In front of close friends, people always feel unscrupulous and ignorant, and the more so, the easier it is to cause embarrassment.
Take the matter of inviting guests to drink, many people feel that since the relationship is so iron, they still care about the details of what to do, and the toast is over, but it is often such disdain, and the friendship between each other is over.
Therefore, in order to avoid embarrassment and for the sake of hard-won friendship, when inviting guests to drink, you must pay attention to avoid these "3 pits".
Pit 1: The other party was not notified in advance
Some people invite guests to drink, too casual, often with temporary notice, and regardless of whether others have other arrangements, they are caught off guard every time, if the other party does not come, he still says things like "don't give face" and "don't treat me as a friend".
Even if it is a friend with a good relationship, it can't withstand such a toss, after all, everyone has their own private life, if you don't notify each other in advance, it always makes people feel like they are temporarily pulled to recharge, even if they arrive for face, their hearts are not happy, in case a few glasses of wine are down, say something sincere, do you say embarrassing or not?
Pit 2: Invite others who don't deal with it
In life, who has no relationship with people who do not deal with it, if they sit at a table drinking and chatting, the scene, just thinking about it, can embarrass the sky.
Of course, if friends don't deal with each other, then it doesn't matter to you, but if you, as the host, invite both of them at the same time, knowing that friend A does not like friend B, it is your negligence.
If you make up your mind to invite guests to drink, then this pit must not be stepped on, and if you are not careful, it may become a large-scale "cold face scene".
Pit 3: Bring all the wine to the table
Treat guests to drink, pay attention to the pleasure of the guest and host, just imagine, if the host takes a bottle of alcohol blended wine, or rubs brand-name wine on the table, see them, who wants to drink? Since you don't want to drink alcohol, isn't embarrassment inevitable?
Wine is good and bad, don't think that others can't tell it, but everyone who can be on the wine table, let alone have a few years of wine age, even if you didn't see it at the time, but after drinking the wine into your mouth, you can taste a seven, seven, eight, eight.
On the contrary, if you take a few bottles of real good wine to the table, it can not only add to the capital of the entire wine bureau, but also make others feel that you are atmospheric and reliable.
As far as I know, those who will come to the event generally invite guests to drink, and they take famous products from large factories.
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