In today's society, many parents have no one to take care of their children because of their busy work, and grandparents play a role. Recently, when an old man took his grandson, he went to play mahjong with his card friends, resulting in the loss of his grandson, and after knowing that his grandson was lost, he slapped himself on the street, and did the follow-up child find it? What should I do as soon as I learn that my child is lost?
Now, due to the busy work of young fathers and mothers, there is no time to take the children by themselves, and they are not at ease to find a nanny, so they can only be helped by the elderly at home to take the children. This is a common situation that exists in many families.
On December 18, there was a video that attracted a lot of attention.
In Nanchang, Jiangxi, an old man in Wanli District slapped himself on the street.
A woman said that the old man was a poker player next door to her, and as early as 3 o'clock, someone told the old man that the child was missing, but the child's grandmother was still addicted to mahjong.
It wasn't until 6 o'clock that the child's grandmother really realized that the child was indeed lost, and she slapped herself with emotional loss.
Fortunately, the local traffic police helped the old man find the child, and at about seven or eight o'clock the old man finally met his grandson at the police station.
Netizens expressed their happiness that the child found it at the same time, but also proposed that "the old man is too irresponsible" and "the child should not leave the parents' sight".
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At about 8:30 p.m. on June 21, the Pengpu Town Police Station of the Jing'an Public Security Bureau received a report from the masses that a little girl of about 3 or 4 years old in Da rong City Square was suspected of being separated from her family.
The police quickly arrived at the scene to find the girl, but because the child was too young to say the contact information and home address of his parents, he could only determine that he was studying in a nearby kindergarten, so the police looked for the child's parents through the shopping mall broadcast, and contacted the kindergarten to try to notify the child's mother.
Things quickly progressed, at 8:50, according to the contact information provided by the kindergarten, the police successfully contacted the child's mother, Ms. Wang, but a wave of uneven waves rose again, on the phone, Ms. Wang said that the child went out with her grandfather that night, but now there is only one child left, what about the child's grandfather?
After looking for the child, look for the elderly.
The police will feedback the situation to the 110 command center, and the reinforcement police force will arrive with the mall staff to find the whereabouts of the child's grandfather.
After 20 minutes, police officer Xia Wentao and others finally found the girl's grandfather on a hidden path leading to Gaoping Road in Darong City Square.
"At that time, we noticed an old man driving an empty stroller alone on this trail, and no one usually walked on this trail, so we felt strange and went up to ask." Xia Wentao, deputy captain of the patrol team of the Pengpu Town Police Station, introduced.
At the beginning, the old man saw the police after completely unclear about the situation, there is resistance, Xia Wentao immediately showed him a photo of his granddaughter, the old man suddenly became very excited, the police know that they have found the right person.
It turned out that the old man was old and suffering from an illness, sometimes delirious, and usually did not go out. That night, he couldn't help his granddaughter and took her to the mall to play.
After the old and the young were scattered, the old man had heard the search notice on the radio, but he could not find the radio room of the mall, and he was unwilling to take the initiative to ask people, so he thought of using his own "method" to find the child, and as a result, he was still lost.
What should I do as soon as my child is lost?
In order to avoid the occurrence of a case of lost child, parents need to take a picture of the child before the child goes out, remembering the characteristics of his whole body.
When parents find that the child is not waiting in the same place, they should immediately call the child's name, if no one around responds, the parent should call the police 110 at the first time.
2-5 years old is the age when children are most likely to lose, why is this so?
1. Be curious about your surroundings
Children aged 2-5 are in an explosion of curiosity, they like to see novel things, are attracted by funny sounds, like to touch and press all kinds of things with their hands, which is the behavior of children to explore, but it also brings them safety hazards.
They may be on the street with their parents, led by colorful strangers on the street, attracted by a novelty toy, or searching the street for interesting music or sounds...
In these curious explorations, they often think that , as at home , my parents will always be by my side. If parents ignore it, children may unconsciously disappear from their line of sight.
2, once lost, do not understand "reason"
Emotion precedence is characteristic of all people, especially children at this stage, because their brains are not mature enough, and they do not understand "reason" at all.
When they find that they can't find their parents, the first time is the invasion of fear, crying loudly, and while crying, they are anxious to run, trying to find the familiar faces of their parents in the crowd, the more they look for the more fearful, and finally they are completely overwhelmed, and they can be "led" by anyone, which is the subconscious behavior of children of this age.
Therefore, parents should tell their children in a targeted manner: "Crying" is useless, and it is useless to walk around in the crowd, and they must seek help.
Parents can tell their children:
1) Stand still and let your parents find yourself instead of going to your parents yourself;
2) Stop crying, look for uniformed personnel on the spot, and tell them that they can't find their parents;
3) Can't follow anyone away from where they got lost with their parents.
3, do not recognize words, do not recognize the road
Most preschoolers don't know words, they don't know the road, and even if they do, they know very little. So they don't have the ability to find their way home by road name or signage.
In addition, children at this age lack abstract thinking, but the concrete image thinking is prominent, so parents can focus on the surrounding buildings, at least let the children remember the landmarks near the home, such as a large shopping mall, or an iconic building.
Once lost, you can find the approximate location of your home by telling others landmark information. If these children could remember their names and kindergarten names, as well as the names of their parents, they would be able to find a more accurate location when the police helped.
So, parents should at least have their children remember a few simple but necessary pieces of information:
1) The name of an iconic building near the home
2) Own name
3) The name of the parent
4) The name of the kindergarten
5) The name of the community in which it lives
4, the thinking is young, easy to trust anyone
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