Compared with the poverty period decades ago, today's parents, whether poor or rich, are very fond of their children, simply holding it in their hands for fear of falling, and holding it in their mouths for fear of melting, many rich second-generation and old people who do not understand things have grown up in such a doting environment.
In the past, it was always said that children from poor families had ambitions, would study hard, and knew how to share affairs for their parents. In fact, the more poor children, the more they love to eat these three bowls of rice, let's take a look at what are all of them.
The first bowl of rice Xiaofang's family of three lives with their mother-in-law, and there will always be some meals left at noon. In order to save trouble, Xiao Fang heated the leftovers in the evening and brought them to his mother-in-law, and then fried some of his son's favorite dishes to eat with his son.
Greeting the mother-in-law's puzzled gaze, Xiao Fang said: The previous life was difficult, and I could only drink water when I was hungry, but now it is good to have this, and it is a pity that this leftover dish has fallen.
What Xiao Fang did not expect was that many years later, her son also brought leftovers to her and said exactly the same things as she did at that time, which made Xiao Fang regret it.
Parents are the child's first teacher, the words, actions, habits, etc. of the two affect the child, and they will unconsciously learn from their parents. What Xiao Fang said to his mother-in-law at that time made his son on the side remember it in his heart, and finally ate the bitter fruit himself.
If you want your child to be obedient and filial, parents should pay attention to their own behavior, lead by example, filial piety to their elders, use themselves as an example, and pay attention to teaching by example.
The second bowl of rice, when the son was not tall, the mother was afraid that he would lack nutrition, so she would put a cup of hot milk on her son's table every night. As my son grew older, he also developed the habit of drinking hot milk every day.
One day, the mother went to the supermarket and forgot to buy milk, and the son was furious when he didn't see the hot milk on the table before going to bed: How can you not even do this little thing! The mother could only weep silently on the sidelines.
It is not an obligation for a mother to give her son hot milk, but out of love for her son, but the son takes his mother's love for him for granted.
Parents are good to their children like an instinct, but also to grasp the scale, if it is excessively spoiled, it will make the child develop a bad character, even gratitude does not understand, let alone filial piety?
The father, who worked at the construction site for the third bowl of rice, paid his salary on this day and took his son into a restaurant for a luxury.
Father ordered a meal and said: Eat quickly! When it was cold, it was not good to eat, so he put the meal in front of his son, and he wiped the sweat from his face and watched his son eat.
The father worked hard at the construction site for a day, but watched his son eat in the restaurant, the father endured hunger, and the child was alone.
In Bao Ma's view, this is inappropriate love. Children can't even share at the very least, and they can't feel the hardships of their parents, so how can they be filial to their parents?
Why do poorer families coddle their children?
The reason is nothing more than that parents feel indebted to the inability to provide their children with a better material life, so they agree to their children's requests in the matter of food, clothing, shelter and transportation.
If the child has a comparison psychology, from time to time to reach out to the parents for money, and the parents are satisfied one by one, the child is likely to become more intense, become a rely on the parents of the old people, can not experience the hardships of parents to make money.
Whether the family is poor or rich is not the most important, it is important to guide the child to study hard, work hard, and realize that through their own efforts, they can change their lives and destiny. Parents should pay more attention to their children's education, teach him to learn to share, learn to be grateful.
Everyone's origin has been decided when they fall to the ground, and parents do not have to feel indebted to their children because of family conditions, as long as they take good care of their children within the scope of their ability, teach them carefully, and let him grow up healthy and happy.
Parents should pay attention to the fact that they must not let their children eat these three bowls of rice because the family is not rich, and eventually let the children become unfilial.
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