party, but should change your own thinking.
Marriage needs to be managed, and running a marriage is a learning that needs to be learned
Regarding the way to get along with marriage, the book "Love is not only a bed, but also love and understanding" also recorded a lot, for example, the book mentioned that a happy marriage is a state of mind, when our mentality is peaceful, then we can feel the happiness of marriage, on the contrary, we will feel that happiness is always unsatisfactory.
Knowing this, it is not difficult to understand why some couples have very general economic conditions, but they seem to be very happy. Some couples have good economic conditions, but they often quarrel continuously, and even turn against each other.
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No one is born to know how to manage marriage, even a loving couple like Zhang Zhilin and Yuan Yongyi, there are almost divorces. A truly happy marriage is not that there are no contradictions, but that they know how to solve problems after conflicts occur. It's not terrible to argue, it's scary to not know how to repair feelings after an argument.
No marriage can only be sweet without conflict, whether a marriage can be happy or not, whether it can be long-lasting, depends on how much energy the husband and wife spend to operate. Whether you're a soon-to-be-married couple or have been married for years, the book Love is more than just a bed, love and understanding is worth reading.
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