In order to cultivate the next generation, the children in the countryside are studying in the city, and some young people have taken their parents to the city, and one of them has a young man who has been dependent on his father since he was a child, and his father has worked hard to raise him, and when he gets married, he buys a house in the city, and he also takes his father to the city to enjoy the blessings, but it does not take too long for him to send his father back.
Let's hear what this is all about:
The young man's name is Xu Bin, his mother died when he was very young, he lived with his father since he was a child, although the family is very poor, but Xu Bin is very competitive, admitted to a prestigious university, after graduation has a job, later, Xu Bin earned money, bought a house in the city, lived well, after marriage, he wanted to take his father to the city.
At first, my father found various reasons not to go, and my father said, "You have just married, it is not appropriate to go at this time, the daughter-in-law has to go to work and take care of me, and I have a lot of bad habits." Xu Bin said, "It's okay to go." "Father went to town, but all kinds of bad habits did not change. The father vomited casually, the daughter-in-law could not accept it, and the father threw things at will, often making a mess of the family.
The wife told her husband not to let the father scribble and put things at home, but the father could not change at all, and what made the wife even more angry was that the father never paid attention to hygiene, the smell at home was bad, and the life of the elderly was also very uncomfortable. In his words, where is the happiness of living in a building? It's not as good as my little broken yard. Neither alcohol nor smoking is allowed, nor can you speak loudly, and you can't do this or that anyway, which is not the same day you imagine.
In fact, the old man had an idea at this time, he wanted to go back to his hometown, and one day at dinner, the daughter-in-law tried to say to her father: Daddy, you have been here for a long time, do you miss home? If you want to go home, you can go back, and after the daughter-in-law has finished, the old man said: I have considered it, I have been here for a long time, and I want to go back to see. So the old man returned to his hometown.
Although some people in the village say that the children of the elderly are not filial piety, and some people say that the old people do not understand things in the city, the old people are at least very happy. After all, it's comfortable to live in your own home.
Because of the different living habits, we do not casually take our parents to live at home, parents are not used to living at home, and we ourselves are not convenient, parents live in their own homes, do whatever they want, no one cares, and living with us, to be subject to a lot of constraints, parents can not accept for a while, so we have to let parents live in their own homes.
When parents can take care of themselves, we must let our parents live in their own homes, and when their parents are old, we will take our parents to our side and take care of them, so that parents will not have any complaints.