Since ancient times, "ladylike, gentlemanly and good" this kind of talent with the good wishes of the beautiful people, but the times are progressing, people's concepts are constantly changing, the pursuit of love, from the initial lang talent female appearance to today's equal strength.
Only by understanding what the love that the other party wants most can we solve the contradiction at the right time, otherwise it is easy to have a headache, but it cannot find the root of the disease, and finally love will end in a disease.
So what does it look like for a man to think about love in his heart, let's take a look at it.
01: Every man has a sense of mission to be "needed"
In the traditional Chinese Confucianism, the husband and wife are honored, and the mother is precious, and the mother is precious, which has long become a deep-rooted view of men, even when New China was just founded, men were also a woman's heaven, and marrying and having children in that era was the only way for many women to go through, and it was also the only way out.
The country is developing faster and faster, the talents needed are becoming more and more diversified, forming a situation of a hundred flowers blooming, many women with ability and courage have more opportunities for development, and now women are not only capable of economic independence, interpersonal communication and social status are also rising, and men's sense of existence has dropped again and again.
Many men in the depths of their hearts are still eager to get the recognition and needs of their lovers, no matter how beautiful they are on the outside, they are also eager to get the affirmation and praise of their favorite people, and they also want to be their own women's heroes.
Whether it's machismo or their heroic feelings, you have to believe that every man will feel lost when he is not needed by his lover.
Maybe you will feel: everyone is a person who works to support the family, why should I take care of his emotions after I go home to wash and cook, why doesn't he take care of me in turn? Love is a two-way street, there is always a party that needs to pay first, gratitude and return to have the opportunity to play.
A smart woman, who knows how to blindly be strong and humble will make love can not get healthy growth, they will show weakness with men in a timely manner, the light bulbs can be changed by themselves, and the traffic accident insurance can also be handled, but it is appropriate to meet the man's sense of "being needed" and make their ability useful.
Good love also needs "heart machine" to operate.
02: Every man has a small child living in his heart
On double eleven, in order to buy a large bag of small twist flowers for my husband, my husband said silently when he opened the courier: This is the first time someone has bought snacks for me, and it is very sad to hear this.
Although in today's society, women face the same pressure as men, but the world has very high expectations for men. Men must be strong, good at solving problems, but also give women and children a sense of security, can protect the family...
Under the requirements of the world, men cannot be weak and helpless, and they cannot achieve nothing, but they are always flesh and blood, they will also be afraid and confused, they will also be sad and sad, and they also hope that someone can take care of the fragility behind his strength.
Men are easy to be vulnerable, but also easy to be comforted, a smart woman, must learn to see the vulnerability of men, be a harbor of the heart to talk to, give appropriate support, so that he can take a short break before the next struggle.
Only by silently caring for the man you love with your own heart, smoothing his inner wandering with the gentleness of a woman, and taking care of a man's fragile heart, can you find the happiness and value of a woman in marriage.
03: Men are eager for a life with a temperature
What does it mean to have a temperature? This is not the temperature of the object, but a way of life, a person's attitude to life. There is a temperature can be divided into the temperature of the home and the person who has a temperature.
What is the temperature of your home? A few clean windows, a spotless bathroom, a steaming meal, a hot cup of tea late at night, a few pots of living plants in the sun... The tranquility of these ordinary and beautiful lives is the temperature of home.
And a woman with temperature must be a kind and optimistic person, they will not be calculating, will not suffer from gains and losses, will not be full of complaints, but understand the difficulty of others, grateful for the efforts of others, not only can use daily trivialities to warm themselves, but also warm others.
A relationship with temperature, just like the night lamp that is lit upstairs when returning in the late night, can illuminate the darkness in many people's lives, once a man falls into such a temperature, he will love deeply and love hard to extricate himself.
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