According to reports, a girl in Fujian, Xiao Xue, was introduced to Xiao Tang, who was 5 years older than her, and the two were very satisfied with each other, so they quickly established a relationship, and the feelings heated up sharply.
She was licensed in less than a year in love, but for Xiaoxue, the license is only a legal commitment, and she also needs Xiaotang to hold a wedding ceremony to declare her identity to her relatives and friends.
But she did not expect that now that she has been licensed for a year, she is 24 years old, but the wedding of the two has not been put on the agenda, and now she can only wash her face with tears all day, hoping that the man can realize a dream of his own. But for the woman's request, the man said that he was unable to do so, because they needed 800,000.
I have not had a wedding in one year
Marriage is not only a matter between two people, but also related to two families, after all, holding a wedding ceremony requires the support and approval of the family.
When Xiaoxue was 23 years old, through the introduction of the matchmaker, she met Xiao Tang, who was 5 years older than her, and after the two met, they both had a good feeling for each other, and after a period of contact, they quickly established a relationship.
In order to be able to meet often, Xiao Tang gave up his original high-paying job and returned to Fujian from Guangzhou, so that he could better accompany his girlfriend.
For Xiao Tang's decision, Xiao Xue felt very moved, which further warmed up the feelings between the two. Until the two secretly got the marriage license, it was also an explanation of their love.
After receiving the license, the natural thing to consider is to hold the wedding, but in the time that the two have been licensed for a year, Xiaoxue has mentioned the wedding many times, but has been rejected by Xiao Tang, from the beginning of New Year's Day, to the following May Day, National Day, Mid-Autumn Festival, and finally Xiao Tang came a sentence: this year is not suitable for marriage.
This incident made Xiaoxue feel very disappointed, because for her, the wedding ceremony is very important, because it is a declaration to the relatives and friends of both sides, telling all the people around her that this is my family.
So why does Xiao Tang have such an attitude in the matter of doing weddings?
There is no reason to have a wedding
First of all, when the parents of both sides met, they had already talked about the bride price, and finally set at 200,000. In order to give Xiaoxue more protection, the woman's parents also asked to give Xiaoxue 350,000 yuan alone, and this money will not be brought back to her mother's home. After that, there is all the money for the banquet, including the woman's side, which is also borne by the man's family, Xiao Tang and his parents have added up, and finally need to use almost 800,000 yuan, which is also a big expense for his family. After all, the two have only known each other for more than a year, Xiao Tang's parents are very afraid that this is a fraudulent marriage incident, in case the money is given, the result is that the two divorced, which can be described as more than worth the loss.
Secondly, Xiao Tang's parents are not very satisfied with Xiao Xue, because Xiao Xue herself is younger, so she may be more childish in the way she behaves, and her temper is not particularly good, which leads to less conversations between her and her in-laws. Although Xiao Tang also hopes that his parents can identify with Xiao Xue, but Xiao Xue is indeed relatively willful, and the opinions of his parents are also very important for Xiao Tang, he hopes that his parents and Xiao Xue can communicate more, and after getting the approval of his parents, holding a wedding is a sure thing.
At present, under mediation, the two sides have discussed that the wedding will be held after the Spring Festival, but because there is too much gift money, it may not be able to take it out at once, and Xiaoxue also understands this very much.
In fact, these two people still have feelings, and after a good consultation, they can also understand each other, which is still a relatively fortunate point. If Xiaoxue can communicate with her in-laws more, she may find each other's advantages, which is also important for the harmony of the family.