Interpretation of emotional topics, taking you into more positive emotional worlds! I am your emotional relief, but you have to know how to let yourself go!
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Older people, no matter how reasonable they are, are far less joyful than children.
People are like this, able to accept the child's willfulness, and can not hesitate to recognize and praise from the child's "understanding". The elderly who cannot resist the shoulder, cannot lift the hand, and have various functions that decline with health are prone to "dislike".
Every generation will become the unfilial son in front of the long-term bedside of their parents, and everyone will be the elder who cheers as he watches his children toddlers.
The reproduction of human beings seems to be a great mission. In fact, it is the heartache of one generation after another.
People live a lifetime, no matter how beautiful they are when they are young, no matter how outstanding their children are when they grow up, and the most important thing is to be relatively comfortable in old age.
When people reach the age of 60, their children have lived independently and they have entered the old age. How should we spend the last few decades of our centuries?
For the sake of health, the legs are moved, which is the best "welfare" for children. After all, they are healthy, and their children have less trouble and less worry.
In order to be desolate in the evening and to be deeply cared for by too much sadness, it is necessary to master the skill of "speaking"!
When people reach the age of 60, learn to "shut up" appropriately! Especially the following 4 sentences, try not to say it! Benefits:
1: Don't repeat your illness!
As people grow older, their physical health will definitely be affected. If you have money in your hand, you should seek medical treatment in time and do not repeat it in front of your children or relatives and friends.
Truly filial children, they will be remembered only once you say it, and will take you to check on time and remind you to take your medicine on time.
Relatives and friends who are really good to you will collect all kinds of recipes for your good, and will also ask about your health from time to time.
On the contrary, unfilial children, even if you say it countless times, they will be regarded as a wind in their ears. People who don't expect you to be good, knowing your illness, will also see jokes and solve hate!
To your children, tell them where you are sick. Friends and family, don't open your mouth to deliver the news that you are suffering from pain.
Say it three times, cats and dogs are annoyed, let alone people?
2: Those who have many children, who like and dislike, don't say!
Whether it is from the perspective of elderly support or children's education, it is often the only child's family problems that are less!
At least, there is no need to turn against the elderly because they support their brothers and sisters, and they do not have to complain because their parents are not equal to their children with a bowl of water. However, as a parent, no one thought that when there are many children, it will be their biggest "hidden danger".
In particular, if there are many children, there are children who like themselves and annoy themselves. At the age of 60, don't show your eccentricity so obviously!
When the children are young, they cannot do a bowl of water, and when they are old, they do not forget to hang on the mouth of who cannot be cared for and who is intimate, which is nothing more than pulling hatred between children and planting evil consequences for themselves.
In any case, we must keep all our feelings for our children in our hearts completely, and must not leak them to anyone. Not too desolate for yourself, and not too angry for your children!
3: Don't say your own contradictions and differences with your in-laws/in-laws!
There are many people, as daughters-in-law or son-in-law, who always have too many opinions about people who are not their own biological parents. But these contradictions are problems that have not been solved for thousands of years.
If you are already old and have a daughter-in-law or son-in-law, if you have no barriers to your own contradictions with your in-laws/in-laws, it is equivalent to making your daughter-in-law or son-in-law more hearty!
Although people who are truly sensible will not sit in the right seat, they cannot escape the real humanity of "the speaker has no intention and the listener has intentions"!
What's more, those things about old sesame seeds and rotten grain have long been a thing of the past, and saying or not saying it cannot change anything. After all, it is useless to say more, what to do with it?
Some things, let the past pass, repeated mention is nothing more than to add to their own blockage, to the children out of the problem!
4: How much actual savings do you have, don't say!
All along, I have not been very sympathetic to the elderly, and I have given all my savings and family property to my children prematurely. Moreover, he is also too credulous to trust others, and tells his relatives and friends all the amount of his savings and the amount of family property...
These, in the final analysis, are all things that you need to take the initiative to grasp.
It is true that the inheritance of parents and children is an immutable law. However, when you are old, you will keep some money in your own hands, which is a necessary bottom card in your later years.
Once the filial piety of the children is not enough, at least they do not have to be sadly blinded by reaching out to their children for money.
In addition, if you tell your relatives and friends about your savings and family property, it will make people think that you are showing off and will cause unnecessary trouble in your old age. Besides, when you say that when you go out of these savings and family properties, relatives and friends come to borrow money, do you borrow or not borrow?
Advance all your savings in advance, leak your own family property, is to advance your own good fortune!
In old age, the children have lived independently, in addition to not interfering too much in the affairs of the children, the elderly must control their mouths!
Evil comes out of the mouth, it is an unchanging fact!
Many people, the heart and eyes are obviously very good, but it is because this mouth can not hold the "door", for themselves to attract endless trouble, more than worth the loss!
When people are old, it is best to learn the skill of "talking late". Some words, I want to say before I weigh whether I should or should not. Even if you say it, you have to measure it against whom you want to say it.
Don't let your children get bored and your relatives and friends hate because of one mouth, and the more you live, the more desolate you are!
At the age of 60, learn to be nice to yourself. Keeping your health and keeping your mouth shut is the real wisdom!
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