Recently, Chongqing netizens shared a video in which a little girl accidentally fell to the ground while playing with a stroller at home and cried. There were two adults in the living room, one of whom continued to play with his mobile phone after taking a look, and the other, after the girl cried, briefly got up from the couch to look at it, and then lay back down again, allowing the girl to cry on the ground.
After the video was sent, many netizens expressed doubts, believing that it was too indifferent to children. In response, the child's family said that the child fell on the sponge pad, and the brother was also on the side to comfort the sister, and they did not care until they confirmed that the child was okay. In addition, the younger sister is usually more pretentious and loves to cry when there is nothing to do, so they also want to make their children independent.
Netizens are also hotly discussed about this:
Yesterday I took my 6-year-old son to the square to skate, and when he fell to the ground, my first reaction was to laugh and then go and help him up."
"That's what I did, no problem!" Yesterday my daughter had a fight with his brother, sitting on the ground crying, I looked at her and left, and then she got up and continued to play. ”
"I don't think there's anything wrong with what this parent did, the children are so old, the car is so small, isn't it normal to accidentally fall on your ass and squat and get up on your own?"
In fact, this kind of education method is really not too much of a problem, the premise is to confirm that the child is indeed not a big problem. And this can also teach children to get up on their own when they fall down, and to bear the consequences if they do something wrong. If the child has a little pain, the parents are like a big enemy, which is actually unfavorable to the child's physical and mental development, and it is easy to form a sense of dependence on adults.
What do you think?