Whether it is urban or rural, the number of older men is increasing, the proportion of men and women is imbalanced, the problem of more men and less women has always existed around us, this problem is still intensifying, carefully look for us around there are many older men unmarried, but what people do not understand is that they seem to have anxiety because they are not married.
There may be some people who are busy with their careers and completely leave their personal lives behind, or perhaps some people have realized this problem, but they are suffering from self-avoidance that they can't solve it.
Not to mention that for those men who have a particularly successful career, for ordinary men, older men who want to get off the list must recognize some facts.
The fact that married life for men is not easy
As far as today's society is concerned, men's married life is indeed not easy, first of all, the big and small things in married life, if you have nothing in your twenties, it may be difficult to find a suitable marriage partner, if you wait until you are in your thirties or have nothing, it will be more difficult. Married life is not a child's play, involving all aspects, and material is only the tip of the iceberg.
It is also true that the cost of marriage is great
Now society is a materialistic society, everyone must take into account the pressure brought by reality, from beginning to end, the requirements of society for men and women are not the same, men and women shoulder responsibilities are not the same, first of all, supporting a family is one of the responsibilities of men, houses, cars, children, daily life, all this is for men to consider, because the responsibility is different, for men to get married, the explicit, invisible cost is naturally different.
It is even more true that there are more men than women
Nowadays, in society, there are more men and fewer women, and the older leftover men are even more overwhelming, look at your surroundings, listen to the surroundings of others, more men and less women are undoubtedly the reality, and older men must recognize this fact and see their own situation.
Xiaobian feels that love is not going to happen, try to find their own love, of course, want to have a sweet love must be a good struggle, struggle is a positive energy embodiment, but also the other half of the more valued performance, but also an indispensable quality.