In "Desire for The Golden Branch", the existence of the taiyi Sun Baiyang is too eye-catching, almost all the women who have intersected with him have a secret heart for him, Fuya, Erchun, Xiangfu, haoxue all love him deeply, and even the first beauty of the harem, Yuying, is also fond of him.
When I watched this drama when I was young, I also felt that Sun Baiyang had an extraordinary charm: he was not only superb in medical skills and noble in medical ethics, but also loved to speak out and help the weak, and more importantly, he was sober and wise, walking in the treacherous palace, not easily surrounded by any force.
However, after watching this drama 17 years later, I found that Sun Baiyang had a very high self-esteem and was ruthless and unworthy of love.
1. Self-righteousness
Sun Baiyang is young, but his medical skills are superb, comparable to the academician of the Tai Hospital, his father. Perhaps because of the excellent professional skills, experience some things, see the world, plus some intelligence, I always feel that I can see the world and foresee the future.
In fact, he is just self-righteous, a man who is always conceited and dismissive of others.
For example, the first time Sun Baiyang met Kong Wu, he concluded that his good fortune was over and he would soon have nothing. At first, as he said, Kong Wu was in a terrible state and was unlucky everywhere. Sun Baiyang, full of superiority, gave him a piece of silver and told him that the capital was not suitable for him, or to take the silver home to start a small business.
However, everyone has their own ambitions and ambitions. As a bystander, you can't arbitrarily deny his future just because you see his momentary downfall.
Kong Wu also used his own actions to prove how self-righteous Sun Baiyang's words were.
For another example, when dealing with the drug change incident, Sun Baiyang did have a sharp eye, and suddenly saw through Yuying's deep heart, not as simple as it seemed on the surface. It is indeed rare to be able to capture the essence of man through a beauty that makes men irresistible.
However, he misunderstood Er Chun, thinking that all this was a ghost made by Er Chun, and then married Yuan Qi.
In fact, he did not know the whole truth of the matter at all, only saw the tip of the iceberg, he thought that he had seen the whole picture, so as to guess others, and took his own speculation as a fact, and said it in front of others, I am afraid that others do not know that he is smart.
For example, his father warned him several times not to interfere in the affairs of the harem and to keep a distance from the harem concubines. However, he prides himself on his ability to be alone and does not need his father to worry about it. As a result, he fell deeply into it, fell in love with Yuying, who should not be loved, and let Yuying become pregnant, and finally both were burned to death by the empress.
After all, he still overestimated his own ability, underestimated the cruelty of the harem struggle, and underestimated the bloody rain in the imperial city.
With such a person, life is full of risks, and if you accidentally lose everything, you will lose.
2. Be ruthless to women
First, he was ruthless to his wife Haoxue.
Sun Baiyang has always resented his father, because his father rarely accompanied his mother, and even when his mother died, he never saw his father for the last time. He did not want to live under the same roof as his father, so he wandered night and night, and almost did not come home.
However, he also has Hyun-sook's wife, Haoxue, a woman who is obsessed with waiting for his return. How much she resembled his mother! He blamed his father for being bad to his mother, and he was worse than his father.
Didn't he know how humiliating and hurtful it was for him to move to a brothel? He knew, but he didn't care.
The wife tolerated him, said nothing, and every time she saw him come back, there was only joy, no complaints. He knew what his wife was longing for, but he ignored it.
Second, be ruthless towards Fuya.
Does Sun Baiyang not know Fuya's affection for him? He knew, but he pretended not to know.
Fuya made a pair of socks and said that he wanted him to pass it on to her righteous father, Xu Gonggong, but actually gave it to him intentionally.
The prostitute Xiangfu told him that the socks looked like the style of a young man, and the Fugui people were emotional about him. Sun Baiyang deceived himself and found a reason for himself: I took it for her first, and she did not know that Xu Gonggong had died.
As a doctor, Sun Baiyang cannot respond to Fuya's love, which is also understandable. However, what made people angry was that she saw Thata making gloves for Erchun, so she asked Fuya to make one more pair, and he wanted to give it to Yuying, because Yuying's hand was burned.
Isn't it bad to take the gloves made by the woman who loves him and send warmth to the woman he loves?
If a person with a conscience cannot accept the love of the other party, how much will he feel guilty in the face of her efforts, and how can he be willing to ask for it again?
For his sake, Fuya gave up his future, was willing to self-destruct his body, and took poison for many years, just to get his care and often see him.
She loved silently like this, never showing her heart, if it were not for the fact that she had not begged him to save Er Chun out of the palace, she would have kept it a secret for the rest of her life.
After all, he still did not complete the entrustment that Fuya entrusted to him before his death.
In order to find Yuying, he did not escort Er Chun out of the palace, but let her escape alone. If it weren't for Anxi and Kong Wu's help, Er Chun would have died a long time ago.
Third, be ruthless to Erchun.
Sun Baiyang appeared self-righteous many times in front of Er Chun. In the drug change incident, he thought that it was Er Chun who framed Yuan Qi, but it was actually Shu Ning, and Er Chun was a bit self-abandoned and did not defend himself.
Another time, Fu ya knew that Er Chun had asthma, so he made a sachet and asked Sun Baiyang to hand it over to Er Chun. Er Chun thought that it was sent by Sun Baiyang and cherished it especially.
Later, when Er Chun flew a kite, he met the emperor, who took a fancy to her sachet and wanted to come. But Er Chun was reluctant to give, so he cleverly declined.
Sun Baiyang, however, believed that Er Chun's bold rejection of the emperor was a desire to capture the emperor and was a good means of attracting the emperor's attention to her.
He had always felt that Er chun was meticulous, could live well in the harem, and had the ability to win grace and status. However, he was still too blind and confident, thinking that he had a sharp vision and a very accurate understanding of people, in fact, he had been misunderstanding Er Chun and even demonizing Er Chun.
Of course, these are nothing. After all, people are limited, and he has no obligation to understand Erchun.
But he was too maddened. Er Chun, because he missed his sister, thought that after her sister's death, she would turn into a star and stared at the night sky all night without sleeping. After he knew, he gave Er Chun a marquee. At night, this lamp illuminated the whole house, like a starry sky.
Er Chun thinks that this man is careful, considerate, and romantic, and she really falls in love with him because of this marquee.
Although Sun Baiyang's move was very warm, as a tai doctor, he should keep a distance from the harem women, but he not only did not pay attention, but also provoked others, and he still felt very innocent.
When he finally fled for his life, Er Chun showed his love in order to persuade him to live well. And he just coldly broke Er Chun's hand and turned back to the palace to look for Yuying.
Sure enough, the amorous people are the most ruthless.
Fourth, ruthless to incense.
Sun Baiyang was unwilling to face his father and lived night and night with the prostitute Xiangfu.
Although Xiangfu is a dusty woman, she has great conversation and insight, and presumably the daughter of a good family has unfortunately fallen into the land of fireworks. She must also long to meet good people and redeem herself for her freedom.
However, Sun Baiyang raised her for several years, but never wanted to redeem herself. She never mentioned it, and perhaps she thought that Sun Baiyang's company was enough. Therefore, she wholeheartedly played Sun Baiyang's confidante, patiently explained him, and lovingly advised him.
However, Sun Baiyang regarded this flower of interpretation as a garbage can for his emotions, and he confided in Xiangfu about any troubles he encountered, including the pain of his love for Yuying, but he did not consider Xiangfu's feelings at all.
After Xiang fu saw his thoughts, she chose to decisively stop the loss, she packed his luggage, sent someone back to his home, and then began to receive other guests. She clearly told Sun Baiyang that she did not want him to come to her in order to escape the woman she loved.
At this time, Sun Baiyang remembered to say this: "If you need it, I can redeem myself for you, don't you want to go back to your hometown?" ”
Obviously, this is very contrary to the heart.
Xiang Fu was so clever, how could she not recognize each other, she politely refused.
In the end, Sun Baiyang was no different from other men who bought pleasure in the Qinglou, and even a little more excessive than those people, because he got more from Xiangfu, and what he asked for was understanding, listening, explaining, and appreciating.
3. A warm man like Sun Baiyang is actually a cold pool that makes people easy to fall
Sun Baiyang looks very warm, very kind, and more importantly, he does not worship high and low, and often sends charcoal in the snow.
When women meet such a man, they can easily fall, and they will feel that he is very good to themselves, very considerate, grateful and admiring for him.
However, when you actually walk into this man, you will find that he is not only good to you, he is good to everyone.
The reason why he likes to be a "central air conditioner" is on the one hand out of his own moral cultivation, on the other hand, he likes to find a sense of existence and superiority from the gratitude and admiration of others.
He is good to you, not because he thinks you are good, but to make himself feel good; he talks to you, not because he is in touch with your heart, but he needs a listener to ease his distress and witness his "glory", but he has no patience to listen to you, let alone to understand your needs and troubles.
Maybe sometimes, you feel that he is very speculative with you, and he understands what you say, but that is not resonance, let alone a sharp mind, but he is backwards compatible with you. After all, this is the only way to show your wisdom.
Just like Sun Baiyang's final sigh to himself: "I think I am at ease in red pink, but I don't know that I am just a big fool, and I would rather live up to the world's red face than love someone who does not love myself." ”
It can be seen that he had a very high self-esteem before!
A man like Sun Baiyang has no desire to establish substantial intimate relationships, he is just accustomed to the admiration of others. When you really want to confess your heart to him and start a family, he will only run away.
Therefore, such a warm man is actually a cold pool that makes women easy to fall. When you really get close to him, you will only feel cold and bitter, it is a disaster for yourself.