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Time flies really fast, in the blink of an eye, the post-80s have entered middle age, the post-90s have begun to establish a family, and children seem to have become the most favorite topics of the young population today, with joy and certainly sorrow.
I remember when we were young, many parents of rural families did not have any education level, and they could not help our homework and exercises at all, but today's parents after the 80s and 90s, according to the previous level, before their children's middle school, are fully capable of tutoring.
But the truth is always helpless, only when you are a parent, you know how painful it is to tutor your child, which is a completely different feeling from the previous bystander, and sometimes it is inevitable that emotions are out of control.
A father in Zhejiang province was very devastated when he gave a lecture to his primary school daughter
Recently, in Shaoxing, Zhejiang, a video of a post-80s father tutoring his primary school daughter with homework became popular, and the father in the video footage almost collapsed, which made people worry about the girl and inevitably sympathize with the old father.
Although homework is now less, some of the more qualified parents still hope to help their children figure out and understand what they learn every day, so that even if they do not seek to be ahead of others, they should not be too far behind.
In the video, the father is teaching his daughter a math problem, although he does not see what the specific problem is, but it is easy to see from the father's collapse speech and body movements, which should be a more classic backwards way calculation problem.
My daughter still couldn't figure out how to calculate the length of this journey, the two cars started from the same starting point, each walking 6cm in different directions, how far away were they?
While comparing with his hand, the father said excitedly, "You are now getting longer, the left has it, the right side has it, the left side plus the right side will do it." ”
Although the father's expression, language and movements are very excited, the daughter seems to be a little indifferent, and sometimes it is true that "I can't understand" or "can't understand", but the father still speaks very clearly.
In the father's view, the daughter thought the problem was too complicated, while talking, the father could not help but pat the table with his hand, looking a little angry, but the daughter was still indifferent, and seemed to have become somewhat accustomed.
The father in the video footage became more and more excited the more he spoke, and for a moment, the qi and blood surged upwards, his face turned red, and the collapsed expression was visible to the naked eye.
"I know the left side, I know the right side, the total length is 12cm."
The father kept repeating to his daughter, at this time it seemed that the father was almost "unable to hold on", the daughter finally picked up the pen and began to move, but it was not clear whether she really understood.
Perhaps feeling that he had just been too excited, maybe a little frightened of his daughter, the old father began to ease his mood, bowed his head, looked at his feet, thought about life, tried to divert his attention, and ease his emotions.
This matter has aroused heated discussion among netizens
The video was filmed by the child's mother and posted to the social platform, immediately attracted everyone's attention, in just one night, the father to his daughter tutoring homework collapse picture was circulated, got more than 170,000 likes, nearly 150,000 retweets, more than 70,000 messages.
Someone said below that they all know that this is not right, but when they are immersed, they can't control it...
Some people can't help but speculate, I don't know whether the children eat too many additives now, or the teachers' teaching level is not as good as before, and they always feel that there is no reading worry for our generation.
Some people also speculate on the old father's thoughts, don't roar, you will regret it for a while, the more you think about it, the more you regret it, thinking: Next time it will never be like this again, next time it will continue.
Some people joked that at most arrogant to junior high school, it was honest, and when it reached high school, it completely disappeared, and it would not be the kind that looked for him.
Nine o'clock talk
Seeing this father tutoring his daughter with homework, it is both sympathetic and funny, but this look is definitely the most real scene, and friends who have told their children about the topic should have a deep understanding of it, sometimes they know that this is not good, but they can't control it.
Some people think that this father's tutoring is not good for the child, and in the long run, it is easy to cause the child to have an inferiority complex.
In fact, strictly speaking, sometimes a little pressure is nothing, do not always feel that the current children are weak and can't help the wind, they should accommodate them, you need to know, children who grow up under the bottomless care of their parents, when they grow up, are usually prone to backfire.
Everything pays attention to a balance, the father is prone to emotional collapse is normal, care is chaotic, after talking about the topic, we go out to relax and relax, take the child to play games, sing and sing, both to soothe their mood, but also to let the child understand that learning is a part of life, the same need to take it slowly, there are unhappy here, we on the other side to make up, this flower does not open its own blossoms.
Today's topic: Have you ever had a moment of collapse in tutoring your child with homework?
Have thoughts, have depth, and be the light of the young people themselves.