Chinese-style teasing children is very hurt New Year's Eve comic baby first look at these

The New Year is approaching, and many friends who have escaped marriage and spawned babies said that the pressure to go home for the New Year this year is even greater. Since the country opened up the "comprehensive two-child policy", many families with only dabao have begun to give birth to a second child, although the small two families are not willing to have children, the elders of the family think that it is good for people to prosper. Although "being promoted" can be perfunctory, if you really consider having a second child, you still have to consider the feelings of the family treasure.

As a big treasure, many people will intentionally or unintentionally joke when teasing him that "if the mother gives birth to a younger brother and sister, she will ignore you and not love you", the child is sensitive, so that listening to more will germinate in the heart the seed of "giving birth to younger siblings will be robbed of love". Once there is one more small member of the family, Dabao can not treat younger siblings with a very friendly attitude, and the recent frequent news of "Dabao in the family forced parents not to have two treasures with death" sounded an alarm bell for us, and the words should not be excessive when playing with the baby.

For children, what adults say is indisputable. At New Year's Eve gatherings of relatives and friends, avoid children hearing such "verbal attacks":

"When your mother has a younger brother or sister, you won't have anyone to ask for."

"They are all 3 years old, how can they still wet the bed?"

"Crying and crying all day, like a girl."

"I don't even dare to touch the puppy, I'm a coward."

"I can't even call an aunt when I'm so old, is there something wrong with my intelligence?"

"Don't run out, wait for the police uncle to arrest you."

Children can't understand the jokes of adults, and once they hear adults criticize themselves, they will unconsciously deny themselves and belittle themselves. Intimidation not only makes children rigid, timid, and lying, but also leads to psychological disorders in adulthood. As parents, we should not only avoid verbal intimidation of children by ourselves or relatives and friends, but also guide and encourage children in a kind way.

In addition to verbally teasing children will bring him psychological trauma, many enthusiastic relatives and friends at home in the New Year will not help but tease them when they see cute little dots, and there may be some dangerous and exciting actions in behavior, making children laugh at the same time, danger also follows:

1. Tickle

The most direct way to amuse children is to tickle, and many children will be scratched and laughed. Children lack self-control and expression ability, so under the endless tickling of adults, they will keep laughing, even if it is uncomfortable, they cannot say anything to stop it. If you are not careful, there will also be instantaneous asphyxia and lack of oxygen, which will affect the development of the brain.

2. Open your mouth to pick up objects

Tell your child to keep his mouth open, and then throw small grains of food such as peanuts and rice into his mouth. This danger is very high, the child can eat it himself can get stuck in the throat or even into the trachea, not to mention this way of throwing.

3. Make your child smoke and drink

Some people always think that it is fun to let children do adult things, such as smoking, drinking, the harm of smoking is needless to say, and the "smoking is harmful to health" on the cigarette packaging explains everything. For children, 6-10g of alcohol may die. In addition, children have no ability to recognize, and this kind of teasing behavior will make them think that tobacco and alcohol are good things, which will generate curiosity, try too early, and develop bad living habits.

4. Pick up the child

This kind of game is very simple, that is, adults throw the child high and then catch it, but have you ever thought about it before throwing, once you don't catch it, the consequences will be unimaginable. Some experts said that playing this kind of torsion game, even if it is caught, the impact force when the child falls can easily cause cervical dislocation or subluxation.

5. Circle in circles

Many parents like to hold their children's hands and then circle with him. But this method is easy to hurt the child, if the turn is too fast, it is easy to cause the child's brain lack of oxygen, joint dislocation, and adults may also fall because of dizziness, children are easy to fall or even fracture.

Reminder: As a parent, although you try to protect your child as carefully as possible, your child will always face many people and things when he grows up. When encountering others to tease children, as a parent, you should handle it properly and guide your child to think and do it in a good direction. You can encourage your child to be brave enough to express his own ideas in the face of disliked behaviors, learn to reject others, turn life into a classroom, and give children a real drill.