The post-00s and post-10s who grew up in the Internet era have now entered a critical period of learning.
As their parents, most of them are post-70s and post-80s, and they know the truth that knowledge changes fate.
Therefore, in the children's learning is often spared no effort to supervise, afraid that they will repeat the same mistakes to continue their boring life, hoping that children can change their fate through knowledge.
However, in the face of continuous education reform, parents after the 80s have also experienced a situation of collective panic.
The educational reform requires the implementation of quality education, the comprehensive development of morality, intellectual, physical, aesthetic and labor, and at the same time, physical education and art examinations are also included in the examinations.
This is an unattainable height for most post-80s parents.
Needless to say whether the aesthetic is passed, just to help children with homework, they can only sigh.
Nowadays, on the road of children's learning and growth, there is such a situation, and most of the parents of the post-80s will not be unfamiliar.
Even if you feel that you are useless in front of your child, you don't understand that and you don't understand that.
Although he occupies the rank of the elders, he is a naked "child" in front of the child.
Many parents will also sigh: today's children are really too smart.
In fact, it is the fear that it will not be able to bring positive guidance to the child, and it is worried that it will delay the child's subsequent life.
Most of the post-80s parents around today, in the face of their children's learning and education, the inner anxiety will be infinitely magnified, the reason why this situation occurs is entirely because of the following reasons.
【Causes of anxiety for post-80s parents】
1, social development is too fast
The parents of the post-80s are so anxious in the face of their children's education because the society is now developing very rapidly, and the environment in which the parents of the post-80s have grown has undergone earth-shaking changes.
Most of the post-80s parents, for the education of their children, still stay in the parents and mothers of their own education methods, and there is no place for innovation.
However, the old way of education, in the post-00s body appears to be unsatisfactory, it is precisely because the social development is too fast, so many post-80s parents do not know what methods to take, in order to make their children not fall behind.
2. Unable to tutor children
Nowadays, the parents of the post-80s generation, especially in the face of quality education, have more than enough and lack of strength.
Whether it is art, music, or sports, etc., it seems to have touched their own shortcomings, which is also the reason why many post-80s parents are extremely anxious about their children's education.
【Post-00s children's education, parents should pay more attention to the following points】
1. Warm and powerful inside
This is to make the post-80s parents in the face of their children's education, so anxious emotions, is also understandable.
However, the education of the post-00s is not a script, we must let the post-00s children feel warm and powerful, only in this way can they face the society that is constantly innovating, and can their core competitiveness continue to increase.
A warm and powerful heart will give them an inexhaustible amount of energy, will make their hearts stronger, and will not give up on themselves because of a small thing.
2. Have good self-discipline
Parents of the post-80s, when educating the children of the post-00s, must maintain a stronger self-discipline and become a role model that the children cannot ignore, so that the children's self-discipline and self-discipline ability can be improved.
This is the most valuable asset for them, and it is also the best habit that parents give their children, so that they can have more powerful creativity in learning and life.
3. Have good study habits
In the education process of post-00 children, brushing questions has become a thing of the past, and only good learning habits can make them competitive in learning.
Therefore, in the cultivation and restraint of children's learning habits, as a parent after the 80s, we must pay attention to principle, and the bottom line is resolutely not to break through.
Otherwise, even if you have great expectations for your children, you are likely to become a runner on the road to becoming a talent.
【Author's Message】
Voltaire said: The power of talent is greater than the power of education.
Nowadays, the parents of the post-80s, when facing the education of their post-00s children, are so anxious in their hearts, one is their dissatisfaction with themselves, and the other is their uncertainty about the future.
For parents after the 80s, if they want to let the children of the 00s really surpass themselves and grasp their own lives.
The education of post-00 children must start from the above aspects, only in this way, post-00s children will not become victims of the tide of the times, and can truly grasp their own lives.
Today's topic: Do you think: In the education of the post-00s, what kind of attitude should parents have, and will it be more meaningful to their children's future lives? Feel free to share your experience below.