The mother-in-law wanted to give the three-bedroom apartment to her son, and the daughter-in-law wanted to sell it to her brother for 20,000 yuan, but the mother-in-law did not give it

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The mother-in-law wanted to give the three-bedroom apartment to her son, and the daughter-in-law wanted to sell it to her brother for 20,000 yuan, but the mother-in-law did not give it

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2022-05-0612:02

Jiangsu

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"A gentleman loves money and has a way to get it", everyone should earn the right money, and don't covet money that does not belong to them. Only when a person spends the money he earns can he be righteous and strong, can he feel at ease, and the money that does not belong to him should not have a non-divided thought.

After the girl marries into the in-laws' family, it is best not to think otherwise about the money of the in-laws. If you calculate the in-laws' money, it will definitely cause family conflicts, and eventually even get a divorce. Home and everything is happy, a family and a harmonious atmosphere, this family will prosper.

After the girl gets married, she is to help with the affairs of the mother's family.

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Do your best. If you don't have the ability to help your mother's family, there is no way, you must not force, anything that is forced will not have a good result. If the girl takes the money of the in-laws to help the mother-in-law's family, unless the in-laws are willing, she will definitely be rude.

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The mother-in-law demolished and divided into two suites, ready to live in one for herself and the other for her son's family. Unexpectedly, the daughter-in-law wanted to sell to her brother for 20,000 yuan, and the mother-in-law did not agree, so she registered both suites in her own name.

This happened at Aunt Song's house, and after she registered both houses in her name, her daughter-in-law had a big fight with her. The son lived a relatively small life, the family affairs could not be done by the Lord, and he could only be silent when his wife and mother quarreled. Let's hear the story of their family.

Self-narrator: Aunt Song

Age: 65 years old

Occupation: Retired worker

City: Suzhou

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At that time, my son and daughter-in-law were introduced to each other by someone who was my husband's cousin. In fact, I didn't look at the daughter-in-law here, and I think that the daughter-in-law can speak the Tao, which is too powerful. My son is an honest man, and if the two of them get married, I think my son will be bullied.

But my son took a fancy to my daughter-in-law, and my husband advised me not to worry about it, it was my son who got married, not me who got married, as long as my son liked it. So I accepted the daughter-in-law, and my husband and I took all our savings to help them buy a marriage house in the city and handle their marriage.

After my son got married, they lived in the city, and the old man and I continued to live in the country. Because the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law do not live together, there is no direct contradiction, and the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are still quite polite. It's just that the daughter-in-law managed her son obediently, and when I saw the appearance of my son's nest, my heart was not a taste.

Three years after the son's marriage, the daughter-in-law gave birth to twins, both of whom were boys. This made our old couple happy, and my previous dissatisfaction with my daughter-in-law was all gone, so I immediately went to take care of my daughter-in-law and two grandchildren.

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I took my grandson with me at my son's house for two years, and I was going to continue to take it, but the old man was sick. I had to go back to the countryside to take care of the old man, and my two grandchildren were taken care of by my mother, who lived in my son's house.

The old man was sick for more than a year, and finally he died, and I was so sad that my son and daughter-in-law came back to take care of the aftermath. After the old man's funeral, I also fell ill, and after taking care of the old man for more than a year, I was exhausted, and now I was so sad that my body could not eat.

My son and daughter-in-law were very busy and didn't have time to come back and take care of me, so I had to take care of myself. After more than half a year, my health slowly improved, and I wanted to continue to go to my son's house to take my grandchildren, and I missed my two grandchildren.

But my daughter-in-law didn't want me to bring it, so she said let her mother bring it! Her mother was used to living in her house. Since the daughter-in-law said so, I can't help it, and everything in the family is decided by the daughter-in-law. The mother lives in her own home, and it is estimated that when she sees her son who is not a tool, she is in a bad mood, so she prefers to live in her daughter's house.

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The daughter-in-law also has a younger brother, who has not graduated from junior high school and has mixed in society. He has no skills, no diplomas, and is not willing to suffer, so he can't make money at all. After years of mixing, he still didn't achieve anything, not even a girlfriend. The family was very worried about this son, but there was no way.

After another two years, we had a turn to demolish here, and my house could be divided into two new houses, one three-bedroom and one two-bedroom. I calculated that I would live in a two-bedroom apartment, and I didn't have to live in a big house anyway, and I would give my son a three-bedroom apartment.

The son has no great ability, has been earning some dead wages, and lives in front of his daughter-in-law. After I give him the three-bedroom room, maybe he can have a harder waist, so he doesn't have to bow down three times in front of his daughter-in-law.

So I called my son and asked him to come back, and I wanted to talk to him about the demolition. When I heard that the demolition was going to be carried out, my daughter-in-law also came back, so I said my plan, and my son and daughter-in-law were very happy.

Later, I went to the kitchen to cook, and my son and daughter-in-law continued to talk in the room. When I entered the kitchen, I suddenly wanted to ask my son and daughter-in-law what they wanted to eat, and they rarely came back, and I made them what they liked to eat, so I went back to the room.

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When I got to the door of the room, I heard my son and daughter-in-law talking, and my son said, "Give the house to your brother, isn't that okay?" My mother will not agree, besides, we have two sons, in the future we will also prepare a house for them, our salary is not high, how to buy them a house? ”

"After your mother gave you the house, you can give it to whomever you want, can she still manage it?" When you go to apply for a real estate deed, just write my brother's name directly, and then my brother will pay 20,000 yuan, which is considered to be his purchase. Last night, I had discussed this with my parents and brother, and they were all very happy. Daughter-in-law said.

The son muttered a word, and the daughter-in-law was not happy, saying: "You are a brother-in-law, you don't help him, who helps him?" He's in his 30s, and he's had a hard time finding a girlfriend, and he can't blow it because he doesn't have a house. Now that your house is demolished, then we have the ability to help him solve the house. ”

The son said reluctantly: "Then what should we do if we buy a house for our son?" ”

"Is the child still young?" Why are you worried about all this? Besides, your mother's house, won't it also be ours in the future? We have two houses, then two sons will have one set per person, no! Don't tell your mother about selling the house to my brother, lest she be unwilling. Daughter-in-law said.

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When I heard this, I suddenly felt mixed feelings, and then quietly returned to the kitchen. My three-bedroom house, the market price of one hundred thousand, daughter-in-law actually sold to her brother for 20,000, I can't accept it.

I gave the house to my son, my son nested, he couldn't keep his property, and his daughter-in-law was a brother-in-law, and my two little grandchildren were going to suffer losses! In a few years, what should I do if my daughter-in-law hits me with the idea of the house I live in? I thought to myself, the more I thought about it, the more I felt that it was better to hold the property in my own hands.

So when the demolition was official, I did not inform my son, and the real estate certificate was also done by myself. After I finished it, my son and daughter-in-law learned that my daughter-in-law had a big fight with me, blaming me for registering both houses in my name.

Later, I lived in the two-bedroom apartment, and the three-bedroom apartment was rented out, and the rent was used for expenses. I don't need much money alone, I often get together with friends, go out to eat and eat, etc., I think I have worked hard all my life, and it is time to live a good old age.

Epilogue:

The daughter-in-law wants to take care of her mother's family and help her brother start a family, which is beyond reproach, but we must pay attention to proportions. If you take the money of the in-laws to supplement the mother-in-law's family, the in-laws will of course be unhappy. People's hearts are all the same, no one can ask others to be selfless and noble, but they are selfish, and they have to let others give to themselves.

After the mother-in-law's house was demolished and divided into two new houses, the mother-in-law wanted to give her son a set, which is something that many parents naturally think of. Parents are willing to give their sons because they love their sons, and the daughter-in-law cannot transfer these properties to her brother on her own initiative.

For the daughter-in-law, the younger brother is a relative, but for the mother-in-law, the daughter-in-law's brother actually has little to do with her. The mother-in-law hopes that her son will be happy, not how the daughter-in-law's brother is doing, and the daughter-in-law should be considerate of the mother-in-law and cannot only think from her own standpoint.

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To the old

When I was there, I had some property on hand, which was also a kind of security. If there is no property and the children are not filial piety, the old man's old age will be very bitter. Therefore, the old man must keep a hand, do not foolishly give all the property to his children, and plan for himself.

Author: A creator in the field of emotions, focusing on various issues in the field of emotions, welcome to pay attention. Life has warmth because of love and love, let us grow in love, and spend every day in true feelings.

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