Text/Yu Liansha
Deep thoughts, shallow love, love and no love are hidden in life.
Someone said:
"My happiness is to live a warm life with you"
The lack is that love is actually very simple.
Whether it is true or not, whether it is a scene or not, it is clear at a glance.
Whether one person really loves another person, the attitude will be obvious, and the details of getting along will not deceive people.
People who love you will always be afraid that you will be angry and afraid that you will be sad.
The trajectory of your life has been integrated into his life. He will be extra careful and respect your feelings; care about your feelings; be devoted and affectionate to you.
People who don't love you will only think about themselves.
In addition to indifference, ruthlessness, just indifference. For him, whether he will hurt you is not something he should consider at all.
Love is so realistic and cruel.
We used to think that the person we had chosen in the first place, no matter how many years later. Still the one who can be unconditionally good to himself.
Time flies, and sometimes reality gives us a slap in the face.
Men you're with, if you often put these words to the lips. You must know clearly that his heart no longer belongs to you.
Therefore, you need to recognize the reality and stop the loss early so as not to hurt yourself.
01 Go away, don't bother me
When a man likes a woman. Even if you mess around, he will feel that you are cute and will willingly serve you.
When one day, I don't like you anymore. Even if it is tender and sweet, it sounds harsh and anxious to him.
It's not rough, that's the reality.
How can a man who truly loves you be impatient with you if he wants to keep you in his mouth and hold you in the palm of his hand?
When a man is always annoyed with you; no matter what you do, you can't reach his satisfaction; it means that he has changed his mind about you.
"Love or no love is not said with the mouth, but to see how much you have paid for each other, and how much you have taken out to treat each other with sincerity."
The boyfriend of colleague Xiaofang often does nothing when he returns home. I only know how to play games with netizens.
Xiaofang was wronged at work and talked to her boyfriend, hoping to be cared for and considerate. As a result, the split head covered the face and said: Are you blind and don't see that I am playing a game?
Xiao Fang was only aggrieved, crouching in the corner silently weeping with sadness.
We are sad for Xiaofang and it is not worth it for her, such a man is not worthy of the girl's company at all.
If a man is always annoying to you and always picky about you, don't love.
A person who does not have you in his heart, no matter how much you give, you will only hurt yourself in the end.
02, I am very busy, no time
A man who truly loves you will unconsciously want to give for you, including time and money.
In this world, everyone is in a hurry. They are all running to happiness, busy making money to support their families.
But, for people who truly love you. Even if you are busy, you will make time for you to accompany you.
People who care about you are available 24 hours a day. Because in the hearts of those who love you, anything seems insignificant compared to you.
The person you never reach is not how busy he is. Instead, he chose to turn a blind eye.
Indifferent to you.
A man who is always busy with you. Maybe it's true that he's busy, but it's also true that he doesn't love.
The truth in the relationship is that what is not time, what work is busy, is just an excuse.
If he loves you, he will squeeze out time to rush to you in his busy schedule.
The reason why he is always busy is only because he doesn't love you anymore.
03, your business, whatever you want
When you do something, say something, men always look like they don't care about themselves.
No matter what you ask him, he's prevaricating you with the phrase "whatever you want."
People who don't understand it still think that men are open-minded and generous. The truth is in his psyche, you have been stingy to the point, and it is a waste to say one more word.
What is the most frightening thing about feelings? What's the saddest thing?
Not loud noises, not accusations, but indifference and perfunctory. In the face of all kinds of contradictions and helplessness, the other party does not pay attention to it, leaving you alone to grieve.
In life, many couples go through five years of itch or seven years of pain together, and the two people slowly become unconcerned and do not ask each other.
During the day, they are busy with their own, and when they go home at night, they also sleep separately, and never communicate.
The contradictory wife gambled back to her mother's house, and the husband not only did not stop it, but also threw out "I can't return to your business, whatever you want" and hung up on his lips.
The wife is angry, and the husband never coaxes, but casually says, thinking of "whatever you want", and then going away...
When a man always puts "whatever you want" on his lips, he always has an indifferent attitude towards you. That only means that he has no marital affection for you anymore.
Your feelings have long been numb, and you have completely become strangers to each other, or rather strangers.
The person who truly loves you can't bear to look at the person you love deeply, angry, sad but indifferent; on the contrary, it will be more painful and doubly loved.
People who truly love you, when there is a conflict, will not gush accusations or big reasons. He will only use great love, tenderness like water, to slowly melt you, to avoid the escalation of contradictions.
Love or not love, it is always especially obvious.
If a man always puts the above three sentences on his lips, you should understand that your feelings have come to an end.
Who is the passer-by in life, who is the wheel of life. The dust of past lives, the winds of this world, the souls of endless sorrow.
All you have to do is turn around as soon as possible. Recognize reality and find your happiness again!
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